Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

..... well, besides an umbrella.

2006-11-15 22:11:24 · 16 answers · asked by Marianne not Ginger™ 7 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 22:11:02 · 6 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 22:09:47 · 22 answers · asked by tisha 1 in Weddings

2006-11-15 22:09:27 · 7 answers · asked by russellhamuk 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 22:08:25 · 6 answers · asked by secret_goddess87 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for about 9 months now, we've been doing 4play for quite awile now. He's gone down on me, but I've never done it before so I haven't done the same to him. Yesterday, we were just messing around giving hickies to eachother & I started giving him some on his chest then the thought of going lower on him crossed my mind. Honestly, I want to go down on him because it actually turns me on a bit. As I was giving him a hicky I kept tellin myself "Do it!, you know you want to" Lol, but I didn't...I know it's because I'm nervous, because I haven't done it before...I dunno..What I'm asking for is can anyone give me advice on how I can just DO IT already! Like how did you first go down on someone??? Help me out here!

2006-11-15 22:08:19 · 23 answers · asked by Savanna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry if this is complicated but what would you do if you were in this situation. My mate dan has fallen out with my mate laura. this is cos he bitched about her at a party but she can't seem to get over it. She is holding a grudge against him and keeps giving him nasty glares. Im stuck wot should i do?!! Help!

2006-11-15 22:06:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I split up a few weeks ago and we slowly got to the point where we not refrain from calling each other but also avoiding each other at school. I'm so heartbroken that I can't stand to be alive right now. He was more than just a guy I liked, he was my best friend and he cared about me more than anyone in the world ever has. Without his affection, I just don't know what to do. I realize now that I have loved him all along and I regret never appreciating him enough. He said that he finally gave up asking me out and started to care less about me one weekend when I flat-out turned him down for a date. The real reason I said no was because I felt depressed but I did not tell him that so instead he believed that I just didn't want to be with him. I broke his heart first and I feel so much remorse for it all now. I've been crying everyday for the past 2 weeks and when I'm at school, I just walk around like I'm in some horrible dream.

Send me hope bc I have none left...

2006-11-15 22:05:48 · 5 answers · asked by snowbunny83090 3 in Singles & Dating

When does a friendship becomes a burden between the two females.

2006-11-15 22:05:44 · 8 answers · asked by raashi 2 in Friends

I had a rough life living with my dad and I finally got out of my personal hell when I was 12 and went to live with my mom. As I got older my dad attempted a relationship with me. For almost 4-5 years after I moved out I had nothing to do with him. I was physically and emotionally abused by him my whole life so I was not happy to be around him at all. I wonder if I had a more tramatic expierence that I cannot remember because like a year later we would go out for breakfast or whatever (which always ended up in disaster) and he would touch me (not perverted like) like hugging me or kissing me and I would feel like throwing up and I was completely disgusted by him being to close to me. I feel like this is more then just the bad relationship between us. Could I have been violated sexually by him and have suppressed the memory? I can't figure out why I feel that level of disgust. At this point he is cut permanantly out of my life. It is not worth it to me to have a negative relationship.

2006-11-15 22:03:46 · 9 answers · asked by Bellas Mama 1 in Family

Hello Vicky,

I am still finding it hard to do the friends thing, Do you think you could give me some time and space.
Maybe speak to you in the new year.

Harry

2006-11-15 22:03:43 · 15 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

a friend of mine had a big argument we never resolved the issue it was a problem that i had with her so about 2 months passed and she calls and asks could she see my kids the weekend eventhough we never resolved our issue how can she just 4get about our issue and jump straight to my kids am i wrong for not letting my kids go with her

2006-11-15 22:02:41 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive recently became roommates w/ a friend (oppisite sex)I turned the unfinished bsmt. into my space .Ive really fixed it up nice But since it dosent have any walls/doors Ive hung sheets up where the intrance is, when he comes down he will just walk right in w/out ackno. hisself (almost seems to sneak down like to try catching me in something)since it is His home should I be in the wrong to ask him not to just walk in? I have even pinned the sheet down & he'll almost tear it down trying to get in quick.He a smart man & respectful in other ways & i would think think if it was a door , he would knock before walking in.

2006-11-15 22:02:36 · 4 answers · asked by karmakrazy 2 in Friends

Hi, its my sisters bday on tues and im stuck for a pressie to get her, i cant really get her clothes or shoes or makeup coz shes funny bout stuff like that and only picks it out herself, i dont wanna get the usual boring smellys or CD/DVDs that i get her, i wanna get her something cool or unusual. shes gonna be 20 and shes not really into anything, hasnt got any hobbies
Any ideas.......?
Thanks

2006-11-15 22:02:00 · 9 answers · asked by dm4dt 1 in Family

i care for this guy so much.. and all i am able to manage to say is always 'i miss you'. i can't say what my heart really wants to say... coz partly i'm scared... i know he feels the same way but i know he's just like me.. he's unable to say it too..

2006-11-15 22:01:54 · 12 answers · asked by secret_goddess87 1 in Singles & Dating

but he is mature for his age and ya can't help who you like my mum trusts me enough to let me stay at his house coz we are just like best mates i wouldn't have sex with him im not like that we just flirt but then because he doesn't want to share his feelings hges just like that and you have to get to know him to know that im sorry i just need help and advice that hekps!! i know your all tryimng and thank you x

2006-11-15 21:59:52 · 9 answers · asked by !!dizzy!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 21:58:40 · 24 answers · asked by PMK 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

No he hasnt had an affair! bit confused as their is no way back for us.

2006-11-15 21:54:45 · 31 answers · asked by jules 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the difference in thinking of a newly married guy n a becholor

2006-11-15 21:54:18 · 2 answers · asked by raashi 2 in Friends

Ok i met this gal a few weeks ago, when i was out.. we exchanged numbers, we txted for a whole week, neway i finally met her properly, on monday nite, proper blind date, went to the pub for a few drinks.. on tuesday, she txt said she was bored, so i txt her back, to invite her to my house to listen to some music and talk, she came up.. it was all good.. but i didnt here from her yesterday, should i txt / ring her, or wait for her to make the next move...??

Ta

2006-11-15 21:53:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really dont know what to do. My company christmas party is coming up and my coworkers HATE my boyfriend. They cant stand it that I am white and he is Mexican. He used to work at my company and the other problem is that if I take him, I dont know if we should sit with my friends at one of the "white peoples" table, where they dont like him, or should we sit at one of the "mexican peoples" tables where they like both of us, but I will have to feel uncomfortable with all white people giving me dirty looks. This stinks and it shouldnt be happening. I want to go and have fun with him, but its going to be uncomfortable. Should I not even go? Or should I go without him and have nobody to dance with?

2006-11-15 21:52:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have a friend of the opposite sex, that they practice their techniques on?? I had one, but he has a gf now. She doesn't understand that it's educational.

2006-11-15 21:51:23 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly Madison 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 21:50:07 · 20 answers · asked by suna kitty 1 in Friends

Why did this guy contact a girl after he said he didn't like her.he sent an IM message to her after she canceled her cellphone # ( she doesn't know if he knows or not) and that she was going to go play in Italy..if he didn't like her why did he bother to contact her? He is 15. She then IM him back and said..X...how to forget you..you sent that damm message now... ..I really want to know what you want from me X.....because if you do it again you will find me in your room at midnight and I will get you while you are sleeping...now you don't want that do you? Do you think he will try and contact her again?

2006-11-15 21:49:11 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay so to make this short... My husband when he was I wana say 17 but duno, now 20.... was with this chick right, shes gets pregnant after only being together 3 months and gets an abortion against his wishes. Then later after the fact comes to him saying she needs a lil ova a grand to pay for it... He gave her the money! He saw her like 2 weeks later having fun bowling.... He ended up comitting suicide and of course making it, he never sees or hears from her again... Except after he meets me! Last year he gets an email forwarded to him, and allows to me email with her telling him to leave him alone and wut not and that she needed to say sorry bla bla bla.... It went back and forth her telling me what a loser he is and how she smokes dope and does crack and wutnot. After that we dont hear NEThing from her.. Until now... She emails him on myspace saying "Im sorry" They end up conversating on Messenger! He told me about it... but heres the kicker....She has a kid! She says shes almost 2.

2006-11-15 21:47:55 · 15 answers · asked by greygirl06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I started seeing this guy when I was 18 and we were in a long distance relationship (I live in Europe and he's in Asia) for 4 years almost when I moved to states for 6 months and started seeing someone else. It was too difficult to maintain the long distance and I didnt feel as strongly about him back then. He was devastated and he saw someone for a few months and a year and a half later I went back and it was like nothing had ever happened. He was so good to me and things were just great and I fell in love with him all over again. He asked me if there had been anyone else and I had told him for a year that there was no one else cuz i didnt want to hurt him but when things got serious again I told him I had kissed a guy and that threw him off and he completely changed. I feel like his insecurities were just growing and he needed an excuse to get out and protect himself. He's so in love but so insecure to committ. I am fed up of being hurt for no reason and just dont know what to do...

2006-11-15 21:43:32 · 10 answers · asked by Curious George 2 in Singles & Dating

I’m eighteen. My brothers are sixteen and ten. My older brother abuses my younger brother physically and verbally sometimes. He beats and screams at him and calls him names. Yesterday they were fighting as soon as they came home from school and my kid brother got whacked twice and he was crying lying on the floor. I called my mother and asked her to warn my older brother to stop. My older brother talked to her while calling me names and threatening to beat me up. After the call, he was sitting with my younger brother and my younger brother cried out again. I broke them up and he hit me. I had my arm around his neck then he had me head locked and I punched his face. It stopped there. He wasn’t bleeding but his forehead had deep red bruises. I apologized again and again and bought him an ointment from the local drugstore. We agreed not to let our parents know and he was wearing an icecap this morning. I’ve never beaten anybody up before. I’m ashamed and feel terribly guilty...

2006-11-15 21:41:58 · 20 answers · asked by mortified_nameless_and_unknown 1 in Family

I think my breasts are too small. my fiance says so,although he jokes.but I think it is important for him. is it really?does it effect him sexually?

2006-11-15 21:41:01 · 21 answers · asked by little s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to my lawyer today and getting annulment filed. I do have one question. when a husband or wife left you over within a month and gave no good reason why he or she left, and gave no address to me so court or someone mail it to him for it. Am I still have that right to have it signutare without him sign his on annulment? Thanks

2006-11-15 21:38:13 · 4 answers · asked by Deaf Cowgirl 27 2 in Marriage & Divorce

On the train home I looked at an attractive girl for a bit (she was in the middle of something, not looking around). Then she glanced over and looked away immediately - I started to smile but didn't cos she turned away. But she looked again and I smiled. She returned the smile and that was that.

Does the double look mean anything? Was she just checking to see if I was looking at her?

2006-11-15 21:36:52 · 11 answers · asked by Maggs 1 in Singles & Dating