Family & Relationships - 16 November 2006

what the best way to punish your boyfriend wen he did something wrong and i dnt mean a litllte something wrong...i cant be bovered to just stay in a stress with him but he needs to realise what hes done wrong..and i dont no how to go about it ?

2006-11-16 05:52:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

9 years so far...

2006-11-16 05:51:00 · 23 answers · asked by PEBBLES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do germans always know better than you. i run an int cafe and they keep telling me i should do this, when they dont know how things work

2006-11-16 05:50:54 · 6 answers · asked by Snot Me 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-16 05:50:53 · 6 answers · asked by lucyloulady 2 in Singles & Dating

guys when are u telling the truth? and y do u lie? and what do u lie about?

2006-11-16 05:49:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He says he is but i always have the feeling that he isn't. He has a crazy work schedule and works a lot of nights. We have a 9 month old son that also takes a lot of time. He rarely comes on to me and i am the one that has to initiate any romance. Sometimes i feel like he would be happy if we never did it again. We had problems in the past about porn so i thought that when he stopped that he would pay more attention to me in the bedroom. He has stopped looking at porn (that i know of) but his attention level has not seemed to rise. Should i just accept that he might have a low sex drive and initiate it all the time so i can get some, or should i be worried that he is not that into me anymore. Like i said, he says he loves me and that he is attracted to me, but i guess he does not show it as much as i would like. I have tried talking to him about it and he just denies it and tells me it is all in my head or he is tired from working nights and when he goes back on days it will be different, but it never is.

2006-11-16 05:49:20 · 9 answers · asked by micah z 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i only meet up with this guy by chance if we are out in town.hes has been chasing for ever!!!we have only met up 3 times.its difficult as we live in different towns.he hasnt asked me out on a date tho.we have kissed but he knows of my previous 6 year relationship

2006-11-16 05:48:33 · 15 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

We have a very closely knit family and I have a large family as well. My sister has come to town twice since my baby was born 4 weeks ago. Her job allows her to travel. She also came on my due date. I was overdue and she had to go back home for work. That's three times in one month to see me and my baby. We live 5 hours apart, driving.

That's not all. She has been SO MUCH of a help, loves my baby immensely and the baby loves her too. I call her "Nanny Number One."

I have been thinking about asking her to be my daughter's Godmother although she is already an aunt. She deserves some distinction and I can't perish the thought. What do you all think? Please keep in mind that, yes I do understand the meaning and purpose of Godparenting.

If I decide to do this, I'd make an announcement when my family are all together next Thursday, Thanksgiving Day.

I am married and have one other daughter, FYI - whom loves her more than life as well. She's good with her, too. Thanks!

2006-11-16 05:48:05 · 22 answers · asked by Sleek 7 in Family

How many of you feel that the court system is fair when it comes to child support? I am a firm believer that a man should take care of his child/children but I am curious to find out what many of you think. I will use my example based my kids (I have 3 in my current marriage and a older son in Texas). State of Missouri uses the a formula that takes into consideration the difference in incomes between the divorcing parties, overnight visits, and insurance and tuitions paid. So I have to pay 825 for the three in my marriage according to the formula. However the one child I have in Texas is more 335. I have been blessed to be able to take care of my kids but it is a burden at times. So what do you think?? Do you feel the courts over charge when it comes to support?? Do you feel that it is not enough??? Give examples if you can??

2006-11-16 05:46:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister called today and while we were talking she out of the blue said, " I told Jim (her husband) and the kids that we might be going down there for Christmas.." I said "you mean here?" and she said, "Well you know the kids have a really long Christmas break." Excuse me? Did I miss something..like the part where I invite you to my house for Christmas??
She just invited herself without asking if it's okay with me and my husband. She didn't say when or for how long or anything and apparently she and her husband are making plans...????
My husband and are having hard year and wanted to spend time together this year. This has never been an issue before since my husband is in the military and we've been overseas since 1995.
How can I say nicely that I'd rather she visit at a different time and that she ask about that specific time and make sure it's okay for us??? It's so annoying because I feel like I have to be the bad guy.
Frustrated!

2006-11-16 05:46:15 · 15 answers · asked by cyndi b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband came in for 15 days and he is leaving saturday morning to go back to guam and he will not be back till after our 1 year anniversary.... (he is in the Navy) So it is 3 months we have been married tomorrow and i want to know if yall have any ideas on what i can do to make it really romantic and exciting??????

2006-11-16 05:44:36 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to start a single dad group ,,wud u or they be interested

2006-11-16 05:44:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

he told me he didnt have a girl turns out hes getting married how do i hurt him like he did me

2006-11-16 05:44:16 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband was out of work for about 5 months and now has a job that only pays $8.00 and hour. We have gotten help with food and clothing and bills, but Christmas is coming up and we don't know how we are going to make gifts or buy gifts for our loved ones and our kids especially. I usually make gift baskets and even those aren't too cheap when you have little to no money coming in.

2006-11-16 05:44:11 · 4 answers · asked by hanevkidz2 2 in Family

how do i make things better i love him so much but he hurts me so bad were both in the 12th and have a baby together and been 2gether for a while now. he doesnt tlk to me at school and ignores me.i dont know evry things just so weird i asked if he was cheating and he said he knows how hes with but im always on his ***. i mean if he payed attention to me tlked to me and acted like we are a couple there wouldnt be no probs. pleezzzz hlp

2006-11-16 05:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay im so stuck i mean i dont know what to get him i love him so much but hes so hard to shop for advice plz....its also our 1 year anniversary and xmas so yeah help me plz.

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2006-11-16 05:44:06 · 10 answers · asked by the_dutchess420 1 in Singles & Dating

Look, I'm feeling like I've lost control and I'm such a sexual human being that if I can get up and "dance" than a realtionship will never work out for me anyway. . .
I need to shape up quick. . .how can I drop 20lbs in a month????
I know it can be done I would just love some suggestions. . .
I've gained 30lbs since July. . . I know what I've done "wrong" and now my goal is to take 45 off and keep it off.
Keeping in mind sex has always been a great work out for me and honestly how I've stayed "active" ontop of my two miles / day run/walking previously. . .But, I'm single now so SEX is not an option. . .

2006-11-16 05:43:51 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive met him. The man I want to spend the rest of my life with. We've had problem after problem after problem soldifying a relationship. I know what youre thinking but before you answer know that Im not stupid I know this man is for me and Im for him. Ive been praying for whatever is holding us back to go away but I feel as if God answer that prayer for everyone but me? So does prayer really work when it comes to matters of the heart?

2006-11-16 05:42:45 · 23 answers · asked by Donya J 1 in Singles & Dating

and get the feeling that he feels the same, but we are both too shy to get past flirting and actually say and do something about it.
dont ask me how i know he feels the same............i just know he does from the way he acts around me and the things he says to me............

2006-11-16 05:42:08 · 13 answers · asked by life_vamp 2 in Singles & Dating

ill be moving either today or tomorrow and there is this guy that i like and we will be an hour or 2 away but he doesnt want to drive that far all the time so i need ur help snd im leaving it up to u?

2006-11-16 05:41:37 · 16 answers · asked by missouri_horse_blue 2 in Singles & Dating

do girls like guys with tattoos and piercings? does it depend on the tattos, adn were the piercings are? if you want to see my ink, click on my avavtar and go to my 360 profile, the piercings are in my ears, non were else, just wanted a female perspective, thanks in advance.

2006-11-16 05:41:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is in a psychiactric hospital, my nephew who is my godson is being looked after his grandparents ( my mum and dad) very well.
Social services have been notified, and despite our attempts to assure the doctors nurses e.t.c of the strength of our family unit, they have called a meeting with the school S.E.N next week to discuss my nephews needs in school.
as far as we are aware he has no needs, we have not been informed of any and his only 'issue' is that he sometimes has an accident, which is not uncommon in young boys.
i feel so tearful, trying to cope with my sister in hospital, my mum and dad worrying and full time work i feel like i might explode.
can anyone tell me how social services referrals work, am i right to be worried? i saw nanny 911 last night, a kid tried to stab his mother with a corkscrew- why arent social services involved there!!!!

2006-11-16 05:40:53 · 13 answers · asked by flossie 2 in Family

2006-11-16 05:40:42 · 12 answers · asked by savvy s 2 in Singles & Dating

please help me :( im so tired of there crap

2006-11-16 05:38:01 · 24 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

well i called my guy and his bro. answered and he handed the phone to my bf. then i came over and my guy was in the shower and hid brother was like hitting on me and tried to kiss me. he is so hott though! he is only 1 year older. should i go with him instead? he is alot nicer!

2006-11-16 05:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by the helper 1 in Friends

In a honeymoon. where can we rent a cabin not far from the town,

2006-11-16 05:37:44 · 8 answers · asked by Pollita 2 in Weddings

me and my cousin are close she just chats about her life and i chat about mine obviously i dont think of her in any way i shouldnt i treat her like a sister but her mother has been makin advances towards me now i have taken no action for/against it but its comin to the stage it is getting tempting any idea what to do

2006-11-16 05:37:28 · 30 answers · asked by David 2 in Family

My husband and I are going away on a cruise to Puerto Rico. I have been looking forward to this for many many years and cannot wait to go. The only problem is my 5 year old daughter. I cannot take a child on a cruise.
My cat agreed to watch the child for us while we are away on our trip and has even offered to drive her to and from school on a daily basis.
The only problem is that i'm not sure if the cat is ready to handle this kind of responsibility. I mean what if something happens at school that needs my attention or what if my cat decides to throw another one of his wild parties with his wild neighborhood cat friends??
I really want to go on my cruise but i'm not sure if I should. Would you go if you were in my shoes?

2006-11-16 05:36:58 · 31 answers · asked by flushing06 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Tall/ brunet/ thin/ love animals/ all about you!!!!

2006-11-16 05:36:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can't help it, S-E-X is my addiction, Is their a AA meeting for Sex addiction.....

2006-11-16 05:36:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating