i am able to help many peoples but i cant help myself,i need someone to tell me how to think b4 i act ?help?

Question

i used to help people to go through there lifes and i am happy each time some1 thank me 4 doing something good or being able to help, concerning me i am facing big problem and i need to change, i always act b4 i think spacilay with men this is why all my relations dosent last and i always regrate, ppl cant belive how i was able to advice and help many ppl and i cant help myself,is there any 1 can give a great advice that might change my life and give me new hope to have good lasting relation.thanks

Answer 1

All I can say is now is the time to find yourself and not define who you are by how good and caring you can be. You can help others because you care and you feel people's pain probably because deap inside you can relate secretly. No man or nobody in the world can reach your soul if you have not gone there yourself. Love yourself first is the key and you will soon discover a whole new world and a bigger vision of life. Be your own best friend and offer yourself honest and positive advice and never let yourself down since you would not let a good friend down. Grow stronger and wiser everyday and never forget that you are the only person that will be with you forever so be good to yourself and always make sure that you live everyday happy and comfortable with yourself. Be good be nice be safe

Answer 2

Completely disregard what your counselor told you. They are stupid and should not be saying things like that to students with so much potential. Your right. You can still pull up your GPA, but you need to start doing it right now. Also remember that you can take the SAT and ACT multiple times and only your highest score will count. If I were you, I would ask to switch counselors or talk with a successful teacher you like instead. Do your own research online. Look up the requirements for your undergraduate degree online at different colleges and email the academic advisers there. They will be much more helpful than you idiotic, underqualified high school counselors. Good luck and have faith! Don't let anyone try to sway you from reaching your goals. Take pride in proving them wrong. Anytime someone says you can't do it, just smile and say "You'll see".

Answer 3

Things always sound better coming from someone else. It assures you that what you already know is right. Its not that you can't help yourself but you are human you need help jus like everyone else. No one is perfect and everything happens for a reason. Always remember two can play that game. You were not the only reason why those past relationships didnt work out. Try to figure out what makes you happy. Take care of you and become content once you are content and comfortable with you then you can work with someonelse. Sometimes things dont work out because there not supposed to. This might be your season to be alone and discover you. So dont keep digging a deeper hole but climb out of the one that your in and come out on top then you can see whats out there. Im going through it to so ur not alone. Keep ur head up. Just slow down and think you gotta slow down. the faster you make it the faster life takes it and past you by so just slow down

Answer 4

dear friend life is to live for others, so u r living ur life in a way it should be.do help others as much as u can without considering any reward. there is no need to think while doing a good deed right? so u need no to think b4 u act for others help

Answer 5

You sound like me.I do the same thing.When I look at myself I want things to work so bad that I make dumb mistakes and the other person looks at me like I`m some kind of nut.For me I think I need to slow down and you may have the some trouble.

Answer 6

Um...As a helper, you should know better than to ask for help without giving any details.
Why do YOU think your relationships don't last?
What is it that YOU see that goes wrong?

Answer 7

you cant care if someone hurts you or not, or you will never love anyone

if you want a good lasting relationship you have to approach it like a child....not as in childish but child like (without fear, and with complete honesty)

Answer 8

learn from your mistakes
don't be so emotional
try to instinctivly NOt go with your gut instinct and give the situation some thought

Answer 9

If you can't get yourself to think before you act, I am sure I can not get you to either! Turn to God! I am sure God can help you dear! God bless you!

Answer 10

Get to know yourself first..... Then persue a relationship!!!!