Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

Everytime things are going good with me and my husband the next day it turns out sour, my mom and sister inlaw alway rush me to do stuff for my husband, eg, giving him food, picking up the wash. Then the other day he lead me his car, to used for the week till i get back mines, his mom was pisst off, cause i'm using it.....
I try my best to be a good, loving, hard working wife. But to my inlaws it is not good, the want me to stay home and do nothing.....then my husband listen to his mom.....how can i brake that ...?

2006-11-13 01:05:44 · 11 answers · asked by *Cutie* 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What is S &M?
Is is Sadism and Masocism(SP?)
Is is Slave and Master?

The definitions are foggy at best, someone let me know.

2006-11-13 01:05:40 · 9 answers · asked by BoRNACiD 2 in Singles & Dating

Saturday i wore pigtails all day. Guys do you find them sexy or just trashy?

2006-11-13 01:04:24 · 18 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Singles & Dating

think on..........i wud like ................mmm

2006-11-13 01:03:16 · 10 answers · asked by «º«ºAngel¤On¤Hunt»º»º 2 in Family

What do they mean, is she seeing somebody else, or doesn't really like me?

Yes we have gone out before, but she cancels a lot of our dates....

2006-11-13 01:02:49 · 13 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Singles & Dating

i want my friendster to be access only by my chosen friends and not to be shown to anyone else...how can i do that?
thanks

2006-11-13 01:01:16 · 2 answers · asked by ress 2 in Singles & Dating

He was my very first love and I'm very tempted to go back to him because I was so devastated.
He didn't give any reasons he just told me that it was a mistake to break up with me.
All my friends are telling me not to, but I am REALLY tempted to... let my heart get broken again....

2006-11-13 01:00:12 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband will be going off for work for a long time. it could take months.. maybe a yr . We're not sure.I know he will come back to me as soon as he can , but before he leaves , i want to do some things for him so he will come back to me as soon as possible.He is not with me now.i cant call him but he can hear me , i have a mic and a cam.We are still keeping contact with each other but in 2 weeks time , chances of us talking to each other wont be much maybe not at all.We are having a very hard time facing this. & I want to thank you for all your effort and help.

2006-11-13 00:59:24 · 9 answers · asked by ver 2 in Family

i have some special feeling for a guy and we are friends he is very caring and very helpful to me

2006-11-13 00:56:46 · 11 answers · asked by sur 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 00:56:37 · 4 answers · asked by Donna B 1 in Family

My fiancé and I are planning on getting married in March 2007 (small wedding, only 20 or so close family and friends and then a much bigger reception a couple of weeks later).

The problem is that my mum and step-dad (the only father I know) split up 4 years ago and haven't spoken since. My mother literally walked out on my step-dad with no warning leaving my step-sister, who was then 18 and my step-brother, who was then about 15.

I don't have close contact with either of them- I see my mum a bit more, but not much. I still see my step-fathers parents and I am very close to my step brother and sister.

The problem is, they are still my parents and I want them at my wedding, but I am terrified they will argue. How will they cope when they have not communicated apart from through solicitor's for the past few years?

Their impending divorce has got very nasty with both sides lying to get the upper hand and us kids trying to stay out of it. Although our parents do their best to drag us into it, relaying messages through us to them etc etc

My mother has a new partner, who I do not like and I feel may inflame the situation. Shall I invite him or not? I do not want to upset my mother by not inviting, him, but then it is my day.

Part of the reason we are having such a small ceremony is that both my fiancé and I feel it would be much harder for them to create a scene with only 20 or so people present. But now I am not so sure.



We are pretty poor, so it won't be a big do, but we are just on the verge of sending out the invites and I don't know what to do.

Neither of them has even bothered to send me an engagement card and they are not good parents at all, yet I am loathed to not invite them as I don't want any possible children I might have to feel the reprucussions of this, in say 20 years time.

I am so worried they will ruin my day- HELP!

2006-11-13 00:56:32 · 14 answers · asked by emma l2 2 in Weddings

There are alot of boys that like me but i dont like them and their not ugly or mean.

2006-11-13 00:56:13 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We love each other. We're attracted to each other. I treat her like a queen. So she pulls away. What's the deal? I saw her last night and everything was great, until we left. We kissed and she left, said she, "had to go home" like in a a frantic way. Why do people deny themselves what they seemingly want?

2006-11-13 00:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

my wife seems to think that she should control everything and everybody.whenever something is out of place,especially if i let her down in some area,she always responds by pouting and giving everyone the silent treatmemt for a couple of days.she will drag this out for days rather than talk about and deal with it.she is completely hung up on the house. she thinks it should be in perfect order at all times.i am not comforable in my own home.it seems like her self worth centers on the condition of the house.she seems completely close minded to any plan i may suggest to deal with our problems.how can i get along with her? should i even try?i am not getting any younger.

2006-11-13 00:54:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do bipolar women treat you really well at start of relationship and then treat you like poo when they no longer need you. Hurting the ones they love. I really really cared for her

2006-11-13 00:52:59 · 14 answers · asked by bob j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl and she is different from other girls. She stands out tome but she might have a boy friend?

what should I do?

2006-11-13 00:52:47 · 14 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Singles & Dating

Or do men find that to be a real turn-off??

2006-11-13 00:52:15 · 26 answers · asked by Sarah-Lou 1 in Weddings

2006-11-13 00:51:10 · 16 answers · asked by Freshaire 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Four years ago I was in the same class with this girl and I recalled at that time I was telling myself, "I think she is my true love.."

And three and half years passed. I experience so many temporary lust..

Lust which doesn't last..

And after that I re-discovered that that girl is my true love. I care for her and I would protect her. Now I am still in the same class with this girl.

Do you think she is my true love and we are destined to be together? If yes, what should I do if she doesn't realise it (except leaving her)?

2006-11-13 00:50:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this dude we talked he came over we had sex and he said thats all he wanted should i leave him or talk to him i really like him but the real question is do he like me?

2006-11-13 00:50:00 · 15 answers · asked by ripmandy4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 2 years now we seperated 4 months and we got back together then got married Jan 13. I have a 11 year old daughter. Yes she can be snotty but my husband gets on to her so often like everytime she doesn't say something his way. And when she wants something he will say well why does she need it. It is really starting to bother me bad. My daughter is my sunshine. She has gone threw so much already. And I feel that I have so much to make up to her. I use to use meth but been clean now for 2 years and still going strong my child never seen me use but I wasn't there for her. And I gotta make that up. But I feel when he gets on to her everyday she is gonna recent him bad.I love my husband very much andf I love my daughter very much but this situration I am in is driving me crazy what should I do?????????????????????????????????

2006-11-13 00:47:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

When he is always being turned on by the thought of you?
When you have kissed more than twice and he turns you on?

2006-11-13 00:47:26 · 33 answers · asked by Angelt 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been going steady for over five years (we started dating when I was a senior in high school). She moved with me to South Carolina and we both know that we are right for each other. I would never cheat on her because I love her so much and was raised with morals; she would never cheat on me because she is also Christian and I give her everything she needs - and then some. We have a great sex life (7-10 times a week) and being in our early 20s, the next logical step is for me to propose and make her my wife.

I am planning to propose to her on New Year's. I have thought of some ideas myself, but am asking to see if you all have any ideas to offer that would make the moment even more special.

2006-11-13 00:46:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yes I'm still with the same guy but not for long it has kinda fizzled if you know what I mean....but I am seeing a close friend of mine casually right now

2006-11-13 00:45:24 · 9 answers · asked by dragan p 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not sure but how do i know for sure. We have been together for six years and we were suppose to grow old together.

2006-11-13 00:44:13 · 14 answers · asked by V 1 in Singles & Dating

If you could rewind and delete one thing in your life what would it be?

2006-11-13 00:43:50 · 19 answers · asked by missy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really want to get with this girl, but my sister doesn't approve of it. My sister is about to be 20. She knows the girl's best friend and tells me about all the stuff that would happen. Not with the girl, but what her best friend would do. I really like the girl, but what my sister has told me about what it could be like cause of the friend. It really messed up my intentions. I never dated so young. Plus I work for a high school. I'f things were to go wrong I guess there is a chance that I could get in trouble at work. The girl is about to be 18 in a couple of weeks though. I wish I could tell the whole story, but I think I summed it up enough to ask what you guys think. I just really want to know what other people think I should do.

2006-11-13 00:41:13 · 19 answers · asked by BigRoy 1 in Singles & Dating

What does that mean? And when i ask her why she cried, she couldn't give me an answer. Why, i couldn't understand. Can any woman out there interpret this? Thanks.

2006-11-13 00:41:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like him but i dont know wat to do to get more of his attention

2006-11-13 00:41:00 · 3 answers · asked by love hurts but its worth it 2 in Singles & Dating

theres a guy i like but i havent made a move but a new girl has started and is quite a big flirt and is flirting with him but dont know if its cause he was a)the one who trained her up, b)the only guy she knows in the office as yet or c)sees him as a potential boyfriend

2006-11-13 00:40:33 · 13 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating