Try and pick up on taken men, I know people say "its because they want what they cant have". But I dont think thats the case. The girl may know hes taken, but she keeps entering dangerous territory. Do you think its just the girls? Or do guys have a lot to do with it as well? And if the guys have a lot to do with it, and you have been in this same situation (on the side of the real girlfriend) please tell me the "warning" signs. Because not all guys are honest. Thanks
2006-11-15 07:11:06 · 13 answers · asked by Niki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Theres some darn good answers so far! im thinking now.....the other thing is though: I dont know this girl personally, never met her. But say she texts a lot to him, and tells him her schedule...odd?
2006-11-15 07:25:58 · update #1
Maybe because she can't have him, but maybe in her mind that also means he's safe and she won't have to actually get involved because he won't go for her. But, sadly, sometimes he will. He might start off telling you about this girl's crush and how funny it is, but if he stops talking to you about her or hides texts or phone calls from you, he might be leading her on and that could turn dangerous.
2006-11-15 07:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about warning signs, but I think it has a lot to do with the fact that a girl sees a taken man and sees someone who must be worthwhile because he IS taken. It's true, I got hit on and propositioned more when I was married than I do now, so I think that's what it is.
2006-11-15 15:16:30 · answer #2 · answered by jirstan2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it has to do with both the girl and the guy!!! Because, the girl just wants to know that she can have who ever she wants, and they guy figures that he can have anybody if he wanted. If a guy doesn't call you and you have to call him everytime then you may have a problem. Also if he talks about a certain girl alot then there is another sign. Or mybe all of a sudden he starts telling you "I'm busy" when you ask to do something with him....he may actually be busy hanging out with another girl!!! I hope my answer got what you were looking for, if not i'm sorry i'm just tring to help out. Well peace.
2006-11-15 15:31:09 · answer #3 · answered by maria t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not all girls do that! I don't.
I actually hate the girls who do that!, behaving like such sluts!, playing Innocent and friendly just to get the guy. they do that because they fell unsure about themselves, they want to prove others that they can get any guy they want, even thought if that dude has a girlfriend already.
I been in the situation, of loosing a guy over another girl, she behave so silly around him, all the time playing jokes on him. I liked her we were friends, but I was mistaken.
the warning signs are:
when she hangs too much with him
she calls him often
she behaves silly, Innocent, friendly around him
those are just some signs I can think of...
and yeah, you are damn right! not all guys are honest!
2006-11-15 15:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by natalia k 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are in it for the challenge or some sort of gratification of breaking up another couple. They are in it for the short run and have real relationship and trust issues.
2006-11-15 15:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by sim_maroon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...i don't have a hubby but i do got a B\F...i found out 2 day from by best friend that he told her that if she wanted to he would break w\ me and go out w\her...i confronted him and he told me he was srry and all that...he bought me 12 dozen roses and i was sold...i went back out w\ him... i could tell that he was into my friend from the beggining sort of by:
the phone calls
him being around her when i wasn't there
her telling me that he was messing around poking her and stuff
I'm a sucker for gushy stuff so thats why i forgave him sorry if this was a total waste of time for you but i wish you the best of luck anywho :) :) :) :)
2006-11-15 15:18:05 · answer #6 · answered by pink_luver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coz these women are sl@gbags that derserve a good few punches round the head which i would happily do if any sl@g came near my man!
2006-11-15 15:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's a two way street honey...she may try to pick him up, but he has to be a willing participant....if she gets the signals, she will go for it......advise...always be on guard and protect your home front from hoes.
2006-11-15 15:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your one sweet nice polite girl . i can tell !!
and yeah i think guys have a lot to do with it .. and only immature girls who want what they cant have ..
have a nice day
bye
2006-11-15 15:15:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she can
2006-11-15 15:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by Hank S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋