Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

This is naveen aged 23 &my girl being a christian of 1yr elder but being classmates &in this relation 4more than 3yrs.Since v lived in kinda hostel life v had soo much of time to spend 2gether &v realy get a long very wel.V never had any issues despite of the factor that she use to post questions as 2how our religion effect r future. Me being absolutely frm a simple modern hindu family& me being independent since11yrs with an equality& +ve atitude is dead sure that there wud b problems but definelty theres a sol to it & wil succeed.And she use 2b my strength ultimately by supporting me4evrything.But now since she had to get bak 2her hometown now wakes up nd tels me that v had been in a fake wrld & v need 2get into reality "that it wouldnt wrk out" but the root cause is her love 2de family she loves her family &thus feels she wud b hurting dem de most.Dey *** 4m a not vry orthodox nd stuff.But now its hurting us alot but she isnt showing it&v cannot b with out eachothr.How can v proceed

2006-11-16 05:02:16 · 21 answers · asked by Naveen R 2 in Singles & Dating

hi, am 18 years old in kollege, i am good looking, but i dont think it deserves this much interest......, girls tend to stare at me very much taking into account i dont like having direct eye contact with a girl and i never talked to them, i dont know what do they want or what are they thinking about....any clues?
in a lecture when i accidently look to anygirl i find mostly they are looking back at me :S, i never had a gf and i wouldnt like because of the breakup end issue so i dont know much bout it so please tell me why :)

2006-11-16 05:01:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-16 05:01:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I've been wanting to ask this girl out for some time now. She is really, really shy. She's the type who won't start a conversation but will talk when someone starts first. We don't really "know" each other, not even names, but we've talked once in the library. She leaves directly at lunch because she takes the bus home. I notice that from a distance she will glance at me and see what I'm doing, then she'll hurry to the bus. We don't have any classes together so its really hard to get in touch with her. My question is this, how do I start something with this really really shy girl? Should I try and get her email or something to get to know her first or should I flat out ask her out so we can get to know each other there? She's really shy so I don't want to come on too strong, but enough to make my point. If anybody has any ideas on how to start something worth while and any ideas on places to ask her out to, please post them.
SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!!!

2006-11-16 05:00:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wmy husband is good looking too. am very worried whether he will love me later or not.

2006-11-16 05:00:05 · 8 answers · asked by c s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to find "Icho". Otherwise known as Anthony Vanniasinkam. We were very good friends and I had to go offline for a while. When I returned, I couldn't find him! I'd at least like to know if he's still alive!

2006-11-16 04:59:00 · 3 answers · asked by rjuned 1 in Friends

If a man doesn't physically touch you, just throws objects at you and swings wood at your head. Is it still domestic violence?

2006-11-16 04:58:22 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother is living alone for the first time in her life ( my father/ her husband of 24 yrs died in August) and I worry about her sooo much. She won't accept help from us ( finicial or physical ) and she spends alot of time alone. How can we get her to see that she isn't a burden and we really just want to help?

2006-11-16 04:57:47 · 19 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Family

he loves me and says we will be fine and wants to have the whole relationship thing but he doesnt want the title. he doesnt want to see other people either. he wants me to love him and everything but i cant wait around forever. is it worth it. does he want something else. how do i make him understand he could lose me before he actually does?

2006-11-16 04:57:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What happens to victims and survivors of relationships with narcissists after the relationship is over?

2006-11-16 04:56:40 · 8 answers · asked by zadanliran 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal for me to look forward to seeing someone at a certain place and time, like say, in a coffeeshop, who has never spoken to me before or even looked at me ever for that matter?

2006-11-16 04:56:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mate moved away from where i live ages ago. She had on and off relationships with man. Not that its her fault, she is down 2 earth and gorgeous aswell. She works hard she is real. She dont change herself for nobody. What u see is what u get. The problem is she dosent get along with her mum. She dont have a dad. She was abused by her mothers family but noone believes her even her mum. Her brothers and sisters take their mums side.She is the only one in the family who cant get a visa. So she overstayed where she is living now. She cant travel to go anywhere. She is 21 very intelligent and beautiful. She has to put up with **** at work otherwise if she quits she will sleep in the streets. Her home is in Zimbabwe where she cant get a job, her abusive uncle is there and everything is very expensive. When she gets a man she feels happy but they all use her and dump her. 4YRS she has been single. Most of her mates take her kindness for weekness and find her stupid coz shes from Africa.

2006-11-16 04:56:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If your boyfriend told you that he has been wanting to propose, but wont because he hasn't found a ring yet what would you think, and how would you act about the situation. My boyfriend told me this a couple weeks ago. I told him that it's not the ring that's binding, it's the fact that he's willing to give that commitment. Honestly I didn't think he would want to to something like this for another couple of years... and I have not been pressuring him at all... HE is the one that brought it up. How do I act now that I know that is how he feels (and I would accept). Has he already "technically" PROPOSED?

2006-11-16 04:56:09 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I all I said was I wouldnt go out with a fatty bloater

2006-11-16 04:55:39 · 51 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

does any one know about the horoscope for her for the year

2006-11-16 04:55:07 · 4 answers · asked by D D 2 in Friends

2006-11-16 04:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by X*~BABS~*X 2 in Singles & Dating

help. I did the varsity football team.

2006-11-16 04:54:08 · 29 answers · asked by Aner 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a dance tomorrow, and its not formal, what should i do? what should i wear? what if a guy asks u to dance? help!!!

2006-11-16 04:53:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am I being spiteful? My parents separated when I was 14, got divorced when I was 16, BUT that is NOT the problem. After they separated, I chose to live with Dad. Then, when I was 18, my dad moved some gf that I never met in. I was sorta ok with that. I understood he needed company that I couldn't offer. Well, after about 6 months, she convinced him to kick me out. I had no job, and wasn't even outta high school yet! ( I was held back a year) But they went ahead and kicked me out. So my bf & I got a place together. Then close to moving day, Dad's gf decided to leave dad. Before she left she told me that i didn't HAVE to move out now.5 years later, I am still upset with him. I hardly speak to him anymore, only at holidays. He never even apologized!! How do I forgive?

2006-11-16 04:52:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Can anyone ever be too old for you to date even if you get along and you have great communication. You understand each other and try to support and always be there for them?

2006-11-16 04:52:44 · 8 answers · asked by Baby Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a picture in my sexy little red riding hood costume for holloween and he asked me if i do magic. why did he ask that

2006-11-16 04:52:39 · 9 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

this will be my last question.intended for those of you out there who have been throught something like this.I have been married 14yrs I'm 32 and my wife is 33.we are still married and she is up north living with her parents but coming home soon or so she says.I found out she is having an affair with some guy in his twenties who lives with mommy and seems to be whispering candy in her ear.I'v givin her affection support and never abused her in anyway.we have a house together and 2 beautiful children together ,a daughter 12 and son 6 who she has taken with her to see her secret love,thats a big no,no dont we all agree?any way she can't seem to make up her mind at times about wether she is coming or staying up there,maybe because this guy has no foundation and is supposedly going through a divorce.she does suffer from deppresion and drinks alot.can I save my marriage,I want to,remember we have 14 yrs history together and I do not want to start all over agian.I want to grow old with them

2006-11-16 04:52:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i used to help people to go through there lifes and i am happy each time some1 thank me 4 doing something good or being able to help, concerning me i am facing big problem and i need to change, i always act b4 i think spacilay with men this is why all my relations dosent last and i always regrate, ppl cant belive how i was able to advice and help many ppl and i cant help myself,is there any 1 can give a great advice that might change my life and give me new hope to have good lasting relation.thanks

2006-11-16 04:51:49 · 10 answers · asked by wiwi 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to put this poem before class starts and while nobody is there. This is to prevent anyone from seeing who put it. As for people reading it nobody really cares about that stuff. Also it will be addressed to her but my name won't be written and shes always sitting in the same place since the beginning of the year. Also tell me how i should decorate the poem. I have an idea but i want other opinions.

To Pamela, the Princess of Mexico

When i think of the perfect girl
You are the only one that comes to mind

With the intelligence of a genius,
Eyes of an angel,
Hair as soft as silk,
And a smile that lights up a room,
No wonder you are God's only work of art

You're an amazing girl, an amazing person
You're special and irreplaceable in my heart

2006-11-16 04:49:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I guess they think that they are helping......?????

2006-11-16 04:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by D'antwon ;-)~ 2 in Singles & Dating

I tried to push the L word around a little to hard and he's not ready How can i show him i'm sorry, i still love him, I respect the fact thats he's not ready, and that i'm willing to wait.

2006-11-16 04:48:46 · 26 answers · asked by mindblowin8358 1 in Singles & Dating

I like 2 girls. One is good, conservative, sophiticated, smart and responsible, the other one is totally opposite: bad, ditzy, rude, and irresponsible.

2006-11-16 04:48:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am at this moment disgusted with some members of my gender, some of us do the stupidest, most desperate things in order to "keep our men". some of us never realize our worth or that we are quality people that deserve a heck of a lot better than we give ourselves credit for. Am I alone in this thought?? Input would be appreciated.

2006-11-16 04:46:59 · 17 answers · asked by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 in Singles & Dating

ok well i just found out that the guy i like likes me back but my friend told me that he used 2 smoke but she doesnt kno if he still does. so what do i do. could he really quit that fast? how can i find out if he does w/o being nosey. i really need answers!! he just turned 13 so plz help me!!

2006-11-16 04:45:29 · 13 answers · asked by Muhh-liss-Uhh 2 in Singles & Dating

is it really possible to be in love with someone you've never physically touched?

2006-11-16 04:45:24 · 3 answers · asked by jess0866 2 in Singles & Dating