he told me he didnt have a girl turns out hes getting married how do i hurt him like he did me
2006-11-16 05:44:16 · 31 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he stayed sending me text messages about how he wouldnt hurt me. The thing is that we still calls to see how im doing everyday what does that mean
2006-11-16 06:06:08 · update #1
Get away from him and stay away. Why allow yourself to be used and abused by something as trifling as this dog. Getting even is an immature, childish reaction. Don't give him the satisfaction of continuing to care for him. You do, so don't deny it. U are suffering now and making yourself an emotional cripple by depending on any future you may have. Just think, if he weren't trash he wouldn't be cheating on his wife.
2006-11-16 05:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Donald W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How To Hurt A Player
2017-01-11 05:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I heard the best way to get back at someone is to live better than them. Which of course i always thought was a load of bull crap, but when i last saw my ex boyfriend, and told him i am in a better relationship, have a good job and a good life, he felt worse than he ever did before.
So its true, moving on is the best way to hurt someone. When you get rejected, they want you to feel pain, it makes them feel like they were wanted, to not care makes them feel unloved.
Revenge is hollow, and will not help you.
Then again, if you do want to get back at him, im thinking his girlfriend doesnt know about you... wonder what would happen if she found out? *cough cough*
2006-11-16 05:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by mettophobic 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Don't add insult to injury. You would only hurt yourself more. Pick yourself up and stand tall. That is what you and him both need to see. Be happy for him. I know is hard and you can't see it right now. You will. You will learn and be stronger because of it. Keep yourself busy. And dont second guess yourself. Maybe this happened for a good reason. That maybe being that the one who is meant for you is out there waiting. You will be fine. Know that.
2006-11-16 05:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would concentrate on trying to hurt him. The best thing you could do, would be to walk away from the situation and never look back. And, If he cared for you at all that would hurt him.
2006-11-16 05:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jody 829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u had more feelings invested, he will never hurt like u did. its best to just let it go. he will be more bothered by the fact that u dont talk to him anymore, than if u reacted in a hurtful way.
2006-11-16 05:50:39 · answer #6 · answered by Renee G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know he was a player, you shouldn't be surprised that he hurt you. You can't hurt him because he doesn't care about you-sorry but you need to face it.
Living well is the best revenge- live well.
2006-11-16 05:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simple, By getting over it. It's not him that got something for you it's you who has something for him. The only thing that can happen is to get hurt again.
Raise you standards or everyone will walk all over you.
2006-11-16 05:51:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life,
2 wrongs don't make a right remember the Chinese saying
"Before you set out on revenge, you first dig two graves".
2006-11-16 05:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by markm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel i think that u should tell him straight up that u dont like the fact he played u! and tell him that he is a dumb *** and that he is missing out on the best girl in the whole world and then just go off with his best friend or something
2006-11-16 05:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by sexi girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋