We love each other. We're attracted to each other. I treat her like a queen. So she pulls away. What's the deal? I saw her last night and everything was great, until we left. We kissed and she left, said she, "had to go home" like in a a frantic way. Why do people deny themselves what they seemingly want?
2006-11-13 00:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She definitely didn't mean what she said. Very bad you didn't get the message. Next time she said something like that, you do something sexy to her like hugging or kissing her deeply with some foundling and so forth - trust me, you'll be surprised to see another "her" in love action (lol).
2006-11-13 01:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes if a woman isn't used to being treated like a queen it kind of scares them but, it depends on this girls age whether she was a little pass curfew or maybe she didn't trust what she thought was about to happen so she left. Some people deny themselves happiness for so many reasons but you need to seriously talk to her and find out her reason. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 01:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop treating her like a queen. Just go cold for a bit. She is playing with you at the moment. Women have this thing called "Control" that they secure over an unsuspecting man. She is interested but not interested.
If you go cold for a while, maybe even go out with a mixed group of men and women.
Tell her you can't catch up tonight because you have something on, but don't tell her.
Do not under any circumstances, contact her during this process. Even if you have to wait a week. My bet is on a maximum of 3 days.
If you don't like games, just flick her!
2006-11-13 01:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by Triestobewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people have trouble admitting
their feelings for varying reasons.
a common one that i've been exposed
to lately is fear. fear of what, you ask?
well of different things.
could be fear of commitment;
if you two are not in a relationship
currently then this may apply.
she may be afraid to commit to you,
thinking things will be different once
you two are official.
its possible also that it is fear of
getting hurt. maybe she had been in-
volved in serious relationships in the
past that ended with a heartache on
her part. she could have been cheated
on previously by someone she adored
and is fearing that happening again.
or she could've been dumped by someone
who she loved so much but the feelings
werent mutual. something of that effect,
i think you catch my drift.
goodluck with things, buddy. :]
hope everything turns out okay.
2006-11-13 01:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by sweet.heart_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is afraid of what she is feeling due to previous relationships or some experience. You should talk to her,lay your cards on the table. A relationship is afterall based on trust honesty and friendship. Try it,ask her how she feels. Lots of luck! Need more advice just let me know, would love to help!
2006-11-13 01:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by bee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
afraid of being hurt, disappointed, dumped. It's lack of self esteem, and it's something you'd probably have to work pretty hard to overcome. So if you're up to a challenage, go for it. Believe me, she's worth it.
2006-11-13 00:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she muz haf her reasons dear.... y don't u ask her y she reacts tat way..... sometimes i m like tat.. i may want something badly but i'll feel reluctant to have it.. i'll be thinkin if it's right or wrong of me to have it.. u know these kinda questions will come to my head... i tink give her time to settle down her mind and take things one at a time... she'll be more relax with u the next time round, hopefully.
2006-11-13 01:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by SyaKiRa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear. We run from the uncertain things in life, when we really should just go by faith.
2006-11-13 01:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by Light Bringer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is afraid of the feelings that she is experiencing for you. she is not crazy.
2006-11-13 00:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by Osunwole Adeoyin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not attracted to you any more.
2006-11-13 01:06:36 · answer #10 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋