how do i make things better i love him so much but he hurts me so bad were both in the 12th and have a baby together and been 2gether for a while now. he doesnt tlk to me at school and ignores me.i dont know evry things just so weird i asked if he was cheating and he said he knows how hes with but im always on his ***. i mean if he payed attention to me tlked to me and acted like we are a couple there wouldnt be no probs. pleezzzz hlp
2006-11-16 05:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to totally "go dark" on him. Don't try to contact him, don't be overly friendly, just polite and businesslike. When he sees that you are fine without him and can take care of yourself, maybe he'll grow up a little. Back off, give him some room to breathe, and go about your OWN business, get a hobby, hang out with friends, take your baby to a swim class at the Y or something, but always be too busy to get together for a couple of weeks and see what happens. It worked for me.
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My motto was "I'm going to get a life" that way, if he decided that he was done, at least I would be off to a good start.
2006-11-16 05:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by elfkin, attention whore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard when you really love someone and you have a child with them. But if you want my opinion, you are in the 12th grade. What you may want in a man now is not what you may want in a man when you are 21 or 24. If he's treating you like that I would give him some space and just do you for a while. I know it will be hard. But you are sooo young and their are soo many possibilities for you. Don't let your boyfriend be your whole life. Let him see you can live without him and maybe in due time he will realize that and start being the kind of MAN you need. I hope it works out for you.
2006-11-16 05:53:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As somebody who's purely a sprint older than you, i might answer this query fairly in yet in a distinctive way. some years from now you will possibly a. be embarrassed of the failings you probably did once you have been youthful. or b. heavily remorseful approximately dropping your youngsters and good seems and ability on boys who weren't in to you. I purely say this from adventure. I wish I had extra helpful issues to do as an adolescent. hobbies, jobs, good acquaintances and so on. MySpace wasn't around some years in the past whilst i grew to become into youthful, yet in a manner i'm happy by way of fact we had to remedy our problems head on and actual communicate approximately our emotions head to head. MySpace messages are for cowards. in case you prefer to confront your buddy do it in individual. Or overlook approximately her by way of fact your buddy is a jerk. paintings on arising your individual spirit and don't waste time on jerks. youngsters is fleeting.
2016-10-22 05:06:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is the LEAST important thing right now. You need to focus on yourself, your child, your education, and hopefully have your guy involved as a father. If you do not live together he should be paying child support.
2006-11-16 05:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your bf need to talk about your problems no yealling or swearing. just talk and make sure that you guys are being honest to each other no matter how bad or how much it will hurt you.
2006-11-16 05:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by winter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that he can forget you if hes not gonna talk to you or anything if he really cares about you he will start talking to u again
2006-11-16 05:49:39 · answer #6 · answered by philip d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use super glue
2006-11-16 05:51:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋