2006-11-15 07:22:06 · 11 answers · asked by stab 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
take your veil and turban off
2006-11-15 07:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a great and sensitive question. Of course whatever you do will seem special, here are some ideas for you. Make sure that you are both relaxed and do not make the sex portion the most important thing of the evening, although I am sure you can hardly wait and neither can she. For a virgin woman, usually they have little knowledge of the actual act and what takes place, it can be quite painful and some women actually need a doctor to break the hymen if it is very firmly attache, some women do not even have much of one to begin with and it is not an indication that they have ever had sex.
I would firstly make sure that you are bathed, you could make a nice ceremony of this, helping each other wash and so forth, making it part of your foreplay. Touching , caressing and kissing gently are ways for a woman to be naturally lubricated and lessen the pain for both of you when you finally enter her. Music would be lovely and some low lighting, you may also want some snacks around like fruit and some beverages, feed each other, it is very erotic. The most important thing is to always ask, "is this alright, does this feel good" she will greatly appreciate all your efforts to make her and your first night gentle, erotic , fun and memorable.
2006-11-15 15:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by ZenWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time. Enjoy lots of foreplay. Purchase some synthetic lubricant (like Astroglide) just in case. Do your best to relax, maybe take a hot shower together or something. Your body is designed to respond to stimulation. Be sure to tell your partner what feels good and what doesn't. Then, enjoy what feels good. Also, take slow, deep breaths when you get excited. It will help your body reach orgasm. The woman, especially a virgin, might like to be fingered (with lubricant, natural or otherwise) to help with penetration. The first time usually hurts the woman a little, but it's very quick and doesn't last.
2006-11-15 15:29:36 · answer #3 · answered by Joanna V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know that you are both virgins? It's not like there is any sure fire way to prove it. Just wanted to make certain you understood that.
As for doing something special, a quiet place to be together. Her favorite flower. Soft music, maybe songs that you both enjoy listening to. In other words, you want to relax and not feel pressured!
2006-11-15 15:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say hell yeah do something special!!! I mean come on both of you are virgins so have some fun and enjoy that special moment. Now if you live in America I say go for it and go wild!!!
2006-11-15 15:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes for special intimate night....You should lick the vagina this is what my best friends girl friend says...she says that is special for the first time.
2006-11-15 15:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Wheaties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite 71 of your virgin friends. It will seem like heaven on Earth to your hubby.
2006-11-15 15:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by non_apologetic_american 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure!! why dont you get a nice hotel room and put roses everyone, get some chamangne (if you can drink, i dont know if arabics cant drink, sorry), maybe some chocolate covered strawberries. make it a surprise. it will be great.
congrats! and have fun!
2006-11-15 15:23:56 · answer #8 · answered by mickey g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes you should do something special that night girl
2006-11-15 15:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by 49er fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you plan on him sticking around for more than a month you better put out.
2006-11-15 15:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋