She puts forth effort for people, me still, too, (just not as often), but it's like she does it for others who won't thank her. She doesn't like acknowledgement or something. So, I am going to tell her today. Any tips?
It's simple to me. My gf is the paradigm of a giving person, literally gives until it hurts, which was great for a while, but, obviously, she burns herself out routinely. So I can only speculate as to why she's like this, and I do have my theories, but how fair is it? If I take from her all she gives me, she'll burn herself out. If I reject it completely, she'll resent me for not accepting her. And if I take it sometimes, but not all the time, which has been my approach so far, she keeps me at arms length b/c I'm not interested in her enough. Are my only real options leave or keep putting up w/ it?
2006-11-15 07:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Think of being married to this person,
where would it stop? Would family come before
friends? Would You? Think about making some changes.
2006-11-15 07:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't deal with it then leave...
2006-11-15 15:23:48 · answer #2 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok and the mean ideea ??
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2006-11-15 15:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave..
2006-11-15 15:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by yu g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋