I HAVE CHILDREN AND I LIKE THIS GUY I AM SHY PLEASE HELP... he doesn't have children but he wants kids and when iam sad he asks me whats wrong and hugs me and doesn't care forhis girlfriend she treats him like ****. how do i show him i care? i would do anything for this one and i would hate myself if i passed this one up.please help me its driving me crazy. i want him to know but i don't want to cause a breakup. i just know that i would be good to him and he would treat me like a queen. my feelings are deep.
2006-11-13 03:41:24 · 4 answers · asked by rachael s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be there for him. maybe he thinks that it's just best to stay with the g/f that treats him poorly (we, as guys, aren't all that bright sometimes). seems that there aren't a lot of good women out there these days. show him that you are one. DON'T ask him out yet. wait and see what happens with the relationship. if it DOES end, then there's your oppertunity. if it doesn't, then he probably lost out on a pretty good thing..............
2006-11-13 03:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by barhopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are causing a break up, you a wrong! He has a girlfriend and you need to give her a little respect. How would you feel if some woman was secretly crazy for your man and was trying to figure out how to get his attension. Thats not right. And if he has a woman and leading you on he's no good himself and why would you want that. Think about it first, you have two kids I know its about your kids don't put your self in such an akward situation.
2006-11-13 03:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pressure the issue. If it is meant to be it will happen. If he can't see the good in you and wants to stay with someone that treats him like crap, than he's got some issues. Have patience.
2006-11-13 03:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by cold runner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show affection to him when he is sad and upset. ask him out for dinner or round ur house for dinner. dnt b too pushy tho! he sounds lyk a perfect guy
good luck xxx
2006-11-13 03:47:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋