hello all plz help help me...!!!?

Question

i have a female friend who was my classsmate.v parted jss an year ago and till we r in contact.recently she proposed me and i dint want to hurt her as i thought that she would not talk to me again if i denied.now i dont no what to do i just wana tell her that i dont have such kind of feeling towards her and wana maintain friendly relation with her so plz tell me how to tell her about all this....!!

Answer 1

YOU DO NOT WANT TO BREAK THE RELATIONSHIP WITH HER BUT YOU DO NOT LIKE HER PROPOSAL. YOU ARE SELFISH YOU WOULD CLEAR ALL THE THINGS RIGHT NOW. AFTER THAT IT WILL BE MORE PAINFUL THEN TODAY

Answer 2

all u can do is talk to her directly or on phone,or plan a meeting so that she dont get hurt,talk to her very nicely,then let her know that u r alwayz there 4 her,with her only as a a very gud friend.tel her u r ready to giv her ur 100%frndship but dont feel the same as she does for U.i know itz difficult 4 u,but watevr is there in ur mind,uhv to b open to her.After this meeting dont worry she wont stop talking to u, but realize that u r her frnd only.
BEST LUCK!

Answer 3

I think u should make things clear.tell her abt ur feelings.Maybe it will spoil ur relationship,but it's either this or u get ready to spend the rest of ur life with her.It may devastate her for some time,but then she'll probably find someone whom she likes and who likes her too.So,dont worry and screw up enough courage to tell her.U might cat on the roof her(tell her abt some1 else to whom this happened-asking and getting refused-and who,later,found a fab person with whom she is blissfully happy on the 1st day and then fess up on the nxt day or something).

Good Luck.
dont make the mistake of saying yes if u dont want to nxt time,okay?

Answer 4

Although I'm not sure what you're trying to say because it is written very poorly, I'll still say "Go up to her and tell her exactly how you feel." There is no sense in keeping the wheel rolling if all you have are a couple of spokes.

Answer 5

What you will have to do is just tell her, its better that you do it sooner or later before she starts planning his wedding and getting deeper and deeper into it and getting excited and telling all her friends and family.

Whether the two of you will be able to be friends after this I really do not know, I doubt it, but you better tell her soon

Answer 6

Hey pal
i think you should be frank with her right know this mint.
There is no point of you not being frank with her.Because it may hurt her now that you do not feel the same about her.And she Will need some time to cope up with her feelings and forgive you and continue the friend ship.
But if you lie to her and she comes to know about it latter.she may not be Abel to come out of it soon and you may loose a good friend for ever.

So please mind my words and be frank with her.do not give her wrong ideas about your feelings.

Answer 7

You should directly convey this message to her that you consider her as best friend and nothing more than that and you should tell this truth immediately otherwise it will be very late to make her understand.
This can solve your problem definitely and I suggest you "GOING WITH TRUTH IS A KEY TO SUCESS"

Answer 8

its your mistake why did you tell that you love her and by the way she just expressed her feeling you dont have any right to hurt her because once a girl heart is broken then its very hard to become normal.

Answer 9

look dude. u tell u have no prob in accepting her proposal but u consider her as a friend . tell her that u have been friends from a long time and want to continue so. ALL THE BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

If u think she is ur gud frnd, tell her all ur feeling frankly bcoz if she treat u as a gud frnd she will understand easily. pls maintain ur frndship.