Talk to him and tell him how you feel, so that way, whatever he did, he won't do it again!
2006-11-16 05:54:19
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi there.
You’re still deeply angered by his disloyalty (of course you are! I would be, too), and so you’re punishing him. Sitting on that other guy’s lap, taking pictures with him, flirting with other boys…whether you’re conscious of it or not, you’re acting out and saying to your boyfriend, “You can cheat? Well, look, I’m a wanted girl and I could cheat on you, too.” It’s like your dangling your loyalty in front of your boyfriend’s eyes and letting him know that at any moment, you could get back at him for being unfaithful and hurting you so badly. Not that you would – but there’s power in knowing you can. And it probably feels good to know your actions can upset, and affect, your boyfriend, the same way his upset and affect you.
Good luck. i hope this helps you.
2006-11-16 06:07:49
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answered by Anonymous
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Rather than punishing him you should discuss the situation in an open and mature manner and let him know truthfully how badly his actions hurt you. Punishment sounds so juvenile and will only bring resentment, communication on the other hand may help solve the problem at hand.
2006-11-16 05:55:27
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answer #3
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answered by crazylegs 7
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My fiancee take me in the walk in closet and cuffs my hands to the pole that the clothes hang on. She has two pair of hand cuffs. One end is cuffed to the pole and one end to my wrist. Then she beats my bare **** with a black leather paddle she purchased. I have to be quiet because if I say anything, she'll shut me up with a ball gag. Needless to say, I try to behave.
Oh by the way, she's 5'8", long blonde hair, 125 lbs. and 34D...total knockout...she's just very dominant and won't put up with my BS.
2006-11-16 06:24:15
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answered by Anonymous
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I hope you're kidding, or just very bad at the english language. You don't punish your boyfriend. Punishment is saved for parents and unruly children. You and your boyfriend are equals, meaning you have no right to punish him. Give it a rest.
If he screwed up, and you're angry, then tell him you're angry and figure it out. If you think you have the right to punish him, you're not mature enough to be in a relationship to begin with. Dump him and save him the misery.
2006-11-16 05:55:10
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answer #5
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answered by Jaded 5
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Instead of starting a cycle of punishement, try telling him what's wrong. If he really doesn't get it, he's not the right guy for you.
2006-11-16 06:39:34
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answered by nursesr4evr 7
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Put him in the time out chair or against the corner in a wall
2006-11-16 05:54:21
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answered by Anonymous
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Punish him by threatening to marry him.
Here's a perfect example of the ever-popular butcher-knife psycho, folks!!!
Holy Christ.............
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-11-16 06:01:18
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answer #8
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answered by hagtagg 5
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Easy. Hold out on sex until he apologizes. You can be subtle and stay with a friend for a few days just to stay away from him. He'll miss you and apologize. If he doesn't, it's his loss anyway, right?
2006-11-16 05:55:38
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answer #9
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answered by Mujer Bonita 6
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That is really hard to answer without knowing what he actually did wrong and what sort of relationship you have.
2006-11-16 05:54:40
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answer #10
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answered by jen 2
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Simple: if you want to punish him so you still you like him, so don't punish him just talk to him.
2006-11-16 06:26:15
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answered by B i n g o 4
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