Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

The good girl or the bad girl

2006-11-13 04:20:50 · 18 answers · asked by Liza J 1 in Singles & Dating

My long time (6 yrs...i am 24 he is 23) boyfriend/father of my children "broke up" saturday. It has been a tough year for us and we have been fighting a lot.
The thing that confuses me is he is still living with me and we have had sex 4 times since the supposed break up. I think that sex within 24 hrs of a break up voids the break up.
he keeps saying that we are only taking a break and as soon as i get the daycare set up he is going...i told him that is he moves out he isnt moving back in because i have put up with enough of his crap and i am not going to just let him go screw with a bunch of other girls them come back to me. i have taken care of him since we got together so i told him he either stays or goes permanently and he is still there....so are we broke up

2006-11-13 04:20:07 · 12 answers · asked by Tissa 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 04:19:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I will not divorce her, I refuse to give her have of everything I've made Yes I made, The lazy whore has never worked a day in her life and tells me she'll get half and laughs about it. what should I do ?

2006-11-13 04:17:31 · 32 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do so many of you think it is OK?
Fooling people and telling them it is a 'natural thing'. Why can't you just accept that it is for procreation purposes that God wanted us to have. Why can't you just get it through you're head that it is a SIN before marriage?
Why do you tell people it is natural leading them to commit a SIN that can forever ruin their life, and connection with God?
Why? If it was so 'natural' how comes I don't feel the need to do it until AFTER marriage? Why do I feel more connected with God than anyone else? Why can't you just love a person without having to get sexual, but just loving them as a PERSON? Seeing who they really are inside? Just being one ewith the person? But no, you want to bring sexual acts into it because it's 'natural' and 'beautiful between people who really love eachother' as you guys say.

2006-11-13 04:16:11 · 30 answers · asked by I'm a HBIC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 04:14:53 · 14 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Family

We have been dating for over a year and a half, and usually get along very well. The last two months have been a bit rocky but we seem to be working things out.
Today I volunteered to make Thanksgiving dinner for him and his son, and he told me he had already made plans without me. In the past we have spent the holidays together, so I was very shocked by this information. When I asked I was going to be included, he responded with, " you can go with if you want."
I feel very bad that I was not included, and I feel very unwelcome by the way he did invite me.
I thought we had something special and I was an important part of his life. I've always treated him with love and respect. I don't know if I should go with, break up with him or what. Need some advise please. Thanks

2006-11-13 04:14:14 · 31 answers · asked by sunshineasd 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a virgin and have no idea of telling whether he is or not.He tells me that it hurts him if his skin is pulled to far back because he is a virgin...how do i know?...it really means alot to me....please help!!!

2006-11-13 04:13:39 · 15 answers · asked by Noemi G 1 in Singles & Dating

Her name goes as Renu Agarwal residing in Chennai and work in Chennai too.

2006-11-13 04:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by Renudeva 1 in Friends

2006-11-13 04:13:24 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

asked

2006-11-13 04:12:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and told me that she was having another man's baby and that I might want to move out because He's moving in. what should I do ? She did say I could stay but he was moving into the bed room and I would go to the couch

2006-11-13 04:12:54 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have 2 demons I'd like to forgive, but I don't know how.
One is my ex-bff whom I thought we would actually be bff, but she suddenly stopped talking to me and didn't give me a clue as to why. There was nothing I wouldn't do for her (within reason), and she did stuff for me, just not as much. She invited me to hang out with her and do stuff all the time, and she was a good best friend. I found out that she had been poisoning others against me behind my back, she was never fond of me to begin with, was annoyed when I called her my best friend, and she was using me. I'd like to forgive her, but I don't know how to forgive treachery.

The other demon is my dad's g/f. She is THE MOST SELFISH person I have EVER met! She expects things to be done all for her or her way, and never lets my dad or ANYBODY else have their say. She doesn't do anything for herself, her daddy does everything for her and lives across the street from her, she's VERY wasteful, and...

2006-11-13 04:12:20 · 6 answers · asked by misssammyjo 2 in Friends

They really like u but in front of their friends, their attitude slightly changes. And also, how do you know if he's really just physically attracted to you? What r the signs that he is attracted to your friend?

2006-11-13 04:12:10 · 14 answers · asked by Hawaii J 1 in Singles & Dating

You fall in love with a guy, u make love, then that's all they talk, think and want to do?? Did I make a mistake?? Should I have waited?

2006-11-13 04:11:55 · 7 answers · asked by ))-->rOXY 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend and my bf had history and then they split up right after they had sex. we have been dating for almost 2 months and we have had sex. will he do it to me too?

2006-11-13 04:11:16 · 10 answers · asked by bryanna 1 in Singles & Dating

ever ask you're ex why he/she broke up with you??

i want to know, but dont know wheter its a good idea???
i want to move on but dont know wheter i want to know the answer...whats the worst he can say?? will it only hurt me more, or get me to move on???

i dont know how to ask.. if i even want to ask???

pleas give me some advice on wheter you think i should ask him and how???

2006-11-13 04:10:59 · 5 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

it feel like a stingy feeling my bf tired to have relations with me but i want to do it because i feel like i will never have it because im so scared of pain

2006-11-13 04:10:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like he went wit me then my cousin. so now i have feelings for him again while they are still together.

2006-11-13 04:10:49 · 2 answers · asked by nelle boo 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so this is an awefull subject to be bringing to a discussion board, but i need objective opinions and advise, so here it goes--i have been married for 5 years and we have a duaghter, we were married very young, 18 and 19, at the time we were both very immature and sometimes i think we only got married becuase i was pregnant, we have a alright marriage to the naked eye, we don't cheat, he doesn't beat me, we love our duaghter very much, and he is about the best dad ever and a great provider, these are the pros, here go the con's, i am not sure i love him like I should, he is still really immature, he thinks he has to drink everyday off he has and when he does he is very verbally abusive to me, and he has a horrible temper where he tends to break things in the house and throw things, so here is the question: do I wait it out and see if he grows up, or call it quits?

2006-11-13 04:10:33 · 9 answers · asked by vr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was thinking of going back to college to become a teacher, but this counselor Chick told me I shouldn't because I'm not fit nor am I a good influence for teens. This Broad said I give the impression of being a sexist womenizer. Please, if a girl needs a lay, I'm there, as long as they don't get attached emotionally or they'll get their feelings hurt. Besides, kids today need to learn to be Men and women need to learn their place.

2006-11-13 04:10:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My answer:
could you do that again

2006-11-13 04:10:08 · 30 answers · asked by just1more 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 04:10:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-13 04:08:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-11-13 04:08:00 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I think that I am the only person left on this planet...seems like guys dont respect a girl that are today, and why is this? That is sad. There is more to life than sex

2006-11-13 04:07:54 · 35 answers · asked by MB2006 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 04:07:38 · 9 answers · asked by Jet Fighter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's been just over a week for me, but it seems like a lifetime!!

Anyone else being deprived?

2006-11-13 04:07:12 · 12 answers · asked by L 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated form my husbend for 8yrs and I cant seem to move on.. I cant get a divorice cause I cant seem to bring my self to do it...Being Cathloic and all I belive its wrong....But he has lived with other women and still is....I also think I am still in love with him...He cheated on me and I was angy I threw him out... I have tryed to date but I also seem to look for his type and then when I do date I get disgusted.... I just dont feel right....What am I to do? I am seeing this guy but its just not right... I just dont feel right about him... My Husbend is always coming to my house when he needs to see the kids.. Its hurts to see him...I have told him this and says He dosent know where else to take the kids.....What do I do to help myself get thru this...... My feel myself getting short with my kids and they say I need angry mangerment... I think I really needs help?

2006-11-13 04:06:44 · 17 answers · asked by ceemagiclydia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 04:06:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating