i think my boyfriend is cheating on me......?

Question

I am not sure but how do i know for sure. We have been together for six years and we were suppose to grow old together.

I think my boyfriend may be cheating on me because he is always to talking to this co-worker at work and eats lunch with her sometimes. yesterday he called me by accident trying to call her and called me her name. Last night we got in argument and he left for 2 hours I dont know where he went and when I asked him he just said no when. Am I reading to much in to it and maybe he just went for a drive or is he really cheating on me.

Answer 1

Try to be honest with him and tell him your concerns. If both had have a good communication it could really work, but if you had notice something different on him just try to clear things up.

Answer 2

well...u didnt really give a lot of information on why u think he's cheating on you....so i cant help as much as I'd like. But heres what i can say. If you have a reason to believe that your boyfriend is cheating on you after you've been together for 6 years then there's something not just wrong with him, but with the two of you. The whole relationship, I mean. Obviously you two arent as close or dont share that same connection like you used to. Tell him about it. Tell him that you're starting to feel weird about the certain things he does, and see what he says and where it goes from there. Warning: Don't just blow off on him when you cant take it anymore and say "You're cheating!" That won't turn out well at all, you have to be civilized and talk to him about his actions before you start accusing

Answer 3

Are you assuming too much in saying that you two are suppose to grow old together?
I am not trying to put you down but your boyfriend might not have the same thinking as you in this aspect. This does not mean that is is cheating on you though. Tread carefully as you may make wrong assumptions and make the situation worse. If he is cheating on you, it would be wiser to break up rather then let it fester and make you lose faith in relationship.

Answer 4

Sometimes it is really hard to know. My husband cheated on me with the next door neighbour and I would have never known. Another neighbour ended up telling me. Always leave room for openess when it comes to friends or the next door neighbor because they are the ones that could hold the vialbe infor mation that you are in search off. Take care

Answer 5

If you think he is cheating on you, chances are he is.

Indicators are:

Distant when he comes home and not interested in sex.
Talks about rubbish when he walks in and controls the conversation.
Always smells fresh when he gets home (recently showered)
Smells nice after a days work.
Protective of his messages and emails.
Often late or misses appointments you have had.
Always asks what your movements are.

Answer 6

You don't give mush detail on why you think he is cheating on you. There has to be clues. Like never comming home after work, Out with friends, doesn't want you to kiss him or anything, hesitates to say I love you, there is alot of clues You can e-mail if you want good luck

Answer 7

The only way to know for sure is to catch him in the act or have him tell you..So unless you have definitive proof.
Don't worry about it too much .You'll only drive yourself insane.

Answer 8

i don't know he is cheating you or not.....if he is behaving to you like this it is really very fishy also.So you try to ignore him and let him feel like you are going far away from him.If he really needs you he 'll definetely come in search of you and do not show you anxiety also if he comes back ...lets see how eager he is for you.And if he is not coming back to you then you can think he is really cheating you

Answer 9

i wonder wat is it that he did to make u think tat way.... anyway it's really best to talk to him abt it... make him 'fess it up.. u gotta be strong enuff though in case he IS really cheatin on u...

but if u r juz being suspicious over nothing, then u better brush the idea away.... sometimes we girls get sensitive over minor issues... (been there, done tat) it's our sense of insecurity tat makes us feel tat our bf is cheatin on us....

it's still best for u to gather more facts abt this.. don't juz jump into the well without checkin if there's water in it or not :)

Answer 10

Ive been burnt many times in the past!! If you have the "womens Intuition" thing going on then ask him. If hes being distant with you the i would definately confront him.