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hi, am 18 years old in kollege, i am good looking, but i dont think it deserves this much interest......, girls tend to stare at me very much taking into account i dont like having direct eye contact with a girl and i never talked to them, i dont know what do they want or what are they thinking about....any clues?
in a lecture when i accidently look to anygirl i find mostly they are looking back at me :S, i never had a gf and i wouldnt like because of the breakup end issue so i dont know much bout it so please tell me why :)

2006-11-16 05:01:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

guys, help, not mock, i know college, but kollege is cooler for me....

2006-11-16 05:09:10 · update #1

19 answers

hey buddy,

Heh i share the same issue, but i just finished highschool, and you know what girlz cant keep looking at me ahh!!!!. It is annoying to the level that you might think.. o.k.. is there something wrong with me, or something on my face lol.. but its love man, or should I say the way we look that makes the girlz attracted to us. Now the thing is here, you got no GF.. i had a gf.. sooo you need to get a gf, and i know it sounds kinda weird to tell you to get one, but, if you do.. following months/years hoepfully of friendship, and care will show you 1 BIG result. Neext time you pass a girl, or a girl stares at you.. YOU wont think of it as much.. cause you know you o ready got a soulmate-- you GF. Now times to times us boys will be sometimes doing things that our gf's dont like i admit that, meeting new ones at bars... -_-.. o boy.. got killed almost hah. But yea man, its completely normal they looking for what us guys have in value, and if we pass, they just cant stop looking or flirting..
Take some time, and meet neew girls.. and i meen SOME.. till you find one your time or in your interests. Then take her out more and more.. well you point.

Anyways dude, wish you best..Have fun ;)
Shawn Miller
Toronto Ontario

2006-11-16 05:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shawn Miller 1 · 2 0

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2016-10-19 04:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You must be attractive as you've said. They are thinking that you are attractive. You've caught their attention. It's a natural, subconscious reaction. A good looking 18 yr old. Apparantly if you are noticing that they are staring you must be a little interested, even if you don't realize it, or you would not be interested in the fact that they are staring. You simply wouldn't care. If all that's is holding you back from dating/relationships is the break up thing. Don't worry about it. It's all a part of life. You don't have to get in a serious relationship with anyone. That's what dating is about. Getting to know people. Male or Female. It's all in fun. Just be honest and be yourself.

2006-11-16 05:10:24 · answer #3 · answered by sxyalmond 2 · 3 0

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Girls wouldn't really stare at guys if they think he's ugly. If you catch some girls looking @ you & they don't look away; they just want ur attention & if the girls look away, they're just embarrased that they just got caught staring. Don't worry about ur acne too much. I know it's difficult, but it's possible. I was able to when i had a whole mess of acne and scars. Tho i went 2 go c a dermatologist. It really helped. She gave me this cream called benzoyl peroxide which helped alot. You can find the cream in any drug store. I also drink this aloe vera juice that's supposed to help the skin. Remember, looks aren't everything...enjoy life! And if ur skin bothers u that much, i recomend u seeing a dermatologist. That's y they're here, to help us w/ our skin problems. I really hope this helps! Good luck! =)

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hi, am 18 years old in kollege, i am good looking, but i dont think it deserves this much interest......, girls tend to stare at me very much taking into account i dont like having direct eye contact with a girl and i never talked to them, i dont know what do they want or what are they thinking...

2015-08-05 22:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Well they may be looking for a sacrificial virgin for the pagan new year rites, I suggest you find a girl to save you before it's too late!
Seriously, you'd better get used to it, by the time you're my age you are called a terrible person if you refuse going out with any girl who asks (and most single women my age are single for no good reasons unless just thawed out of a glacier), even in the work place you'll get harassed by other employees and bosses about not wanting to date other employees/bosses (women can sue, men get laughed at). So you might better learn right now to nod, wave, smile, blow a kiss, etc. etc. and sometimes they will get so annoyed they will NEVER look at you again. Don't use ever the "gay" excuse unless you really are gay because then the girl you wanted to go out with will lose interest and it will be men hitting on you instead. Believe it or not there are people out there who don't live for sex, and there are women out there who aren't just looking for a man with a house, nice car and high paying job. Hindsight is 20/20, and being afraid of trying to make friends may save some trouble now but cause plenty of regrets later in life. Just don't try being something you are not, but be brave enough to be who you are, and if you don't like what's going on be like Cartman on "South Park" and leave. The eggheads will throw "social anxiety disorder" and "low self esteem" at you, they could be true, but you ultimately are the only one who can help yourself.

2006-11-16 05:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

You sound like a shy good looking boy, women are going to be all over you because they don't see you are scared they see you are mysterious and that is sexy!!!.

My brother is like you, he is good looking but he is very very shy and he used to run away from girls which just made the situation worse, my bro used to have to run back to the house from school because girls would run after him to try to get a date with him.

Make yourself more accesible and don't worry, nobody is asking you to make a lifetime commitment but you might be missing opportunities to get great new friends or a girlfriend you will really like.

And honey, there is no way to avoid the pain of a breakup, but think of it this way, because of this fear you are missing the opportunity to live your life, as a married woman I can tell you there is nothing more wonderful than falling in love, after a lifetime you don't remember the breakups, you just remember the good times you had with that special person. Don't be afraid to have a little pain, believe me it is all worthy at the end.

Don't let life pass you by.

2006-11-16 05:07:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 3 · 4 0

They're in awe wondering how someone could be in college and actually never had a girlfriend.

Kidding!... I don't know man you tell us. Obviously you're not a ladies man considering you're in college and you've never had a girlfriend BUT there is hope. So why not try "talking" to them. Ahhhh now theres a novel idea.

Learn how to talk to them or die a virgin its your choice Romeo. quit worrying about the break-up in your imaginary relationship LMAO! and start thinking about the present. You're way ahead of yourself killer. Focus on the present

2006-11-16 05:14:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

hey bro yup u got a tricky problem but am sorry cant help u neither coz dont hav any gf myself. the only thing i came up with is that coz u r a very gentlemanly kind of person just wondering about ur own business perhaps thats why people hav more interest in u.but i think its a lot better thing then if every 1 ignores u so just enjoy the expressions of others when they c u

2006-11-16 05:13:32 · answer #9 · answered by wondering for someone 1 · 3 0

bro dont listen to this people kollege sounds cooler i agree and i have the same thing but i like it because that means girls like you and i just feel like a celebrity but the problem is im shy to talk to them lol.

2013-09-19 15:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Guy 1 · 0 0

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