I used to think that you could be friends with everyone with no problem. Up till my recent troubles. Theres this girl who constantly spars and argues with me. Shes basically this firehead who is insecure and because of that has lost friends. Ugh.
Now its reached its climax although we thought we were 'close' before. She 'just' doesnt like me and i cant find myself liking her irritating expectations of people when shes not even being a great friend herself either. So, i guess you live life without being able to get along with everyone ? Kinda hard to accept that.
2006-11-15 21:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by Dabidu 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Only if you fake being happy, follow orders and never do what you want, I don't think we can get on with everyone cause we all have different personalities and that is what makes us special and interesting, i know the feeling i use to be friends with a girl i meet through work but her constant put downs toward others and bossy personality was just to much for me so i stayed away as i knew if i didn't i wouldn't be happy i really think it's normal to find people you don't get along with i mean how fun would that be if we all got along, we would have no one to gossip and bi**h about........lol
2006-11-15 21:12:23 · answer #1 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be a friend to some who spars and argues and who is has irritating expectations. Was she always that way or just over time she became some else. You can be Friends with any one and every body is different and as a friend you take your friend as they are, just as they take you for who you are. Remember you cant be a friend , if you yourself are not a friend.. true friendships go though a lot of ups and downs and from real good to real bad. If you have more than five Friends, real friends you are lucky,most people don't have that. We come across many people in our lives and some are quaintness's and some are just people we know. But to have a friendship is something that is real and special. So maybe she fell into one of the other types of contacts. So don't take that as a bad thing. My father said to me , Yeah your friends your friends they are always right and there for you. He said out of all your FRIENDS.which ones or one would do this with out question: If you were in prison and they said they would give you a weekend pass, if one of your Friends would do the time, for you? if you come back they are free to go, if not they are to remain and do your time.??? Well ? Who do you share that kind of trust with, that's a friend.
2006-11-15 21:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, actually, I do in fact get along with everyone I know and they're so nice that they would always talk to me about random stuff. I guess it's because I'm the nicest person they all know, and they told me that. Although there is this one girls who seems to... IDK, Hate me?? I mean, whenever I say things like 'Oh you did a good job!!' Or 'Excuse me, I need to get through...' Or 'No I can't let you see my homework, that's cheating...' She just rolls her eyes and scuffs. But I'm like, WHATEVER!! Just let the haters be hatin' 'cause that's what they do best!! =^•^=
2014-06-06 00:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Julie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's impossible to get along with everyone. But if this is a friend, maybe this is just a rough spot. Happens to the best of us. I have friends who I've known for over 15 years and sometimes I feel like they treat me like crap. Communication and openness is the foundation for any friendship. Give her some space and time. Good luck.
2006-11-15 21:13:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound in reality like holden caulfeild from catcher in the rye lol yet in spite of everything i be conscious of it particularly sucks how people are on the on the spot our international is corrupted and that i dont think of of peace is coming alongside every time at as quickly as.What are you waiting to do be the marvelous individual u could be and inspire others to end that i be conscious of it sounds corny yet i dont have plenty wish for this international anymore
2016-10-22 04:37:06 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absoulutly! Some just don't have the chemistry. Yeah it can be hard sometimes. Good luck.
2006-11-15 21:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Fireman T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have had a single bad experience. Why make generalizations?
2006-11-15 22:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by kingoftheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats llife , u meet such type of people in this world, but dont worry try to ignore such prople, and trust me they improve or dont bugg u more
2006-11-15 21:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by engr_ehsen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am afraid you have learned a sad, but real lesson in life.
2006-11-15 21:11:02 · answer #9 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why? its true...some people are just obnoxious...who cares? let them dig their own holes and live in them. move on and make friends with better people..
2006-11-15 21:10:50 · answer #10 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋