I got mad because my boyfriend always feels sick and couldn't come over to see me and everyone was yelling and arguing already over a bunch of stuff. So, I told him that everyone was right about our age differences and that we have different maturity levels. He told me that it doesn't matter to him, that he still loves me 'cause I can accept him for who he is and not what he is. I got fed up and said "f*** you, f*** this relationship, just f***in' forget you ever met me" and hung up. I feel so bad for what I did. He's very calm when I get mad and can usually soothe me. He had a headache, so now he's layin' down. I know that everyone fights in a relationship, but I get mad at him too often. He doesn't do anything to deserve it. When I have a bad day, I take it out on him and I don't want to do it any more. I'll admit I have an anger problem. What can I do to show him that I'm sorry? I'm on a budget and can't drive. So, make it something simple.
2006-11-15 07:20:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The first step is addmitting you have a problem the second step is getting help. Age doesnt matter unless there under 18 and for me 21.
I think you were selffish and immature and you should give him time to get over his hurt. You should not take your anger out on him (some would call it mental abuse) if it was the other way around you would. Learn to control yourself and your emotions and grow up and be a woman.
Treat people like you would like to be treated is a good rule to follow
When I am upset I take the time to write a letter to the person so that I can thoughtfully explan my feelings and thoughts weather I give them to them or not. Email or write a letter to him and by all means apoligize for being such a B!=c#.
2006-11-15 07:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A call and apology will do just fine. Maybe he is sick? He should get checked out if it seems to be a chronic problem. If it isn't a medical problem he is probably using it as an excuse to cheat on you during those times. Or, you are really an angry, unpleasant person so his tolerance of time spent with you is limited. If you are generally angry to anyone, then the problem is not him and you so you best work it out. If you find yourself angry at him specifically then the problem is with your relationship and should really consider continuing it or not. If it doesn't work you can call me out for a date because I really think hot-tempered women are hot! Good Luck!
2006-11-15 07:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by 46&2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you talk to him on how you feel. he need to know how you feel. and when you get mad try realy hard not to take it out on him. i know this sound easyer said then done i do the same thing. but when you are in a good mood you should tell him what you feel and why you feel it and tell he you try not to take it out on him. and when you get in that mood ask him to please leave intell you clam down.
2006-11-15 07:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by braveheart3g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him how sorry you are and explain everything you said here. That should help, to begin with.
2006-11-15 07:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by mackenzie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well!!!Control over emotions,its so simple.
2006-11-15 07:29:12 · answer #5 · answered by em-es 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can help you , and maybe it will be better if you will talk with him
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2006-11-15 07:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋