are you 100% sure your partner would never cheat on you?

Question

why or why not?

do you think that being 100% sure is neccessary for a healthy relationship?

Answer 1

No, I have been married for 12 years and have 3 kids. I trust my wife and believe in her. That said she is a human being and I do not think I can or ever will be able to be 100% sure about what she will do.

Answer 2

I don't think that 100% is neccessary for a healthy relationship. It is important to have an honest and trusting relationship. My boyfriend and I are extremely honest with each other. If he ever felt the need to cheat he would probably call me and tell me that he is around a girl that he thinks is really hot. That would make a lot of girlfriends jealous to hear that but the point is... he called me to tell me. I am 100% sure that he would never cheat.

Answer 3

Absolutely nothing is 100%. I think relationships start out with partners sworn to faithfulness, but things happen; feelings get hurt, conversations run dry and they shouldn't - but that's life. Relationships are a lot of work and people don't seem to want to put any effort into keeping it strong. If only that first rush when you're new into a relationship would never go away.

Answer 4

Certainly! You HAVE to be 100% sure. I mean realistically speaking of course you cannot predict the future right? But what is the point in being in a relationship if you do not feel 100% in it!? Your gonna get yourself sick always not being sure, well personally it would eat me up inside. Communicating and setting ground rules for your unique relationship will be your best bet. I could NEVER imagine my husband doing anything stupid like that. And I ain naive either, so you know we're coming from a solid place. Trust is important and communicating eye to eye will get you there sis. TALK to him/her. Hope this helps, it saved my marriage.Ciao.

Answer 5

Never say never because you don't know what can happen. I go through this all the time and in the beginning i doubted him and whenever something just didn't make sense or he didn't bother to call I worried. But with time I have also learned that he is honest and he tells me everything that happens to him or with him. He has said himself that if he ever planned on cheating or if he did cheat that he would tell me himself that things just didn't work out for us because he never wants to hurt me. So i take what he says to me into consideration and I do the same. I haven't cheated on him. And even though instances have come close. I said to myself how would i feel if this was him with someone else. And there is my answer.

Answer 6

No - and that helps keep our relationship going, that I dare not take her for granted! I do look for ways to enhance our marriage, from surprising her with an evening out to leaving a love note in her lunchbox now and then to having a small bouquet delivered to her office at work. She's smart, sensitive, attractive - all the qualities that would seem to invite other men to approach her. Keeps this old f a r t on his toes, lemme tell ya!

Answer 7

Im neither 100%, 50% or 0% sure. I trust him completely. and THAT is necessary for a healthy relationship.

Answer 8

I don't believe that one could ever be certain about it, that is just being realistic. You could hope but never be 100 percent certain, I mean to be that certain you would have to be with them 100 percent of the time. No, I don't think its necessary to believe they never will. Reality is the healthiest thing for a relationship.

Answer 9

You can't. But, a healthy relatioship means you are not going to give your partner reasons to look elsewhere. More often than not, I have know women that treat thier men (visa versa too) like crap.....then cry when he dumps them for a better b*tch....... so make up your mind.....if you want to keep the partner loyal....don't wait until he's already gone.

Answer 10

i'll say i am 99.9% sure, because if i said 100%, then the universe would just HAVE to prove me wrong. my fiance and i both have our sob stories about how our exes have fooled around on us. his ex wife cheated on him constantly, even while she was pregnant in her third trimester with their daughter (yes, he's sure it's his.) my ex got his ex pregnant while i was halfway through my pregnancy with our second child. (needless to say we share a major lack of respect for people who cheat.) we're both the kind of people that never create conflict or drama, but it just seemed to follow us in years of the recent past. we both know each other better than anybody else, we've been best friends since we were 13 years old. he's completely devoted to me, and i'm completely devoted to him. we're really codependent like that. neither of us are capable of making decisions without consulting the other first. with our daughter's, we've got the kind of family that we both have always wanted, and we wouldn't give this up for anything.