Family & Relationships - 15 November 2006

2006-11-15 07:41:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

11/15/06 my boyfriend asked me for something I used....I said like what?you can have my brush if you want?he said not that sort of thing,like a bra or a tampon.I said ok....you can have my bra but not a tampon.he said cool...did you use it?I said.yeah.he said.howlong will you wait to have sex?I said a while,we've been goig out for a week chill out.he said.I don't plan on doing that yet but I was just curios.I said well...I gotta go catch bus (I onley in high school)love you.he said love you too. then he kised me good bye.

2006-11-15 07:41:32 · 6 answers · asked by twizztidsmoker 1 in Singles & Dating

When a grown man(35yr old w/3 children divorced) is wanting to dump a women who is 28yr old single mother of a 5 yr old....would a man be DIRECT on breaking up, instead of making escuses such as, "i just was diagnosed with blood cancer, by just ONE trip to the ER during one night(which i think is BS, coz his Instant messagr was on, and he was always in idle or not) for the 12 hrs of being in ER as he said. He would always make comments, such as I have a backup or speaking with other men.(his insecurity). But my question to him was something like this....

I spoke with him, and asked him, to make things easier on me, please tell me" not to speak to you ever again, and to never call you". he wouldn't give me an answer and just said, "just do as your heart tells you, and to forgive me, because I found this out". On the dating site, where we met, his profile was hidden before and now he has "deactivated it completely". I am just sooo heart broken..is this WEIRD or what, what would u do??

2006-11-15 07:41:02 · 6 answers · asked by fairytale_chic 1 in Singles & Dating

So me and this guy have been dating for a bout a month. We both just got out of long relationships and i realize he wants to slow it down a tad. But its hard for me to slow down without thinking he doesnt like me. What is my problem? Do i just let him call the shots and let him call me, and make all the moves? How can i make myself feel better about this without thinking something is wrong with me. We have been together for the past month like non stop and we have a great time, and then all of a sudden he wants to step back. What to do??..... Why is it soo hard to move back once youve been further in a realtionship?

2006-11-15 07:40:58 · 15 answers · asked by PinkFloMo 2 in Singles & Dating

Im 6 foot with blue eyes and for the last year I've had red hair but I cant decided which is more sexier, if I go back to blonde hair or go back to my natural light brown hair or just stay with the red. In school I dyed my hair blonde but when i was in college i went red so that I was different and stayed that way because I like not looking like everyone else.

2006-11-15 07:39:21 · 43 answers · asked by xx angel 3m xx 2 in Singles & Dating

i would like to propose to my girlfriend can i propose to her?
she is on her period.

2006-11-15 07:39:21 · 11 answers · asked by Through The Eyes Of The Dead 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:38:40 · 18 answers · asked by Danny H 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so we have been together for 3 years now, we have talked about marriage and hell we almost got engaged a couple of years ago.

he wants to get married but i am kind of reluctant. such a commitment, i feel too young to be committed to one guy for the rest of my life. How do i know he wont tie me down and stop me from doing the things i want to do with my life?

Plus there are a few things about our relationship i am still not happy about. but its never going to be perfect, some days i want to be with him forever sometimes i think do i go on?

Does everyone go through this, how do you know when to get married?

2006-11-15 07:37:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I been dating this guy I met in a online dating site. Everything was perfect between us, he is the most sweetest, romantic guy I have ever known. Lately he has been stressed out with his jub since he is the owner of a chain of stores. So in the past wk I noticed him a little distant. About a few days ago, I approached him and told him that I was not satisfied with the way things were going in the past week. He told me that he was very sorry, and that no matter what he told me he always missed me. And that he has been really stressed out with his career to the point that he wants to get away from everything including his friends so he can have some time to think what he wants to do.. I asked him if he dint want to be with me anymore? And he said that he dint want to loose me, but he does need some time to figure out things with his career. He said that at this minute the way things are going he feels he has no time for a relationship. But he promised that he was going to talk to me soon

2006-11-15 07:37:35 · 15 answers · asked by marcela r 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:37:25 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

told me it was awesome to have the peace and quiet. he also said the thought actually occurred to him to drive into nyc by himself and go clubbing and try and bang as many girls as possible since his wife was out. he said he didnt do it though. when he told me that i was completely laughing to myself because thoughts like that have hit my head too! (im married as well) is this a common thought to hit our guy heads? are we alone?

2006-11-15 07:36:44 · 4 answers · asked by mark s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

No I am in a custody battle and I want to use that against her, but I testified against my mom and sister, could I just say my wife made me and I was under diress?

2006-11-15 07:36:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, i slept with this guy at the end of July. I text him and he texts back. However, last friday when i texted he tried to call, which i ignored and he texted me saying he likes me and he expects to drop everything at the drop of a hat when he wants to see me? what should i do. I haven't seen him since July.

2006-11-15 07:36:28 · 14 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:36:07 · 3 answers · asked by boredtodeath 3 in Singles & Dating

Can you be friend with an ex without "extra curricular activities".

2006-11-15 07:35:06 · 16 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Friends

My wife and I are getting a divorce and she is keeping me away from her 3 year old daughter whom knows me as daddy. I want to fight for time to visit with her but my ex refuses because I have a history of drug and alchol abuse, domestic violence and I am not currently in treatment. But I have been somewhat sober, but she feels my being in and out of her daughters life (Iwas in jail 2 times in our 2 year marriage) and my sobriety effects our daughter. She is also fighting to have my visits with my son supervised as well. Do you think it is fair to take away this little girls daddy? I must add, I never paid money during our marriage toward her daughter, my wife supported us completly, and when she left me to watch our daughter once she came home and I was drunk, but I am sorry and just want to see my girl but my ex says she has seen to much and it is over, besides my sister was just arrested for threatening to kill my daughter and I live with her..what do you think

2006-11-15 07:35:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love him dearly.

2006-11-15 07:34:55 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-15 07:34:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have MD a disease that progressively weakens my muscles. It’s to the point that although I’m healthy I use a wheelchair to get around and need assistance with most every day things but im a good, great guy and girls seem to really like me. also its seem the more think about sex the worse i do with girls, so im try to figure out how to not focus on sex too much.

2006-11-15 07:34:17 · 19 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well hes 15, he plays hockey, golf, and tennis. and also his birthday is the first week of january so what should i get for that? help meee!!!

2006-11-15 07:32:52 · 11 answers · asked by ibroughtsexyback 1 in Singles & Dating

Women toss themselves at me all the time. Plus, it is better to experience the buffet than to be stuck with the same entre all the time. I think my affairs make me appreciate my girlfriend more.

It is not in a man's anatomical nature to be in a monogomous relationship or celibate. Why would women force this? It isn't spiritual.

2006-11-15 07:32:49 · 31 answers · asked by Ratzo 1 in Singles & Dating

its just i got my childerns dead beat fathers phone number but not an adrress. i called child support and they told me i need an address i called the phone number and his new woman picked up. Now that i know its his number now i need to find his address. it a cell number through sprint.

2006-11-15 07:31:44 · 9 answers · asked by jm m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a classic hourglass shape with a bit of a pot belly. Is that ok or should I start doing some sit ups now?

2006-11-15 07:30:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I work at a Grill and Tavern and I am 17. Well, I work with quite a few hispanics, and most of them are either married or in a relationship. They will say stuff like "muy bonita", "chiquita" and "sexy" or "novia/sancha" constantly. I guess they think it is funny, but I don't considering they have wives and gilfriends at home. They are always trying to be oh so charming and gentleman-like which in any other situation would be flattering if they were not attached. I just don't understand why they act this way...and for some reason my co-workers find it "cute" and see no problem with it, and it makes me wonder if it is "innocent" like because we don't speak the same language. I'm wondering would it be the same as an English speaker working in another language country and doing the same thing--would it be seen as okay? I just don't understand this, four of them to be exact have even asked me out, and some say over the top innuendos which are absurd. Can anyone explain?

2006-11-15 07:30:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive met this guyfor 2 weeks and well I told him my nick is Golden_angel..lol so 3 days ago he told me if I was really a angel...lol
I told him lol no-1 is..and then he started being silly tellin me I was..lol..so now im checking my mails and he knows I love poems so he sent me this..

...THE LOST ANGEL...
Once apon a time, I went on the computer and talked to a real life Angel.
But didn't know she was an Angel, because I didn't know her yet.
Then one day we desided to meet up.
Then I found out Angels are true.
But this Angel was a little different then the rest.
Only because she didnt really think she was an Angel, and she was lost.
She was a true life living Angel.
But she was lost, he in the States, insted of being free in Heaven.
Only because she didnt truly believe she was one.
I have faith in god, but once meeting her, nothing else in this world met nothing to me.
I just wanted to be with this Angel.
And I wanted her to realise she was an Angel.
But when your 100% sure she was a real life living Angel, How do you make her believe that?
You really cant make anyone believe something, they feel is not true.
But this was a totaly true Angel of God.
So how do I make a lost Angel, not be lost?
Thats what im working on now. But me not being an Angel it's hard to get on the same page as an Angel.
How many more of these real life Angels are out there, that dont realise they are Angels?
Is this Angel going to be lost forever?
And I dont want this Angel to just leave me and fly away, once she realise's that she is a true Angel of God.
So I pray and pray and pray. While the Angel is still lost.
The Angel is only lost because she had bad experences with the workers of evil.
Im not a worker of evil, but a worker of God. How do I change her thoughts and feelings i ask myself.
I cant, only the strongest power can, thats God. So I pray and pray some more.
Then the Angel seemed to become more happier,
But is the Angel still lost? Now she is lost, but a lost happy Angel?
Its very important that the Angel isn't lost or confused anymore, but it's also VERY important that the Angel is happy too.
I love seeing the Angel smile. It makes a non-Angel smile when she smiles.
Shes a very very very special Angle, thats probley why shes still lost her on earth.
But more I think about it, seems like God sent this special Angel to be apart of my life.
This Angel helped me out so much. Its just crazy how she can help someone so much. But at the same time doesn't realise shes a true living Angel here on earth.
Even if this Angel is lost forever, I will try forever to help her find her true self.
If she means the world to me, what does she mean to God? I could just imagine.
Just by looking at her heavnly face, you can totaly tell shes a real Angel.
Now that I met this Angel, I never want to leave herside.
Everytime im around her I feel like im flying with her.
I feel like im allready in Heaven.
Cant really explain the feelings this Angel gives me. But I can say this, its very sweet, caren, numb feelings she brings.
You can tell her hole family is a part of God. But theres something about this Angel over all the other Angels.
Even the non-lost ones, shes an important one, specialy when she doesn't know shes a real Angel.
You can allways see her thoughts and feelings, specialy the sparkle that comes from her heavenly eyes.
I never felt this way about anyone or anything, specialy a real Angel.
So now I try to stick by her 24-7 and never leave herside.
And im loving ever second with her. If she only knew what she really was.
But I guess this is all Gods plans, falling into place.
One day she will realise this, and she will take me under her wing, and fly all the way to the golden gates.
Still then im not leaving herside.
I just wish whoever is reading this, you could meet this true living Angel in person as well.
Then you will see how well God works on his people, much less his loving Angels he desends down to us.
But this is getting close to the end of the story of the lost Angel. But I can tell you this.
She will be happy, and hopefuly not lost anymore. But I need to find away to prove it to her.
All that matters is God sent his Angel to take me under her wing, even if she doesn't feel like one.
The Angel is still lost right now, but this is only one story of more to come.
But im not going to stop of thinking of this Angel no matter what. So im not going to stop thinking of tomorrow as well.

2006-11-15 07:30:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend just bought me a 30 carret dimond ring and it has 30 caret platinum and then he said were going to the beach first of the summer ???????????????????

2006-11-15 07:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by kathy m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Judge grants joint custody in a temporary hearing. Visitation is scheduled until the OSC. Work schedule has changed. Can one parent pick up the other child a few hours earlier than scheduled from the sitter if the other parent is at work with joint custody rights? or can the other parent call the police for a violation?

2006-11-15 07:30:15 · 5 answers · asked by Bella 5 in Marriage & Divorce

just wondering..cuz im in that kind of position..soo...yeah...suggestions are good...

2006-11-15 07:29:38 · 17 answers · asked by jimsbud 1 in Singles & Dating

Being in this world its hard to love others for the love of God...
How do you love those around you that are jealous of u and feel as if u are a constant threat to their lives and family...yet u are never like that but you have no way out of this since they are in relation with u..so u cant just leave them nor be left alone.
If one doesnt love them , then wouldnt one be a hypocrit.
I have no way around this ...do you? does anyone??

2006-11-15 07:29:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we broke up a week ago cus we had one problem we couldnt solve. i love him so much and i never felt this way of anyone for many years!! i thought he was goin to be the one for me! guess not.. i dont kno what to do! i know gettin back now is impossible but how do i stop loving/caring for him?? pls help!!

2006-11-15 07:29:17 · 5 answers · asked by julie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships