This is part-two of my dilemma from Sunday…the good news is, he wasn't cheating after all (he confirmed for me that he went straight to his business trip in Vegas, with a car full of co-workers). And I had forgotten that he told me beforehand that he was helping some friends start up an online dating website (hence the URLs I found in the location bar). I feel so silly…but here's the bad part: back in September, my boyfriend admitted that he was no longer in love with me, that it was due to years (13 in our case) of built-up resentment, which was news to me, but I now understand why we never married. So I told him that he shouldn't stay if he's unhappy, but he said he loves me and wants to work on the relationship. He says the biggest problem is that he's always felt like he couldn't talk to me. I feel like he never gave me a chance to prove otherwise. Really, is it possible for him to ever fall back in love with me? Where do we start? We're both willing to put in the work. Thanks.
2006-11-15 07:18:29 · 4 answers · asked by misswrite1 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Fortunately, we still hug and kiss and say "I love you." We still hold hands and are still intimate, and I'm hoping that we can build on the love that is there. He is really a great guy; I just don't know how to "undo" whatever it was that I somehow did, you know? I know it will take time, but I would like to think he could eventually fall back in love with me. He's worth the work and the wait. I wouldn't still be with him if he wasn't.
2006-11-15 07:43:53 · update #1
In a way it is possible to fall back in love the first thing you all should do is to talk about when you all first met and see how it goes from there
2006-11-15 07:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Murders Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How sweet, it sounds like he would rather end it right then and there, but if he's willing take the chance and don't get hurt
2006-11-15 15:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by cutiedownlow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
move on you are floggin a dead horse
if after 13 years he cant talk to you something is wrong, time to move onto greener pastures
2006-11-15 15:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible
me and my girlfriend broke up 3 times and we loved each other that we always got back
2006-11-15 15:22:04 · answer #4 · answered by EZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋