How can I test my friends if they are really my friends?

Answer 1

u can test this by like tripping in front of them and seeing if they care if u r hurt or not. but u also have to remeber that they will laugh but don't take offense to it!!!

Answer 2

Your best bet is to hang out with them and see what happens. If you guys fight a lot then it might make you a little angry but that is what normal relationships go through anyways. If your friend ditches you/ cancels plans on the last minute without reason then you should question it. Seek a Mom or Dad or close relatives help when the going gets tough. They'll probably have more experiences with friend situations so they're your best mentor. Also if you want to talk to your friend..do it! Chances are that your friend was worried about the same things you were too. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Once you start testing friends, you will never stop. you will just keep coming up with more tests. Friendship should just be accepted. Later some friends may prove not to be friends but they will do that on their own with out your mind games or making them jump through hoops. If you test Friends, I would not want you as a friend.

Answer 4

My son is mentally handicapped and asked me this same question. He had 'friends who would get him drunk (he's 24) then steal from him. I told him, tell the people that visit you all the time, to come over some day for a pizza and TV party (he pays for everything), but tell them you can't do anything else because you're pretty broke. The ones who are using him, will stay away.
Maybe you could have a party and ask everyone to bring something. The 'users' will not show up, since they're not getting something for free.

Answer 5

A friend in need is a friend indeed. You'll know when the time will be right, other wise it is impossible to figure out who will be your true friend when the time comes along. That's why I don't like to be depended on them and I don't like to have my works at their hand. I take my own decisions and responsibilities and be in my way. Then you don't have to care if someone is your true friend or not. If you are helping someone and if he/she is not your friend, that doesn't really matter, you'll feel good that you have helped them even if they didn't took you as a friend.

Answer 6

Test your freinds???

If you feel you need to "test" your friends - then you already have your answer.

The answer can be one of two...
Either You are very insecure
Or your freinds have given you reason to not trust them.

There is little to be found in relationships that is more horrific than finding that your freind doesn't trust you.

Unless you recently have won a lottery and wish to determine who is the most worthy of your gift.

Answer 7

You don't have to test a true friend.If they are in fact a friend they will let you know in ways that you will know.Also it wouldn't hurt you if you tell them that you value their friendship.A really true is hard to find.I lost my best friend on his 63 birthday.We had been very close for over 38 years.good luck.

Answer 8

i wish i knew. i've been friends with my best friend for 7 years and for about the past year she hasnt' been treating me like a real best friend in my opinion. but i think u know they're really ur friends if they are always there for u and will continue to be there for u and vice-versa.

Answer 9

if you have to ask how you can test them to see if they are really your friends, then i guess you could say that you are not theirs. i would not want to be your friend if you had to test me to find out if i were or not.

Answer 10

well i guss u cant do it right now u will find out when ur in abad day or ur sad anything ... if they are ur real friends they will try to cherr up for u & stand by u thats wot friends are for !!!!!!!!!!