My boyfriend and I split up a few weeks ago and we slowly got to the point where we not refrain from calling each other but also avoiding each other at school. I'm so heartbroken that I can't stand to be alive right now. He was more than just a guy I liked, he was my best friend and he cared about me more than anyone in the world ever has. Without his affection, I just don't know what to do. I realize now that I have loved him all along and I regret never appreciating him enough. He said that he finally gave up asking me out and started to care less about me one weekend when I flat-out turned him down for a date. The real reason I said no was because I felt depressed but I did not tell him that so instead he believed that I just didn't want to be with him. I broke his heart first and I feel so much remorse for it all now. I've been crying everyday for the past 2 weeks and when I'm at school, I just walk around like I'm in some horrible dream.
Send me hope bc I have none left...
2006-11-15 22:05:48 · 5 answers · asked by snowbunny83090 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Snowbunny, feeling the way you do is perfectly normal. Sometimes you don't know what you had until you loose it, I kow how you feel... No matter who you talk to, its like nobody understands or they can't grasp what you're going through and so you can't seem to get over this depression because even the advice your friends or parents give you still doesn't feel good enough. You just want to cry, you feel like treating everyone around you the way you feel. Can't eat, Can't sleep and you can't remember the last time you really smiled from your heart, but trust me when I say, if its meant to be, he will come back and you guys can try again. It won't be tomorrow or next month, no one knows but trust me. And what ever you do, don't consider hurting yourself over something that might feel "like the end of the world" to you. I've got a scar for every heartbroken event in my life when I was either used or mistreated. 5 years of bad memories but looking back now, I found someone who loves me the way none of those in the past could, even though I thought so that time. Thinking of you snowbunny..... good luck hey!
2006-11-15 22:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Brian! First of all you are not dumb. - First of all you must convince yourself that this is absolutely not the case. You are a great male that have been out for a real coon artist and some tragical happenings that nobody can blame you for. - That is all. My heart was melting as butter for a lady once upon a time... We spent 13 years together... Then I loosed my job and not more than a month later I realized that she was on her way to get married with an other guy. - The feeling of knowing that I had been talking (and seriously thinking of spending my whole future) with a person that could abandon me just like that made me... not happy. I went downhill until I reached the point where I was standing at the beach of there we can make a decision we cannot take back. What I choosed I do not need to say. For your dad's sake you should forget all thoughts of doing something you do not want inside your soul. - The worst thing your dad can be out for is such sorrow. Maybe you should have someone to share your sorrows with? A professional listener? I suggest that you forget about everything shame and blame and just devote yourself of being with your dad as much as possible. Let the juniors be your superiors. As long as you have a dad to care about nothingelse matters. Then a day will come when you are strong enough to apply for another job if you find it impossible to continue at the present company. Regarding the lady. - Well, either you can try to track her down via the Police or you just make period of it. She will cheat the other guys she meet and then... one day a guy will show her how wrong it is to act like that. You will find a true love. I promise you. Although this should not be your first prior. - It should be your dad.
2016-03-28 22:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through and it feels worse than hell. When my girlfriend broke up with me after a two year relationship I thought I would never recover. Hang in there! It's horrible now and it will probably be that way for a while. Things get better though. The best thing I found is to spend more time with the people you care about (friends and especialy family) My relationships with my younger siblings is much stronger now because of this situation. Most of all talk to God about how you feel. He listens.
If you have a Bible look up and read Psalms 91
I'll be praying for you.
God Bless,
2006-11-15 22:19:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u still have hope...even expressing yourself now shows how much hope u hold for urself...
u said u are depress...so talk to ur bf about it...u got to start somewhere...i may assume he would find it hard to accept at the start,but tell him everyhting inside your heart...tell what hurts & what makes you happy.tell him what makes u cry & what makes u laugh...depression is more likely to happen if u bottle up everything in urself...
write him a letter for a start...& begin with sorry..
tell him all u are feeling as if u are writing ur issues here...
2006-11-15 22:11:13 · answer #4 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This will probably happen a few times in your life before you find Mr. Right. As much as it hurts right now, you WILL get over it.
2006-11-15 22:15:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋