I just want to call him but I'm scared. What should I do? I love him with all my heart but yet he told me not to ever call him again. But I can't do that. What should I do? I can't move on. I just can't.
2006-11-18 05:52:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Absolutely DO NOT CALL. If he told you not to, you have to respect this and let go. If it's only been a week then of course you can't get your mind off of him. This is natural! Give yourself time to grieve. Cry. Write an angry or sad letter of all the things you want to say (Don't mail it! This is just therapy for you!) Get it all out of you. Listen to sad songs. Watch sad movies. Let yourself be sad for a bit. Then something magical happens. You cry it all out of you & you feel cleansed. You feel better.
The next stage is to get busy. Go out. Have fun. Do things that you enjoy. Treat yourself. Be with friends & family. Learn to love life again. Try not to date for a little while.
When you do start to date again, keep an open mind.
If you & your ex were meant to be then you would be. If it ended, you have to accept that & move on. You can't force it or change it. You will only push him away further if you try to cling on & call him. Let him go. The right one is still out there. Don't lose faith.
Love yourself. Then you won't need anyone. Enjoy being single. Then the right person may just fall into your lap when you least expect it. & who knows? Maybe you'll fall in love with someone else & your ex will come crawling back with his tail between his legs & begging you to come back & you won't want him. Wouldn't that be great? Stranger things have happened.
Take care you. We've all been there (a few times!) It does get better. Don't call him no matter how tempted you are! Call a friend. Or hide your phone for a while! Be strong!
2006-11-18 06:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hard to entertain yourself. Hang out with friends, go see a movie, or maybe telling somone about whats going on will help. Try calling him. The worst that could happen is that he won't answer or make a mean comment. Chances are you will meet a new guy. Just be careful and you'll be okay.
2006-11-18 05:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by caroline t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say if you can't forget him, it is because you shouldn't forget. Maybe you could give it a try.. depends however on why you broke up! If you still love him give it a shot..
And if it doesn't work..
EAt chocolate, go out with friends.. keep busy doing things
Do something exciting.. buggy jumping why not! meet new peoplee..
take the ride of your life as one says..
2006-11-18 06:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Redemption 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember all of the things you used to do when you were single? Try doing those things again. Try to keep yourself busy otherwise he will be all you can think about. If he said he never wants to speak to you again he probably said it out of anger. Whatever you do, don't call him. Men are stubborn, he will call you when he is ready to. If you call him any sooner it will probably just anger him more.
2006-11-18 06:00:53 · answer #4 · answered by jmethod81 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont say why the break up happened, but he says he doesnt ever want you to call him again??? i know you must want to just talk to him and try to make things right, but dont. give it time and see if he contacts you. but if not, move on and try really hard to just keep busy. do things you enjoy and remember that everything happens for a reason. really. it might hurt now, but things will get better. =]
2006-11-18 05:58:15 · answer #5 · answered by michelle s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a cowardly way for him to break up with you. He could have a minimum of reported to you in individual why he did no longer prefer to be with you from now on. consistent with threat it grew to become into on account which you weren't very tolerant of his hobbies. yet that would not excuse him for breaking apart with you over the telephone. i grew to become into dumped via textual content textile one time, and that i've got been given actual mad, yet purely by way of fact i wanted to break up with him first! besides, attempt to get in touch with him returned as quickly as extra, in case you sense the prefer, just to describe the way you sense, and notice if he rather is sorry for how he broke up with you. If he's not involved, then it particularly is his loss! :) positioned this right down to adventure. i comprehend it hurts, yet pass on.
2016-10-22 07:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself as busy as possible, go shopping, change your look a little bit and have a good time. He probably needs some space use this time to think and take care of yourself.
2006-11-18 06:00:03 · answer #7 · answered by honey27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay busy...hang out with friends...do something fun and exciting. as time passes u will think about him less. but it may take a long time
2006-11-18 05:56:43 · answer #8 · answered by smiley214mx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two things to do in your current position
1) write many many letters to him - telling him exactly how you feel.
2) do not send any of those letters! Never let him see them.
2006-11-18 05:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy!! Go hang with friends.
Don't call him!!!!
2006-11-18 05:54:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋