Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

Is it a good idea to bring the girl to the zoo and have some fun on the first date???? capture all the nice moments with a digicam during date??? instead of bringing her to movies, which is a norm.

2006-11-13 03:44:22 · 31 answers · asked by tommyboy 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 50 year old female and not too bad looking (I'm probably giving myself too much credit). My husband of 30 years informs me he doesn't "love me like he should". We haven't had sex in years and I'm so lonely I think I'm about ready to crack up. Our kids are grown and out of the house. I need someone so bad just to talk to. I seem to blaming myself for everything. You're probably saying, why doesn't she get out and leave. It's just not that easy. I would like to continue this discussion with anyone that's interested.

2006-11-13 03:43:38 · 23 answers · asked by QB 1 in Marriage & Divorce

eg first base, second base......etc

2006-11-13 03:43:34 · 10 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

We are not in a relationship yet but things are looking up. I was wondering how offten should i call her or text message her to say whats up. I don't want to bother her or seem like im always on her.

2006-11-13 03:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

What should i do?
I kinda like a girl in the grade below me and i said that some friends and i are going to the movies tonight and u are more than welcome to come and then i said the same thing about going to a volleyball game. Before this she was really happy to see me and really cheery. Now she doesnt seem to notice me as well. Some people that know her said that before i asked all this she thought i was "pretty cool". Now they asked if she likes me and she told them she isnt sure or she doesnt know.I dont know now but what may be her problem and what should i do so she thinks i am pretty cool again? I also know that one of the kids in my grade dated her and he said she was HARD TO GET. how should i go about this if she is just playing hard to get?

2006-11-13 03:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a son (lets call him JOE) from a previous marriage and his ex-wife has a son (lets call him PETER)from her current marriage. Once his ex called and asked us if we could help her out and take "Peter" too since she didn't have a sitter. I was not too thrilled with it, and I gave in. Ever since then "Peter" comes on occasion to our house and stay's a night or too. My husband doesn't think that any of this is wrong, however, I believe his ex is taking advantage of his good nature. How can I go about it and put a stop to this? "Peter" is 6 yrs and "JOE" is almost 15. My husband and I have fights over this and it doesn't seem like there is anything I could do. Any advice?

2006-11-13 03:42:29 · 9 answers · asked by chris_germancat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've finally made it to level two! does any body want to be my friend????

2006-11-13 03:41:55 · 12 answers · asked by Baby Star 2 in Friends

2006-11-13 03:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I HAVE CHILDREN AND I LIKE THIS GUY I AM SHY PLEASE HELP... he doesn't have children but he wants kids and when iam sad he asks me whats wrong and hugs me and doesn't care forhis girlfriend she treats him like ****. how do i show him i care? i would do anything for this one and i would hate myself if i passed this one up.please help me its driving me crazy. i want him to know but i don't want to cause a breakup. i just know that i would be good to him and he would treat me like a queen. my feelings are deep.

2006-11-13 03:41:24 · 4 answers · asked by rachael s 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months now. Everything seems to be great, he's told me he loves me, and I love him. The only problem (for me, at least) is that he's still really close to his ex. He dated her for 3 years (they even lived together). They broke up right before he and I met. He's seen her once since they broke up, and apparently, she really wants him back. He assures me that he's over her, but I'm still really worried about him going home for winter break. He lives far away, and he said he thought it might be "too serious" or "too big of a deal" for me to come visit. I can understand that because we haven't been dating that long. At the same time, I'm worried about him seeing his ex again. Should I be worried or am I just being paranoid?

2006-11-13 03:41:09 · 4 answers · asked by skichamonix515 3 in Singles & Dating

Hi, there's this girl in my class that i really like. We speak to each other whenever we get the chance and she talks to me about how her weekend was and things she does in her spare time. When we speak to each other we allways make eyecontact and smile a lot.
She also sits next to me whenever she gets the chance. When we do, our feet make contact, but it's not like I hug her or hold her whenever I'm with her. Also when we say goodbye, she just smiles, waves and says see you tomorrow. Shouldn't I be like giving her a hug or something? I'm 15 and she's 16, I've never been in a real relationship, because I wasn't interested till i got older.

I recently heard she broke up with her boyfriend (which i didnt know about) and she is really starting to hang out with me more.
What I want to know is, does she like me more then just a friend, we've known each other for about a month now. We share a lot of hobbies and we hang out with the same people, so we have a lot in common...

2006-11-13 03:41:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My now ex-boyfriend shane got locked up for something and while he was locked started writing me letters accusing me of cheating on him. He never once would have thought such a thing until he got locked up. He was in jail for maybe 4 months and he recently got out. The entire time he was locked up I wrote him every day but yet now he doesn't want anything to do with me. He won't even speak to me at all. How should I emotionally take all this?

2006-11-13 03:40:53 · 10 answers · asked by Holly B 1 in Singles & Dating

C'mon guys...when are you gonna start helping around the house?

2006-11-13 03:40:41 · 12 answers · asked by King Dong! 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 03:40:17 · 3 answers · asked by rbjb1014 1 in Family

Or are there any pretty blue colored flowers that would be in season for an october wedding. Are hydrandras in season?

2006-11-13 03:39:21 · 5 answers · asked by Robin S 2 in Weddings

love is only a part of us or life is also part of love answer me.

2006-11-13 03:39:04 · 16 answers · asked by hello india 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 03:39:00 · 20 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a guy two weeks ago who lives pretty local. Ive spoke to him every day since and we've been in contact by text a few times each day.

He stayed over on Friday night and one thing led to another. I did say that i didnt want him to think bad of me as I never do this whole sleeping thing after such a short time!

He said that he wouldn't, that I'm lovely, he likes me etc etc, and he did text yesterday with all the "babe" and kisses etc but will he now lose interest taht ive given him what he wanted too early?

How do i go about finding out what he wants? do i wait to hear from him? or ring him or text etc?

2006-11-13 03:37:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 03:36:51 · 24 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Singles & Dating

I don't know if anyone cn relate but Holidays lately have been a bummer to even think about. I recenly got married and I have a mother in law who seems to make things extra difficult. In my family seeing each other for each holiday is really important. My mother in law believes that we should be trading off holidays. She wants us to do Thanksgiving this year with her and next year t my moms. I am really agianst this idea. She thinks my idea is unheard of and nobody does that. I said my family always has and it is important to me. I told her she can do lunch and my mom can do dinner or vis versa. She still didn't like that but there is not much we can do about it. Do you think I am wrong

2006-11-13 03:35:46 · 15 answers · asked by BabyDolll128 3 in Family

I have a boyfreind and we have been dating for 3 months but there is this guy that i meet and i relly like him im having trouble deciding witch one

2006-11-13 03:35:13 · 9 answers · asked by partybabe_59 2 in Singles & Dating

Aren't you sick of answers that aren't really answers? Why doesn't anyone on this site actually ANSWER the question. The answers are always "neither" or "maybe" or a rebuttal question, never definate, never decisivie, never yes/no, never real. Instead it's some crap that make the answer look like, "hey, look at me, I'm thinking outside the box and I'm smarter than you, ha, ha."

Geez, anyone feel the way I do?

2006-11-13 03:34:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...i gave birth the 1st of this month. me and my ex bf broke up nine months ago...after we broke up, i found out i was pregnant...he didn't call or even offer support the whole time i was pregnant even if he knew i was pregnant. later i found out he got back with his ex and got married. when i gave birth, i felt that he has to know. i told my sis to visit him at work to let him know that he can visit my daughter...he hasn't called right away..what do u guys think?

2006-11-13 03:34:00 · 11 answers · asked by Irish C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i used call this girl ova and ova and she told me to leave her alone, she said she didnt want me and neva did heres the trick she called my house and asked too speak too me, but when i confronted on it she said she never did? she says now i can call when eva i want, she said her mother told her if u cant beat them join them, she has a boyfriend who's 25 and has anitha baby by a girl ................is that relationship gonna last betrween them i neva met her in person only the net?

2006-11-13 03:33:29 · 8 answers · asked by robert t 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke with my bf 6 months ago (we were together for 10 years) and we have a baby girl 3 years old. Although I feel I'm not over him yet, I'm seeing someone now, but it's nothing serious. I feel anxious about the relationship I have right now (if I can call it like that), and I really like this guy, who is a complete different version of my ex. As a matter of fact, I want to sleep with this guy, even that we have nothing serious. Don't take me wrong, I'm a very serious person, I'm not adventurous or like one-night-stand relationships, but I can't avoid feeling this way. Is it possible that my break up could be responsible of feeling like this? Sometimes I feel I have to force myself to date someone new, 'cause if I don't get over my ex, I will be alone forever. Help me, pls!!

2006-11-13 03:31:35 · 4 answers · asked by marylapana 2 in Singles & Dating

Hiya guys

As some of you are aware i am quite shy and quiet and have liked this guy in work for awhile. The thing is we had 3 new girls in our room and the two are quite flirty and he had to train up one of the flirty gals. Since she started she has been over flirty with him. She had a boyfriend at the time but has now since broke up with him and now im worried shes after the guy i like as she made a comment today ohh had a haircut have you?and she seems to initate conversation everytime he comes in the room. So either she likes him as a friend, is generally flirty or wants more but if she does want him i dont stand much of a chance. Shes so much more confident than me shes been to uni so ozes confidence. Before she turned up i thought i was getting somewherre with the guy as we were getting to know oneanother as hes shy also

2006-11-13 03:29:39 · 12 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel that i've fallen out of love and dont feel attracted w/ my husband. we've been married for 8 yrs and have 3 wonderful young kids. our relationship lately has been revolving w/ work and taking care of the kids. he's been a wonderful father to our kids. but i look at him and i'mafraid i dont even remember being head over hills in love w/him and now i really feel lost. should i tell him how i feel? i feel like i've been ignoring this feelings for awhile now and perhaps thats why i keep on having this kids hoping the bond bet. us will be even stronger, instead it's the opposite. i know he loves me more than i ever felt for him.i married him bec. his the kind that will stay until you're old and gray and i thought eventually the love will grow stronger. nowadays, i have this empty feelings. i want to fall in love w/ my husband bec. he deserves it & bec. i love our children and dont want to end up in a broken family. how do i keep my family and not fall apart inside?

2006-11-13 03:29:14 · 24 answers · asked by sweetie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together for 13 years, and we live together. I discovered his online postings yesterday afternoon while trying to type in a URL for another website (a singles website appeared on the location bar, that's how I found out). I had planned to go with him on his business trip to Vegas this weekend, but all of a sudden I "couldn't", and now I know why. My boyfriend picked up the woman he's seeing, and they went up together. I feel like a complete moron, not to mention my heart is beyond broken. Any advice on how to proceed would be greatly appreciated. We've been working on the growing pains in our relationship, and right up until yesterday, I had been so happy with the way things were going. Now, I'm just shattered. Thanks.

2006-11-13 03:28:10 · 19 answers · asked by misswrite1 6 in Singles & Dating

you see... i am a senior student. brfore when i was still a junor i ranked as the top 1 student in our class, everything was fair and clean... now that i am already a senior, i can't understand it... i mean, my grades were high and i always make sure that i always get a high mark. But then the problrm is our administrator... whenever she sees that my grades are high she always makes sure that she always gotta see my papers and notebooks and make some deductions in it even if it is correct...whenever i write down my ideas, for her it is wrong... she always says that my ideas were wrong... she's not only doing this to me but also to my classmates who are also in the honor list... what am i gonna do?

2006-11-13 03:28:08 · 6 answers · asked by dong ai rui 2 in Friends

2006-11-13 03:27:43 · 3 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends