i loves someone.she loved me too...becoz she is elder than me......she has been forced to marry with some one else. no one else knows that we love each other. she is my 1st cousin too. now this december....she will be married...
2006-11-15 21:13:48 · 6 answers · asked by Curiosity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I loved and lost....what should i do????
i loves someone.she loved me too...becoz she is elder than me......she has been forced to marry with some one else. no one else knows that we love each other. she is my 1st cousin too. now this december....she will be married...
now how she'ill be fight for my love. this is pakistan not USA where u kick out what ur parents want. yet we talk to each other..........but i dont want to do...but i cant see her crying 4 me just to listen my voice......i will not talk her after her marriage.......but now what??????
2006-11-15 21:40:51 · update #1
What happened is a good thing. Your children would have been even slower (in their heads) than you already are...
2006-11-15 21:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by mrquestion 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and keep looking. If she´s not strong enough to fight for your love and go against everything in the world for that, then she´s not worth it. I did that myself and now I´m happily married and my family came to accept it all and are very supportive, because they finally saw how determined I was. You can´t keep living this secret relationship, especially if she´s getting married. It just won´t work out that way, you´ll just be ruining a lot of lives that way.
2006-11-16 05:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by blackmagic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a man , you are strong. she is a woman, she will be in trouble if you continue to see her and talk to her. this is life you need to accept it. this is what God decreed for you and her. but don't worry. if there was good in marrying her, God would make it easy to happen but it didn't happen, so thank God for that.
the first step to do, try to not talk to her again, let life goes on. you don't know what could happen.
the 2nd step, try to change your situation, find out why you couldn't marry her.
the 3rd thing, stop dreaming. If you didn't marry her at first, it was your fault.
the 4th thing if you can move somewhere faraway from her do it.
the 5th thing you don't know what God is preparing for you, just be patient.
the 6th thing stay away from her, let her live her life in peace.
the 7th thing ask God to help you to be patient and help you to change your situation. and may be it is what Allah want from you, to open your eyes and to love him more than yourself and others, this is the true succes.
A message from the bottom of my heart.
2006-11-18 02:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for someone else, not your 1st cousin. There are vital ethical, moral, and scientific reasons why.
2006-11-16 05:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your first cousin?Havent you ever heard your kids could be mentally retarded?
2006-11-16 05:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by Pennexx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is wrong with you people it is moraly wrong to root your cousin ,
2006-11-16 05:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by matty60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋