Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

2006-11-15 07:28:42 · 19 answers · asked by gary k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is just that we been together for 8 years and married for two, and ive tried to work things out for the last 5 years and when i had my boy nothing seem to matter but still cant escape the fact that im not in love with my wife anymore not because of how she looks cuz she had the baby or anything like that..its just that i dont look at her the same way as i use to..im even ignoring all the females around me so that everyone wont think im doing this for another girl...i just wanna be with my boy for rite now.

2006-11-15 07:28:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my man friend is in to heavy bondage with sex he wants me to tell him to do things in the bedroom that i don't like for him to do , and talk dirty to him , say stuff like get down on your knees etc it makes me sick, he also watches women beating men videos, he is 46, im 36 and i never witnessed a man like this before, i need advice, on what to do is this something that is danger to me he has even talked to those phone sex lines live and i caught him doing thing the woman told him to do over the phone

2006-11-15 07:28:37 · 15 answers · asked by freemeimok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Every year about 10 of my girlsfriends and I go out to all the bars "upnorth" for deer hunting opener weekend. We like to dress up in orange and have sayings on our shirt. (that have to do with deer hunting, beer drinking,and stripers). Tonight we are getting together to make our outfits. I was just wondering if anyone had some ideas on what to put on our shirts this year. We are down for just about anything...after all we a group of girls going to the female stripers. Let me know if you can come up with anything or have seen anything on t-shirts and stuff. Thanks

2006-11-15 07:28:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going out on a date with this girl that I like on Friday. This is the third date I might add. Gosh, I've never had feelings for a girl like this in my life. I have been wanting to kiss her, but I kind of held back due the fact that I don't want to seem pushy and needy. Should I kiss her this friday? I don't know what to do.

2006-11-15 07:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by hey101 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend of 2 yrs is such a GOOD/NICE type of guy, who is very, EXTREMELY careful about not getting caught in the act by my parents or his (we live in a traditional city where u live with your parents untill you are married.) but he is 26 and i am 21... im more of a fun, relaxed person... and i really like that he is careful and cautious, but sometime he just EXAGGERATES...
like for ex. we are making out, im close to climaxing, and suddendly he just leaves becaue he "hears" or feels like someone is coming.... and im like RELAAAAX its my house nobody is coming right now, bla bla bla, and he still leaves... i feel like the GUY! trying to convinve his gf to make out... its annoying, and today he told me i was a very horny girl... whatt?!?! im just a normal 21 yr old with hormones...
\but i got REALLY offended.... should i just like STOP doing these things so hell know im more than just THAT?

2006-11-15 07:26:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:26:20 · 5 answers · asked by jaya v 1 in Family

2006-11-15 07:26:18 · 7 answers · asked by nathan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know it pathetic but anyways there is this girl in alot of my class and i think she likes me cuz she is always looking at me we make eye contact everynow and then but i like her very much

2006-11-15 07:25:43 · 7 answers · asked by julian p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:25:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be very distracting and depressing and is bringing me down and getting in the way in me achieving in life to my maximum potential. any tips for channeling it out?

2006-11-15 07:24:30 · 9 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Love is a sign of weakness. Never loved anyone. Love is a sign of weakness. I see people holding hands and i want to get sick.

2006-11-15 07:24:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:23:56 · 11 answers · asked by Billie Blanco 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:23:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am home full time with my children, 3 1/2 and 14 months. I am considering going back to work full time since the $$ would be helpful and intellectually I know I would enjoy it. I am struggling with the idea of not being with my children, however. Any thoughts or advice?

2006-11-15 07:22:57 · 16 answers · asked by I'm Trying 3 in Family

2006-11-15 07:22:55 · 5 answers · asked by eryc 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

have you turned into a mess after getting married...put on excessive weight, chopped off your hair so you look like a bull dyke, stopped being all purty....

2006-11-15 07:22:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

just anything to cheer me up

2006-11-15 07:22:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend tells me he loves me all he time but when he gets around his friends he says it low sometimes does he love me:?

2006-11-15 07:22:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to visit my fiances' family in a couple of weeks, and staying at their house since I live in Michigan and they live in Florida. Wondering what would be the proper gift to bring to them , I need one for his grandmother, and 2 of his Aunts, and his uncles.
Have any ideas? I don't have any idea about frangerance they like to get candles or anything like that.
Please help me out with any ideas you have. Thanks

2006-11-15 07:22:21 · 4 answers · asked by Aely 2 in Family

My buddie who is a rower on the boat I cox got in an argument with me the other day.

(I know this guy has a thing for me but I can't do anythiing about it because getting with a guy on my crew team is off limits and a dumb idea...i hate drama)

Anyways I dated a differn't the first 7 weeks of school he dumped me and to mend what he hurt i made out with quite a few boys in a small period of time each one ended up fustrating and stressing me out even more... So Like Meredith Gray I am knitting, and havn't kissed any boys for the last 4 weeks and it's been great, no stress, no drama, no stressing over boys only school.

The crew boy is trying to tell me I am kidding myself and that one is only truely happy when they have someone else in there life.

Does anyone see what he is saying true because I feel so much happier now and so complete with myself knowing I need no one but myself (for the time being).

Do you think we are only happy when we have someone else in are lifes?

2006-11-15 07:22:08 · 18 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:22:06 · 11 answers · asked by stab 1 in Weddings

tell me about it. what was the consequences?

2006-11-15 07:21:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, just curious, I mean rejection hurts, and I'm too scared to chat with this man,-he's 23, and it's all in fear of benig rejected. Anywho, if you have a story that will lighten me up, Thanks!! I mean, how did you feel when you found out he/she liked you, but you had to make the move?-which I really don't want to, but I guess I won't know until I go.

2006-11-15 07:21:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats it mean when females,even female friends,find it hard to look me in the eye,(not that there,s a problem or a big deal) I just don,t understand why alot of gals do this, especially to me,I know there,s a reason why they do it and other women know exactly why they do it. I like to look people in the face and say hello and maybe smile,but alot of women, even friends of mine can look some guys in the eye but not me. they,ll come to me later when I,m not thinking about it , whats it mean!

2006-11-15 07:21:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

back together and now it has been almost a 1 1/2 yyrs since i saw this guy but he still e-mails me.....and I will e-mail him back but just hi and how are you doing......this guys parents are my son god parents and his parents are friends with my parents........and now me and my husband are not working out, it was a HUGE mistake to get back together.......he has no respect for me, he doesn't care about my feelings and his parents absolutely hate me and his mom is always saying rude comments to me and he does nothing about it, he continues to let it go and i am getting sick of it.........and this guy that i dated while were seperated is still interested and he keeps e-mailing.........its as if he is just waiting for my husband to screw up again..........what should i do, or is it wrong to still keep in touch with him, i just feel weird in just not talking to him anymore, since i have known him since i was 14, he was my chambelan in my quince and our family are friends........advice?

2006-11-15 07:21:23 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 3 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy I know gave me his guitar pick and told me that he had something important to ask me, but didn't know how to bring it up. Does he want to ask me out? If so, what is a nice way of saying no, because you love him like a brother? Would it be bad if the reason is because I like his best friend? If I were to go out with his friend would it affect how we are just friends and friends only?

2006-11-15 07:21:22 · 1 answers · asked by piratepixie63 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel that we have nothen more to work out he feels the same but we just cant agree on a divorce he wants me to pay ands i want him to pay what should we do. we been apart for 5 years and we both had moved on

2006-11-15 07:21:21 · 5 answers · asked by braveheart3g 1 in Family

i dnt no abt this but i love that girl more than me she is cute but i dont know why she left me alone really i dont know

2006-11-15 07:21:19 · 7 answers · asked by Nil 1 in Singles & Dating

She puts forth effort for people, me still, too, (just not as often), but it's like she does it for others who won't thank her. She doesn't like acknowledgement or something. So, I am going to tell her today. Any tips?

It's simple to me. My gf is the paradigm of a giving person, literally gives until it hurts, which was great for a while, but, obviously, she burns herself out routinely. So I can only speculate as to why she's like this, and I do have my theories, but how fair is it? If I take from her all she gives me, she'll burn herself out. If I reject it completely, she'll resent me for not accepting her. And if I take it sometimes, but not all the time, which has been my approach so far, she keeps me at arms length b/c I'm not interested in her enough. Are my only real options leave or keep putting up w/ it?

2006-11-15 07:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating