Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

I am in the process in getting a divorce but I feel as though I need some one is it wrong to want that, and how do I go about it if it is wrong.

2006-11-15 07:20:48 · 14 answers · asked by sweetkandi_cakes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I got mad because my boyfriend always feels sick and couldn't come over to see me and everyone was yelling and arguing already over a bunch of stuff. So, I told him that everyone was right about our age differences and that we have different maturity levels. He told me that it doesn't matter to him, that he still loves me 'cause I can accept him for who he is and not what he is. I got fed up and said "f*** you, f*** this relationship, just f***in' forget you ever met me" and hung up. I feel so bad for what I did. He's very calm when I get mad and can usually soothe me. He had a headache, so now he's layin' down. I know that everyone fights in a relationship, but I get mad at him too often. He doesn't do anything to deserve it. When I have a bad day, I take it out on him and I don't want to do it any more. I'll admit I have an anger problem. What can I do to show him that I'm sorry? I'm on a budget and can't drive. So, make it something simple.

2006-11-15 07:20:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recently i just discovered that i just give my boyfriend sex when he wants it ..how can i make him work for it without just giving it to him?

2006-11-15 07:20:22 · 14 answers · asked by gina 2 in Singles & Dating

she was the first real relationship i was ever in we dated for a long while. she was the first girl i slept with. when we broke up we had a falling out. i needed space(i mean damn i was 17) and she was really clingy and ready to get married. she didn't approve of the way i was living(emancipated and doing drugs and drinking). she and i were on and off for a little while. the last time we had a fight i just left and we didn't speak for a long time. the last time i spoke to her was at our graduation she asked "are you okay" and i said "yeah i'm fine" we looked at each other and i walked away. i still feel like i hurt her and i know i am wrong for that. i feel like i want to apologize and tell her she was good to me and that i shouldn't have treated her like dirt when we were together. i don't want to get back together with her i have a girlfirend with a much better relationship. i just feel like i need closure or something what do i do here people? am i just and idiot?

2006-11-15 07:19:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

well want i need is females friends well reason is because i don't have that many female friends about two i have and i'm shy and don't know really know how to talk to girls and girls if you do want to be my friend be single becuz i act more freely than girls that taken cuz i don't want them to get in trouble for talking to another guy and about my age cuz i feel better around my age and i get totally nervous being around girl so yeah thanks for reading

2006-11-15 07:19:34 · 8 answers · asked by mrl53104 2 in Singles & Dating

how much skin is sexy to you?
school appriorate so i dont get suspended.:]
&& throw in an outfit example.
<3

2006-11-15 07:18:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is part-two of my dilemma from Sunday…the good news is, he wasn't cheating after all (he confirmed for me that he went straight to his business trip in Vegas, with a car full of co-workers). And I had forgotten that he told me beforehand that he was helping some friends start up an online dating website (hence the URLs I found in the location bar). I feel so silly…but here's the bad part: back in September, my boyfriend admitted that he was no longer in love with me, that it was due to years (13 in our case) of built-up resentment, which was news to me, but I now understand why we never married. So I told him that he shouldn't stay if he's unhappy, but he said he loves me and wants to work on the relationship. He says the biggest problem is that he's always felt like he couldn't talk to me. I feel like he never gave me a chance to prove otherwise. Really, is it possible for him to ever fall back in love with me? Where do we start? We're both willing to put in the work. Thanks.

2006-11-15 07:18:29 · 4 answers · asked by misswrite1 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex girlfriend was cheating. When she had been occupied with studying, she heavily relied on me for transportation to school and financial helps. As soon as break from school started, she started hanging out with other guys and one of the guys told me that she has been asking him to sleep with her... In light of that, i broke up with her and I took HIV test. Luckily I am negative. Should i tell her this news???? She should be happy to hear the news...

2006-11-15 07:17:15 · 2 answers · asked by confusedagain 2 in Singles & Dating

This is something a teenager might ask or be inclined to ask. What answers would be best for teenagers like this?

2006-11-15 07:17:02 · 4 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-15 07:16:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met my wife when I was about 22 and in shape. I used to skateboard until I got hurt and never got back into sports even though I have asked her to do active things with me, she just never wanted to. Fast foward 5 yrs, 2 kids, and desks jobs later, I have slowely gained 100 lbs. I am a great father, and do the best to be a great husband, but I feel like she is repulsed by me. Sex is obsolete, even though she was never really that outgoing or open sexually. I dont blame her for feeling the way she does, but I never expected her to act like she stopped loving me. She acts like she doesnt care about me at all, and she finally admitted that she is like this because of my weight. I want to lose weight for myself and my kids, but Im starting to feel that I will so recentful when I do, that I wont want her anymore. I go out of my way for her, but she seems to go out of her way not to do anything for me, not sexually (obsolete,remember) just in general. How am I supposed to feel?

2006-11-15 07:16:15 · 34 answers · asked by .... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2gether 10 months ago.I really liked him but it wasn't the right time cuz I had just gotten out of a bad relationship.We just started talking/seeing each other again(if he visits my work,grocery store).His bday is Saturday(22).If I see him this week at the store should I say happy bday or should I just wait and call him that day?on 1 hand if I say it 2 his face I get 2 c his reaction,on the other if I call him I'll be more prepared on what 2 say 2 him.I was planning on asking him to hang out again.When we talk it comes naturally but I still like to have an idea of what I'm gonna say.SO what's better 4 my situation,phone or face?

2006-11-15 07:16:09 · 3 answers · asked by dabluschmosprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my husband 3 months anniversary is Friday and he is leaving to go back overseas on Saturday morning and I want some ideas on what we can do....... He is in the navy

2006-11-15 07:15:58 · 5 answers · asked by Kayla P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think about a girl disrespecting the mother in the mother's own home? would YOU do such a thing?

i have follow ups to this question. stay tuned.

2006-11-15 07:15:55 · 11 answers · asked by realstyles2 3 in Singles & Dating

am scared of nuthing i have never ben afriad of anthing most people are scared of the darck i love the dark

2006-11-15 07:13:49 · 17 answers · asked by BABY GIRL 1 in Family

2006-11-15 07:13:40 · 4 answers · asked by CarolinaGirl 4 in Weddings

I called my girlfriend two mondays ago and she has not returned my call/ message, should i answer it when she calls, or just ignore her like she has done me. She has a new man and acts like i dont exist.
She is the kind of girl who is always with her phone, and when i had called the recording said "this person is on the phone" meaning she saw me on call waiting.

2006-11-15 07:13:22 · 13 answers · asked by reene2g 4 in Friends

if the non custodial parent stays home as a full-time parent, consents to reasonable visitation, requests no child support, offers the children a room of their own, is remarried in a stable relationship and the children expressly want to be with the non custodial parent, the custodial parent works hours not suitable for the children's schedules and doesn't even keep the children in the same home as themselves, would the judge most likely be willing to grant full custody to the non custodial parent?

2006-11-15 07:12:56 · 10 answers · asked by Bella 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-15 07:12:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you like one guy but your single and your not exclusive is it ok to go out on dates with other men as long as your not intimate?

2006-11-15 07:12:41 · 17 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im leaving to Europe for a month is like the senior trip we do in my school, i ' ve been with my boyfriend for a year and 5 month im so in love. But he is freaking out that im leaving i cant make him understand that im not gonna do anything that i just wanna go for the experience and to have fun but with my friends not with otehr guys i've been looking foward to this trip since im like 7 years old.
My friend decided not to go for gher bf i not gonna do that,im gonna go this is important to me he understands that, i know he is gonna be working while im gone so i dont have enything to worry about but he think he does how do i make him understand??

2006-11-15 07:12:40 · 6 answers · asked by sofitaps 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok...if you are an arabic man and you marry 2 women in Egypt and then come to american with one of them....are you breaking the law in america? Since in America you can only have one wife how would this work.

This is not about me!!!!! I am argueing with a friend...lol~

2006-11-15 07:12:32 · 4 answers · asked by mommyofone1998 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so i met this guy where i work. i work @ a gym. and we have had some small talk.- about the week, our weekend ect.. ( im 18 & hes 20) well the other day he asled what i was doing that weekend i said i wasnt sure. he said" oh well you should call me sometime" & gave me his number. so i waited a day or two later, and called him. we didnt hang out though. so a few days later, he askd if i wanted to hang out after class one night. so we are. were going to a "late dinner" & from there im not sure. ladies! and guys! im kinda nervous. im not looking for anything serious, iv been hurt/lead on before how can i telll if hes just in itjust to see if he can get some, or if hes really interested? ect.. what do i wear? how should i act. what do i talk about .. ahh!
help please. haha

2006-11-15 07:12:10 · 5 answers · asked by marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

She is my girl friend and we had a smal problem last 2 weeks! I didn't answer her calls and now she do same! I'm upset!

2006-11-15 07:11:47 · 5 answers · asked by enexr 1 in Singles & Dating

he told me he wants to not be bf and gf but that im his girl and that he wanted a break but we would be fine and get back together. so i asked him if he wanted to work things out with her he told me no! he just wants to be friends with her and it didnt work the first time so he only wants to be her friends. and he doesnt want to lose me. and he doesnt want to c other people just have space what do i do.

2006-11-15 07:11:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Try and pick up on taken men, I know people say "its because they want what they cant have". But I dont think thats the case. The girl may know hes taken, but she keeps entering dangerous territory. Do you think its just the girls? Or do guys have a lot to do with it as well? And if the guys have a lot to do with it, and you have been in this same situation (on the side of the real girlfriend) please tell me the "warning" signs. Because not all guys are honest. Thanks

2006-11-15 07:11:06 · 13 answers · asked by Niki 3 in Singles & Dating

why or why not?

do you think that being 100% sure is neccessary for a healthy relationship?

2006-11-15 07:10:47 · 14 answers · asked by plenymo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm married but for years desired to leave my marriage if my husband didn't straighten up. I have now met someone who makes me happy but I'm unsure because of only knowing this person for only a few months. My husband is now acting like he was always supposed to but it may be because of his finding that someone else is interested in me. We have two kids together and the other person is a female(I've never been involved with a female before). Please Help!

2006-11-15 07:10:05 · 18 answers · asked by confusedalot75 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy that lives down the street, he has a thing for my wifes feet. He massages my wifes feet and paints her toe nails. He has even kissed her toes. They are strictly casual friends.

2006-11-15 07:10:04 · 14 answers · asked by mrball54 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

for question and answers

2006-11-15 07:09:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family