my boyfriend of 2 yrs is such a GOOD/NICE type of guy, who is very, EXTREMELY careful about not getting caught in the act by my parents or his (we live in a traditional city where u live with your parents untill you are married.) but he is 26 and i am 21... im more of a fun, relaxed person... and i really like that he is careful and cautious, but sometime he just EXAGGERATES...
like for ex. we are making out, im close to climaxing, and suddendly he just leaves becaue he "hears" or feels like someone is coming.... and im like RELAAAAX its my house nobody is coming right now, bla bla bla, and he still leaves... i feel like the GUY! trying to convinve his gf to make out... its annoying, and today he told me i was a very horny girl... whatt?!?! im just a normal 21 yr old with hormones...
\but i got REALLY offended.... should i just like STOP doing these things so hell know im more than just THAT?
2006-11-15 07:26:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh an hes not gay at all...
when hes not nervous hes like all over me... but i never say no to him and im always willing to do anything
2006-11-15 07:27:54 · update #1
I think you need to back off a touch until he feels confortble with your sexuality.
And horny is perception based.
If his hornyness is a sheet of paper, and you are a two story building, it looks like you are horny.
But if you compare yourself to the Empire State Building, somwe other person is far hornier than you may every be.
Just take it in stride
2006-11-15 07:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he pulls this more than once yes you need to find someone else. There may be more going on than him thinking he hears someone. He could be trying to control you and what better way than get you all worked up and then leave.
If you are truly where you can not be discovered then his worry is a bit over the top. Stop letting him do this and see what his reaction is.
He does have a right to be very afraid of your parents. They would not like this and you may be forced to stop seeing him. So be reasonable about this. He could be just as horney but will not let it overide his good sense.
Find a place neither of you have to worry and see what happens.
If he still has problems you need to find out why
2006-11-15 07:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt alone in Christianity and that I wasnt good enough ever no matter what, then I had a girlfriend who was a wiccan and so I got into that and I felt like I was hitting something I had along time ago when I was younger, I always believed in the Old Gods but I sorta always thought that they were gone but thanks to the gf I was able to come back to them. Now I am a Heathen, proud Asatruar, and have felt like I have finally found where I am meant to be, it was a great feeling like I had been freed from everything but as though I had been put into something that fit me perfectly and my soul basicly jumped in joy. I have always felt like Tyr was the one who wanted me, but Freyr seems to be more present and easy to converse with I have also seen symbols of his such as particular animals in dreams just before big events. So I am unsure yet which is the one that I will end up with being mostly devoted too. But none the less its a great feeling when you feel youve come home basicly, I have really changed alot since becoming devoted.
2016-03-28 21:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's important in a relationship to have similar libidos. Just a quick scan of the questions posted here will reveal that so many are unhappy being "hornier" than their significant other. If he is so uptight, consider dating someone else, you are young and still discovering what and who you like and should settle down with. You sound like a lot of fun, don't let a prude boyfriend ruin that.
2006-11-15 07:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do...but that means going without...And well thats just you aint it you enjoy having sex? When he got with you he must have some idea that you was like that within how ever many months it was before you 2 slept togther...And if his not satisfying you and is too paranoid maybe you should find someone a little more daring! And someone that matches your out going "horny" personality!
2006-11-15 07:31:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh, you have the best questions!! :) hmm, in my experience the woman is usually more sexual despite all the rage about men being horndogs. now i know that a stream of people will disagree but i've been in your position in all but one of my 5 (this stays here, lol) sexual relationships and i've asked many of my closer friends if it was odd. in reality guys are less sexual, reaching their sexual peek around 18 yrs. of age, and also more inclined to be nervous when fooling around where you can be caught. besides, your absolutely right, thank your hormones. esp since you've perviously stated that you have a long period of emotional difficulties before your period, its probably safe to say that your hormones may be provoking you to be a frisky individual. :p its normal, don't let him make you feel bad for needing physical attention often. your young, girls our age have to be maintained!!! lol. :)
if your not happy with the sexual relationship between you guys, don't settle. i can promise you that if a stern talking to doesn't fix the situation, it will never change and it with continue to be a topic of concern and frustration for you.
2006-11-15 19:47:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny that you say those things, my wife is just like your husband. She isnt a risk taker at all and I like a little bit of the risk to spice up the sex. You being the horny one is a good thing, keep up the good work ;)
2006-11-15 07:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't feel bad that ur called the horny one in ur relationship, its not that big of deal cause you cant control your hormones and when you with him the next time you need to tell him to stop being so jumpy about this kind of stuff. its fun and he should enjoy it instead of always being scared of little noises
2006-11-15 07:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to change the way you are, if he cannot fulfill your needs, perhaps he is not the right one for you. Find someone who can, also, find someone who lives on his own that way no future worries of "getting-caught" in the act :-)
2006-11-15 07:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by jomuma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a wuss. Don't be offended by his remarks, most men would not complain about their lady being "too horny."
2006-11-15 07:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋