recently i just discovered that i just give my boyfriend sex when he wants it ..how can i make him work for it without just giving it to him?
2006-11-15 07:20:22 · 14 answers · asked by gina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just lie back and spread em
2006-11-15 07:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well - you have to decide first what working for it actually means. Perhaps he feels he already does. You need to be careful with such phrases as turning sex into an economy will probably lead to disaster.
If of course you mean he should be more charming, considerate, take you out etc then you have to tell him directly. Men a cr*p at hints.
Good luck
2006-11-15 07:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he takes you out on dates at least once a week. Preferably somewhere expensive. Also if you're giving him sex whenever he wants he should be catering to you as well. Whenever you ask him to do something he should do it.
2006-11-15 08:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by Heaven26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him if he helps out around the house more, you'll happily reward him with a little extra lovin'.
2006-11-15 07:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i only wish that you were seeing me. seriously only have sex when you are in the mood for it. get him to pamper you first nice meal wine etc endulge you. Make him reaslise hoe lucky he is and not take anytrhing for granted
2006-11-15 11:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by hippotwoscoops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must enjoy it yourself or you would dump him but if that's all you do maybe tell him to start taking you out more ,how you like flowers,jewellery tell him nice gifts from him will see you return him with good things also it might just change things round
2006-11-15 07:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by ironstu3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be so easy make him wait for it longer he might appreciate it a bit more hes got 2 hands hasnt he?
2006-11-15 07:26:52 · answer #7 · answered by porker animal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you want him to work for it a little more...I'm sure he's heard of foreplay
2006-11-15 07:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by superstorrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell man he need to bring lion meat to cave you give him big boom boom
2006-11-15 07:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Unfrozen Caveman 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to make him work for it?
unless your a **** tease!!
2006-11-15 08:41:12 · answer #10 · answered by Jason J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋