me and my cousin are close she just chats about her life and i chat about mine obviously i dont think of her in any way i shouldnt i treat her like a sister but her mother has been makin advances towards me now i have taken no action for/against it but its comin to the stage it is getting tempting any idea what to do
2006-11-16 05:37:28 · 30 answers · asked by David 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i havent taken any action an at first i thought she was just windin me up but this has been 7 months so i have ignored it for 7 months
i do not think of my cousin in that way so no chance of that happening
2006-11-16 05:43:37 · update #1
my cousin is not coming on to me neither me or her think of each other that way although there has been millions of people mistaken us for a couple
2006-11-16 05:47:09 · update #2
im trying to spend alot of time with my cousin as she her sister mum and dad and moving away to Spain next year
2006-11-16 05:49:40 · update #3
in responce to one comment
shes 45/still married/fathers sisters
and she is
2006-11-16 06:00:45 · update #4
Just keep in mind that SHE'S YOUR AUNT!
2006-11-16 05:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by lynnca1972 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your fathers sister who is 45 and still married to her husband and the mother of your cousin, while we may assume that you are maybe 25 years old.
Assuming that your Aunt is super hot for her age, minus all the potential family complications, if you are inclined to this temptation, maybe what you do is just wait until they are on the verge of moving, then do her one time and let it go. Seems the safest way to put this urge to rest and get it out of your system, while hopefully keeping this a secret. Oh, and be sure that she isn't going to become pregnant with your child. You'd be uncle dad.
Having said this, if I were going to go down this dark road, I'd be looking at the cousin and not the aunt.
2006-11-16 13:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by seattlego 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the aunt is jealous of your relationship with your cousin. I would try to spend time with your cousin when your aunt is not around. Avoid the aunt as much as you can. If you give in to the temptation chances are you will regret it and it will ruin the relationship with your cousin.
2006-11-16 13:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by yahoomania 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well done for not giving into this pathetic woman.Why dont you &your cousin go out more instead of being around her mother.If you give into this LOSER it will definitely come out in the end and you will lose the friendship of your cousin. Plain and simple A GOOD FRIENDSHIP WITH YOUR COUSIN OR A FLING WITH HER MOTHER WHICH YOU WILL DEFINITELY WITHOUT ANY HESITATION REGRET AFTERWARDS. Good luck and stay strong.
2006-11-16 18:29:26 · answer #4 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming your aunt (the mother) married into your family and is not the sister of someone in your family?
Even thought no actual biological relationship, stay away from her. Bad news.
Or you could go for it and you could all go on Jerry Springer.
2006-11-16 13:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by DivaDynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't go there- there is a nicer person or an easier liasion to be had.
your cousin might never speak to you again and you will lose that friendship and break up a family.
tell her mother you care for her as a friend, but you dont feel that way about her , ask her why she is interested in you above all people
lust can mess you up-dont act on impulse this time my friend
2006-11-16 13:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by flossie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep saying to yourself she's your aunt and not go there as would cause probs then would be imaginable. And you'd lose your cousin in the process as a friend which i think you wouldn't want and is she your aunt through marriage?
2006-11-16 16:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by sez75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
David, all I can say is do not be alone with her. Send her my way if she wants a young hot...oh never mind, she might kill me.
Probably she has worn your uncle out by now!
as for what you can do....
Call it brotherly advice:
Think about it an w@nk, think about it and find someone at pub, do anything but give in.
You and others in your family may never forgive you.
2006-11-16 18:19:50 · answer #8 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're tempted to do something doesn't mean that you should. It might be difficult for you to deny yourself... but you absolutely must. It would just be a disaster if you gave into your desires in this instance. Perhaps you should distance yourself from the situation.
2006-11-16 13:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be easy to get into a situation with your Aunt,but how the hell would you get out of it?She could cause a big family bust-up once the novelty wears off for you.Be very care-ful.
2006-11-16 13:45:17 · answer #10 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cousins are one thing, Aunts are another. It sounds like trouble and best avoided. It's easy to get into but much harder to get out of these things - these situations nearly always end in tears.
2006-11-16 13:40:59 · answer #11 · answered by satyricon_uk 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋