Ok, i slept with this guy at the end of July. I text him and he texts back. However, last friday when i texted he tried to call, which i ignored and he texted me saying he likes me and he expects to drop everything at the drop of a hat when he wants to see me? what should i do. I haven't seen him since July.
2006-11-15 07:36:28 · 14 answers · asked by tessie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends on how much you like him - it must be a lot though cos you did sleep with him in July. if you have not seen him since then - only text messages - then how you think he expects you to drop everything to see him?
if you are not interested in him then i think you should stop texting him cos by keeping in contact all the time then you are giving him false hope.
hope it all works out well for you.
2006-11-15 07:40:58 · answer #1 · answered by magicalle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the situation. My friend slept with this guy when she was a sophomore(we graduated 3 years ago!) and he was like 22 or 23!! And she didn't really talk to him that much after but he was always trying to get a hold of her and hang out with her and that to me is just weird because there is only 1 thing a 22 year old wants to do with a 15 year old. To this day he still goes into the bar where she works and kind of like checks up on her and stuff. It creeps me out so I know it creeps her out. It really depends on your situation. It's been 4 months. I think unless you really think there could be something there to forget it. I'm surprised any guy would chase the same girl after 4 months with out seeing her!
2006-11-15 07:44:49 · answer #2 · answered by courtney c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wouldn't bother. If you haven't seen him since July your obviously not that interested. Do you live far apart why have you only been texting each other. Sounds a bit odd to me.
2006-11-15 07:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by hayley a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You havnt seen him since July and you are only asking now? I think you know the answer to this yourself, there is actually no relationship to even ask about, get out a bit, find someone who will spend time with you, and not on a bi-annual basis..
2006-11-15 08:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by magpyre 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He TOLD you to drop everything to see him? That's weird, don't listen. He just wants to have you pressed for him, it takes more than a text or a phone call! He needs to drop everything and make an actual effort to go to you!
2006-11-15 07:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey look on the bright side, at least he still shows an interest " AFTER SEX " not many blokes do you know! arrange to meet for a drink, just something simple and enjoy!
2006-11-15 07:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by red devil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sounds a lil crazy.....why should you drop everything just when he wants this....this kinda makes me think he is seeing someone else or doing something else because there shouldn't be anything like this going on if he likes you....i think he is playin ya.....
2006-11-15 07:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a boring question, however i will answer it...JUST DON'T TEXT HIM BACK! is that so hard to do?
2006-11-15 07:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cowgirl Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like him go for it,just make it on your terms lol
2006-11-15 07:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to sod off
2006-11-15 07:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by Creef 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋