he told me he wants to not be bf and gf but that im his girl and that he wanted a break but we would be fine and get back together. so i asked him if he wanted to work things out with her he told me no! he just wants to be friends with her and it didnt work the first time so he only wants to be her friends. and he doesnt want to lose me. and he doesnt want to c other people just have space what do i do.
2006-11-15 07:11:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DROP HIM SWEETIE! IT SEEMS LIKE TO ME HE'S PLAYING GAMES. IT'S OBVIOUS HE STILL HAS FEELINGS FOR HIS EX AND I BELIEVE HE WANTS TO CUT YOU LOOSE BECAUSE HE WANTS TO TRY AND WORK THINGS OUT WITH HER. YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT. YOU SHOULD HAVE SOMEONE WHO IS DEDICATED TO YOU AND YOU ONLY.
2006-11-15 07:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by Fabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similar situation just let him have his space. If it is meant to be it will. He is probably just a little confused on how all his emotions are going on at the same time. Just be there to support him and keep the communication open. It is hard but I am sure it will work out. If you do start to see him drift away or sense he is seeing someone else bring it up again and talk through it. Either way you have to do what is best for you. I wish you luck and happiness.
2006-11-15 07:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by fallenangelf99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dump him my friend!!iv had so many pigs in my life,i can read um like a book...basically he wants to play the field..he didnt need to have a break just 4 space..u can stay 2gether n have space!!he doesnt want to commit to u,n the only reason is cuz of other females...if u do dump him,n he genually does want u n no1 else,then he will come running n beg 4 u 2 get with him..wont he???good luck,i no wot ur goin thru xx
2006-11-15 07:16:05 · answer #3 · answered by rolelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on. If he is in a new relationship he should cut ties with her if there are no feelings involved. He is just keeping you on the back burner in case it doesn't work out between them. Even better if he calls you should not answer the phone for even insulting you with the space thing.
2006-11-15 07:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him the space he needs. a relationship is based on trust and you've got to learn to trust him, if he says he wants to be with you and not her then he means it. its just past relationships can sometimes pry on your mind, u can worry that maybe the things that went wrong before might happen again and when u know you care about someone obviously you dont want that to happen.
just let him know that your always there. sometimes things get on top of you and maybe thats whats happened to him.
stay by him, trust him, it'll make you both stronger for when you do get back together.
hope it works out x x
2006-11-15 07:19:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best friend just went through this.And
It's Crap, if he says he wants you, but wants space?... and then saying... I want space, but I know we'll get back together? What's the point in wasting any time without you, if he knows or says he's going to get back with you? If you really care\love someone... you dont want space away from them.... this just causes confusion in the relationship.... usually when a guy wants ''space'' its because he wants to...''play around'' with other things.... I wouldnt put up with it.
2006-11-15 07:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by sweetkiss_xo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find yourself another man. Sounds like he just wants to string you along. Your not my girlfriend but your still my girl, What kinda BS is that?!?!? Screw that honey...don't put up with it, move on. You put up with that BS now and you will always have to put up with his "i need a break" episode. I used to be with this man a very long time ago and he used to pull this crap on me all the time...we would be find for like a couple of months then out of nowhere he "needed a break" than about a month later he was back up my butt. 3 yrs later I find out the whole time I was with him he was with someone else. So much for his "i need a break" line, right?
2006-11-15 07:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by SexyMommy2B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol don't bother
take a break get alot of distance maybe try and find someone else
you shouldn't wait around for anyone
let him see what a huge mistake he is making
if you get together great and if you don't who cares
Looking back on highschool i spent way to much time worrying abotu guys i would really never even see agein
have fun enjoy life, and don't stress to much on guys
(even though it's hard not to when we get stuck worrying about them 24/7)
2006-11-15 07:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men tend to not know what they want at certain ages. Give him time. And see others in the process. Do something to keep your mind off of him, because if you don't you'll push him away.
2006-11-15 07:14:52 · answer #9 · answered by Diamondbch 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Give him space. Don't call let him call you. Make him wonder what you are doing and let him know that you are fine with out him. if he sees that you are good on your own and that you don't need him he will come crawling back .good luck
2006-11-15 07:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by littleluvkitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋