A hindu and a christitan marraige would succeed?

Question

This is naveen aged 23 &my girl being a christian of 1yr elder but being classmates &in this relation 4more than 3yrs.Since v lived in kinda hostel life v had soo much of time to spend 2gether &v realy get a long very wel.V never had any issues despite of the factor that she use to post questions as 2how our religion effect r future. Me being absolutely frm a simple modern hindu family& me being independent since11yrs with an equality& +ve atitude is dead sure that there wud b problems but definelty theres a sol to it & wil succeed.And she use 2b my strength ultimately by supporting me4evrything.But now since she had to get bak 2her hometown now wakes up nd tels me that v had been in a fake wrld & v need 2get into reality "that it wouldnt wrk out" but the root cause is her love 2de family she loves her family &thus feels she wud b hurting dem de most.Dey *** 4m a not vry orthodox nd stuff.But now its hurting us alot but she isnt showing it&v cannot b with out eachothr.How can v proceed

Answer 1

Chances are good that you succeed.i know that this is kinda challenging.But if she truely love you and care about you she would be determined to break the barrier of religion.its upto her to decide whether to hurt you or her family.she will make her choices.all what i suggest you is to stand by her always.just be there for her.I suggest you to respect and support her decision.if she wishes to not hurt her family by marrying you then please support her.or if she chooses to marry you and leave her family behind you are obliged to reconnect her with her family.Good luck to the two you.hope you succeed.

Answer 2

For years Indians had an orthodox mindset. They couldn't imagine inter caste marriages. They had a conception that marriages are only possible in the same community and caste. But it's not the matter of same caste or religion it is the matter of understanding and compatibility. It is how well the both of them understand each other's need. It was necessary that you have to belong to the same community or caste to understand your spouse better. The problem starts when two people from totally different background, religions and lifestyle come together and find themselves in a totally new environment that causes the differences.

Remember marriage is not just coming together of two individuals, it is also coming together of two families. As it is to sustain a marriage it is important that there is effort from both sides then only a marriage lasts and then you add the aspect of different cultures, habits and religion which adds to the already existing stres. A successful marriage is like a good recipe whose main ingredients are love, commitment, understanding, concern and togetherness. Remember "A happy marriage is a long conversation which always seems too short."

When we talk about mental compatibility between husband and wife we have seen that not only in arranged marriage but even after many years of courtship in love marriages this problem exist because when we meet before marriage we are at our best to impress and we start accepting each other the way we like to see each other. But gradually after marriage when we slip into our natural self thats the time we have to accept each other as we are, in most of the cases the real self is not what we wanted to see and then begins the problems with the person whom we have loved and with whom you have to spend your life. So it's important that when you love a person love him or her the way he/she is and not the way you want him/her to be. Then only you can be happy.

Remember "Success in marriage does not come merely through Finding the Right Mate, but through Being the Right Mate."
Take time and make up your mind (dont rush), before you take the plunge.
Good luck>r

Answer 3

.Actually there is nothing like that anyone cannot live without a particular individual. It is all state of mind.,,If u cannot be married couple then.its . ok ...,treat the relation as the best friendship.But if u decide to marry with the girl of another religion,,then keep it in the mind that u never enter fear each other in religious matter and confirm that in futUre ur children will be Hindu being the heritage of father;s religion..,,if both of u agrees then .... ONLY ,,, no problem. otherwise better to separate with ease and a nice friendly smile

Answer 4

If this relationship is going to work then you will both have to respect each others feelings. It could work but if parents interfere and try to tear a relationship apart then there will more then likely be a lot of problems. Maybe she is having second thoughts on trying to make this relationship work. You need to sit down and have a long talk and find out how each other feels. Your relationship is just like an other relationship it will take a lot of love and caring to make everything work out for you.

Answer 5

Depends how important your religion is to each of you. Sometimes a big problem comes when you have children and there becomes a debate over what religion to raise them, what holidays to celebrate & traditions to follow. Some couples can 'mix' their traditions nicely, some can't.

How would both of your families feel about it... but also how important is their opinion to you anyway? I consider my family's opinion but I have to live my life my own way even if that hurts them. Most of the time they will eventually accept it even if they don't like at first.

Answer 6

I depends on you 2 i mean how serious r u that you are willing to sacrifice ur "love" of 3 yrs for a religion, i mean ask that girl, how is important to her YOU whom she can see be with or religion and culture which is a debate and this is not the first time that inter recial marriage is being held i mean there have been soo many couples if they love each other to hell with evey thing else "JAB MIYA BIWI RAZI TO KYA KARE GA KAZI" , zyada kuch nahi par shadi

Answer 7

Do everything, but don't play with religion. I'm sorry to say that bu its the fact: " that the marraige of a hindu and christian is worst than marrying ur own sister. So pls forget her. And don't take any big decision , because it concerns with ur future. May be in ur this decision lies evryone's happiness. In future if u need my any help I will be always there . Take care.

Answer 8

Nishi, in spite of in case you marry in another country, you will desire to stick to the technique of specific marriage act on your marriage to be valid in India. extremely of marriage registrar, you will would desire to placed observe in embassy. I dont think of they're going to do this for travellers, that stuff is meant for persons who stay in another country. In Indian marriage act, human beings of two religions can in effortless terms get married as according to specific Marriage Act, so which you will would desire to coach a month earlier the marriage and the expertise would be displayed for all to ascertain. frequently they dont touch mom and dad. yet on your case, seeing your names human beings will comprehend that a Hindu woman is marrying Muslim guy and there is an threat somebody would tell your mom and dad. there is likewise an larger scrutiny in such marriages at the instant because of the fact of allegations of love jihad. i'm hoping you theory all factors earlier choosing this marriage, because of the fact this would be a factor of no return for you. your loved ones would disown you, acquaintances would evade you, in-rules may be unfavourable to you. If the marriage doesnt artwork for any reason, nevertheless you won't be conventional back on your loved ones.

Answer 9

Everything gets adjusted once you start living together. But should be patience. The problem could start after you both give birth to the first Kid. Later to you will be habbituated to everything. No worries. Wish u happy Marriage life.

Answer 10

I wouldn't think if the person is a true Christian of The Lord, false religions would not be in thier vocabulary.