Ive met him. The man I want to spend the rest of my life with. We've had problem after problem after problem soldifying a relationship. I know what youre thinking but before you answer know that Im not stupid I know this man is for me and Im for him. Ive been praying for whatever is holding us back to go away but I feel as if God answer that prayer for everyone but me? So does prayer really work when it comes to matters of the heart?
2006-11-16 05:42:45 · 23 answers · asked by Donya J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No offense, but don't you thing God has more important issues to deal with? For instance, the conflict between Israelis and Palestinians? Or perhaps genocide in the Darfur region of Sudan? Maybe the aids epidemic in Africa? Or what about battered women and children? If God does answer prayers, I doubt that yours is very high on his list. That doesn't mean your problem is trivial, it just means that you aren't the center of the Universe. Take action! If you want this guy as much as you say you do then the only way you're going to get him is by DOING SOMETHING. Good luck!
2006-11-16 05:52:33 · answer #1 · answered by Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Many of the problems you may be facing could be just the tip of the iceberg on what is really happening in your marriage. I dont mean to scare you but many problems when they either first show up or if they keep reoccurring could be just whats showing from a larger problem that either you or your spouse cannot even see. One of the only things you can do to help is to talk honestly and openly with each other in the marriage. If things become more serious more serious options need to be looked at as possibilities. I have a blog that has more information on some of what I've been writing about. If you feel like checking it out I would completly suggest it. Read here https://tr.im/6Rtoy
Love is a choice that is made everyday when you wake up and every night when you go to sleep. Some days you may not feel the original feeling but love isnt a feeling or an emotion. Its an action a verb. Falling out of love may just mean you need to spice things up a little or that you were never in love in the first place. Don't just get out of a marriage just because you don't think you like the person anymore.
2016-07-18 17:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trick question, are you sure you know what is in your heart? I believe God put us on the planet like rolling the dice, He put the obstacle course in front of us and how we navigate it is up to us. God gave us all FREE WILL, and no one below Him has the right or power to take that from us, not even if they pray. You have to be true to your own self, your own nature, your own heart, and if that doesn't appear to the other person, then you are wrong, it was not "meant to be". Especially if you are associating this person with a similar looking or acting person from before that you had feelings about, we all get tripped up by that one. You have to pray that the "right one" is out there, that you'll know it when you find them, and have the brains, heart and patience to capture their heart. Good Luck.
2006-11-16 05:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have a lot of faith and really belive that he is the one.. God will send u a sign and trust he will never put u through anything u can not get through.. and u cant pray and have him answer in ur time.. remember its his time not urs... he may take a minute to answer ur prayer back but its all to test ur faith for him.. and u cant come close to God for a guy.. u must love him and put him first.. if u both prayer it will make it that much stronger..
2006-11-16 05:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are not looking to God, you are looking for a genie in a bottle. To pray for the "right one" is to allow God to decide which one is the right one. You say you have already met him, but maybe God has someone better in mind for you. Learn to pray "not my will but Thy will be done". God is not your yes man. When I had about given up on ever finding the right person for me, God brought my wife into my life through a blind date. I could never have chosen a better mate; He exceeded all of my expectations. We have been together for almost 30 years and are still crazy about each other. This person may in fact be the one for you, but he may not. Let go and let God do His work.
2006-11-16 05:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
As with anything. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. The question is what is holding you back? First talk it out and try to clear the air. If he feels as strongly as you you'll get your wish. If you are a person of faith who believes in prayer...prayer will work when the time is right. You can't hurry love. Although it drives us crazy we must wait it out and be patient.
2006-11-16 05:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm certain that prayers of the heart are answered now and again. But like any thing else one must be careful for what they ask for. If you feel that your relationship is the right one then go for it and give thanks if you feel that your prayers have been answered.
2006-11-16 05:46:45 · answer #7 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely,I divorced after23 years and was lonely,so decided to start looking for a man.I go to Church so when one of my brothers in Christ ask me out, I said o.k.we had several things in common.Then one day he ask me to marry him, I said fine in July(this was March)he said that he didn't want to wait, I did.Every thing was going smoothly.I then started praying that I never wanted to make another mistake when it came to men.For the Lord to show me the way.Out of the blue 7 days from the wedding, he tells me that once married, our money would go in his account, that he didn't think I should change my name,And there would be no new cars bought other for him when he thought it was time.I put him straight and he called the wedding off.He only wanted someone to help him get out of debt.Thank God I was led to start that conversation.Pray for the right guy to choose you at His will..Be Blessed.....
2006-11-16 06:46:02 · answer #8 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-26 22:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God follows his plan....not yours. And prayer is something everyone needs. It's the one thing that never hurts anyone.
2006-11-16 05:49:45 · answer #10 · answered by ohkathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋