Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

he is a bit younger than me and he reall does not mean to do it i know he eans well he's mum warned mw what i had to cope with i just don't know how to handle it anymore my life isn't worth living without him it would be soo boring!! help me people!!

2006-11-15 21:35:52 · 14 answers · asked by !!dizzy!! 1 in Singles & Dating

what does it mean when a woman says shes happy with you loves you but doesn't wants to be alone for a while and not hang out for a long time? haha

2006-11-15 21:34:36 · 8 answers · asked by reddakYO 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 21:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by BABES 1 in Family

i don't have enough courage to express my real feelings to this girl!!!!! what should i do to have the courage so i can tell it to her personally?????

2006-11-15 21:33:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get online dates and every so often I meet someone nice, as sometimes I feel just one meeting isn't enough and would like to spend more time with them to see what they are like. some girls are good and text to say thanks enjoyed it but no chemistry which is great as I know where I stand. Many don't text at all, not even thanks so, have no gauge of how the night went. Before you ask i dont go pervy or jabber on about stuff that obviously holds no interest to them etc during the date, the date it self aways appears to go ok, no awkwardness.

2006-11-15 21:32:48 · 16 answers · asked by budda m 5 in Singles & Dating

There's a girl that's a great friend. Or so I thought. I had just gone to the toilets with two of my friends when I heard her ask my bf -- "hu are yu going out with" of course he said -- Marielle. She then replied. "Oh God not her." Then started flirting with my bf and was literally all over him. What should I do? keep in mind that i thought this girl was my friend.

2006-11-15 21:31:39 · 8 answers · asked by Pennexx 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in london and every day i get the tube to work or wherever..but i always seem to see pretty girls on the train..they look at me i look at them, but never know what to say..then i or she gets off and i never see her again!! what can i say with out looking stupid, or freaking her out?

2006-11-15 21:31:28 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 21:30:39 · 8 answers · asked by el tiranos 2 in Friends

Im the one that always has to make the first move.I have talked to her over and over about being spontanious.We have no responsiblities like raising a family or nothing that would be a hastle for her to show some interest and frankly im tired to telling her that i would like for her to be sponanious.Its not going to happen.The appeal she had that way has just about lost its appeal to always have to be the one to start it and then you aren't sure she really enjoyed it..Does she need somene else and maybe myself as well to spice our sex life up?I have been dreaming of younger women lately but not sure its got something to do with desire,just want things to be like they used to be..We have tried almost everything that is new and suppose to be inspriring and it doesnt seem to work ..So what should I do ..Im tired of waiting for her to come around.Not that I don't love her but well I want things to be like they used to be,and its not going to happen so what shoud i do?

2006-11-15 21:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by Isy B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a female friend who was my classsmate.v parted jss an year ago and till we r in contact.recently she proposed me and i dint want to hurt her as i thought that she would not talk to me again if i denied.now i dont no what to do i just wana tell her that i dont have such kind of feeling towards her and wana maintain friendly relation with her so plz tell me how to tell her about all this....!!

2006-11-15 21:26:47 · 22 answers · asked by babbu 1 in Friends

during a tarot card reading my friend Ric, ask what question should we ask and I didn't have any so he suggested that we ask a question about us. i thought he meant the business since, him, me, and my brother started a ghost hunting business. No he wanted to ask Will we would get married, what it would be like if we got married, and did then explain to me that future is not written in stone. My brother his best friend, came in and begin the question what is the future of our business. Well in the cards the love card appear and my brother was joking said he kick Ric ***. Then Ric said I don't even like her. Then we ask yes or no questions. My bro asked if Ric loved me and the card said yes, and then Ric asked the cards if I liked him and the answer was yes. What does this mean.

As of right now me and Ric are just friends.

2006-11-15 21:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has only contacted me 3 times in 6 weeks asking how I am doing.

But I really dont want to think about her and move on, But every time I have got her out of my mind she contacts me.

She does know lots of my friends and I will bunk into her at dinners and nights out.

But at the moment I really just dont want to think about her.

2006-11-15 21:24:48 · 19 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

I have 3 daughters and we all sleep in the same room. We live in a jonit family and have only one room to ourselves. Anyways, we have a bunk bed where my elder ones, age 6 and 3 sleep and the little one is put to the side besides us (age 2.5). Now, how do I get them to sleep.

They can lie there for 2 hrs doing nothing but not sleeping either. IThey even know their deadline of sleeping till 10:00 pm. They only sleep when I loose my temper and say such harsh words with a thundering voice. This has been the routine for the last couple of months.

Can anyone help us out.. coz now I am fedup of this routine. When we lie them to sleep, there is no TV or music or any other disattraction. The only noise in the room is the chatting of me and my wife. Well..we don't have any other place other than our room to be in harmony.

2006-11-15 21:23:44 · 5 answers · asked by Dreamz 1 in Family

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2006-11-15 21:22:45 · 5 answers · asked by amritaa_green_eyed_gal 1 in Singles & Dating

After 16years of marriage and with 4 kids i'm finding it impossible to stop thinking of ways to sort out our differences. he changes his mind like corn in the breeze, but when we are together it's good. things are at an all time low, he's not seeing the kids (or paying), refusing to communicate and generally being a git. i don't want to carry on like this and thats when i start fantasizing about us getting it back together.
Will I ever stop thinking about it?

2006-11-15 21:19:37 · 11 answers · asked by trixiepipworth 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married three years and when we first married she couldn't keep her hands off of me.We were at it as many hours in the day as you could possibly be and did so many things that neither of us had ever tried and had a tremendous sex life.We have children but they are grown and really don't have any problems getting along.We enjoy each others company but if I never approached her for sex I don't think we would ever have it again and she would be perfetly happy.I haven't changed in any way nor any major circumstances and i have asked her straght many times what the problem was ,and her answer has been Im waiting on you to make the first move.I told her millions of times not to wait and it doesnt seem to help.i even reminded her of how she was the first part of our marriage and she says she doesnt remember.Its not like she doen't know how I feel so what should I do?

2006-11-15 21:18:43 · 25 answers · asked by Isy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, a lot of guys like sleeping with them, but never consider serious commitment(or so i have been led to believe).So, don't these girls get married,have kids, and...... u know....just have a normal life?

2006-11-15 21:17:40 · 20 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Singles & Dating

my first time with my boytoy we did it in his car in november it was cold outside but not inside

2006-11-15 21:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by ASHLEY 3 in Singles & Dating

but i think hwe knows i like him mhe always hits me n dis's me but then he'll apologise after sometimes also he says he hates me n we argue but it dnt make a difference i just need to know if im staying around for nothing.
ive liked him for about 6 months n we are very close n ive kissed him n stuff n snogged him ive even done more i just need answers help me plzzzzz!!

2006-11-15 21:15:02 · 12 answers · asked by !!dizzy!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 21:14:11 · 7 answers · asked by cherva 1 in Singles & Dating

i loves someone.she loved me too...becoz she is elder than me......she has been forced to marry with some one else. no one else knows that we love each other. she is my 1st cousin too. now this december....she will be married...

2006-11-15 21:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by Curiosity 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Grieving the loss of an ideal marriage with children. Many lies, pornography, tobacco, a 6 mos weekend warrior bout, he almost left us once 3 yrs ago Now in marriage counseling. Just confessed has been secretly gambling for 3 years, has cheated 3 times, all one-night stands, once before our wedding, none in last 7 years and lied about where we could live for 10 years even though I wanted to be near my family. The list goes on. I'm an educated woman, not stupid but he is a very good liar. He is getting help and we are getting help but I never imagined my life would be like this. Don't know what future holds.
Grief 2: I got over my one true love when I met my husband. However, his memory has come back now. I've contacted him despite my better sense. I got some answers I needed: he did love me and he felt it would have worked had we been able to stay together then. Now, he too is married and with children. I pray that he is happy and makes a good spouse.
I need comfort!

2006-11-15 21:13:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm asking for past experiences, when you knew it was the time to end it, and there were no regrets.

2006-11-15 21:13:30 · 13 answers · asked by RubyRemfear 3 in Singles & Dating

i was molested 2 when i was a child up until my teenage years and I can never feel better about myself, my soul has been destroyed. i am now 23 years old. d abuse went on 4 so long that i can't even remember when it started, i must have been 5 or 4. i wasn't raped, but my brother came 2 my bed naked and touched my private parts. :( i think this is same thing as being raped, u still feel very abused and used :( when i was younger, i didn't talk to any1 about this, only my mom knew this was happening to me, and she used to stay up at nit 2 protect me and she got beaten by my brother bcoz of this. :( my life is ruined and i've wanted to commit suicide many times, but everytime something inside me stopped me from doing that - i didn't want to hurt my family and especially my mom. i don't trust men bcoz even my dad was angry and violent person (although he never abused me), he hit me and threatened me 2 take out my brains :(. I haven’t been able to be a normal person bcoz of my past, I find it hard to socialise and I have few friends. When i was in holiday i met a wonderful guy who impressed me with his kindness and friendliness and he is my boyfriend now and i luv him sincerely. he is the reason that i'm still clinging to life, he is the only person (except my mom) that I trust. We made luv and I felt only luv and not abuse when making luv with him bcoz at 1st he was very gentle and told me that we can stop whenever I want to stop if I feel uncomfortable. But after a few weeks of being with him, one morning while we were in bed together, he did anal sex but this without asking me b4 if I accept him doing this, and that made me sad and depressed bcoz I felt used . I would like to know – is anal sex acceptable in a relationship or a form of abuse? I feel abused when my boyfriend does that bcoz it brings back horrible memories of my brother touching me there. Thank u

2006-11-15 21:12:15 · 18 answers · asked by andrea a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and your in bed having s*x, do you think about your previous boyfriends? and compare?

2006-11-15 21:12:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to think that you could be friends with everyone with no problem. Up till my recent troubles. Theres this girl who constantly spars and argues with me. Shes basically this firehead who is insecure and because of that has lost friends. Ugh.

Now its reached its climax although we thought we were 'close' before. She 'just' doesnt like me and i cant find myself liking her irritating expectations of people when shes not even being a great friend herself either. So, i guess you live life without being able to get along with everyone ? Kinda hard to accept that.

2006-11-15 21:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Friends

2006-11-15 21:05:56 · 4 answers · asked by redster 2 in Friends

so my old friend from elementary, middle and high school jus came back on his 20 day leave from the marines and when he came back all the feelings came back for me and him because we used to like eachother before. the weird thing is that we havent seen eachother for 5 years and all of a sudden it all come back. i broke up with my boyfriend at the time to be with him, and we both have been going back an forth seeing eachother and right before he left to iraq, he proposed to me. i jumped up and said yes right away. we're both 20 yrs old. so he's in iraq right now but our love still feels the same since the day he left. he wants to get married in a court when he gets back so we can get more money so we can save up for a house and the big wedding wtih the family and friends. so is it a good idea to marry in the court and then a big wedding after he's done serving his time in the marines? because im willing to wait. and do u think this is true love or just puppy love? i DO love him tho =]

2006-11-15 21:03:06 · 19 answers · asked by stoops 1 in Weddings

2006-11-15 20:57:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-15 20:57:18 · 4 answers · asked by Call me crazy 2 in Singles & Dating