What should i do?
I kinda like a girl in the grade below me and i said that some friends and i are going to the movies tonight and u are more than welcome to come and then i said the same thing about going to a volleyball game. Before this she was really happy to see me and really cheery. Now she doesnt seem to notice me as well. Some people that know her said that before i asked all this she thought i was "pretty cool". Now they asked if she likes me and she told them she isnt sure or she doesnt know.I dont know now but what may be her problem and what should i do so she thinks i am pretty cool again? I also know that one of the kids in my grade dated her and he said she was HARD TO GET. how should i go about this if she is just playing hard to get?
2006-11-13 03:43:13 · 3 answers · asked by gopackgo51 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should approach her and spend some one-on-one time with her. Often "hard to get" people are shy or introverts, and they don't exactly enjoy doing things in groups. Quiet conversations between two people are what works for these type of people. I should know; I'm like this too, and I'm 38! LOL
It sounds like she still likes you, but I think she'd like it a lot more if you approached her calmly and quietly and asked her to just go for a walk, or if you sat together somewhere and just talked for a while. The reason that she might like this is that she can focus on you as a person, and you can focus on her. And both of you can focus on each other's thoughts, and talk about topics that interest you both.
Do this a couple of times, and she might feel more confident about going out in a group. Then again, she might not. She may just be a one-on-one, quiet sort of person.
Good luck! Cheers, hope this helps. -- K (teacher 14 years, married 2nd time, and a quiet, one-on-one kind of person if I'm getting to know someone... have been all my life)
2006-11-13 03:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is playing hard to get which i am sure she is then you need to kind go along with it and (dnt make her mad but dnt hurt her feelings) just be like hey we are going to the movies tonight if you wana come just show up @ _:_ time and blahblahblahblahblah
2006-11-13 11:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u invited her out with ur freinds?? mabey she wanted a 1 on 1
2006-11-13 11:48:39 · answer #3 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋