Do guys still appriciate girls that are a virgins today?

Question

Sometimes I think that I am the only person left on this planet...seems like guys dont respect a girl that are today, and why is this? That is sad. There is more to life than sex

Answer 1

You have it all wrong. You are the only kind who get respect. There is a lot of excess baggage that comes with sex. It;s best to save yourself for your husband. He will be eternally grateful. Dazeaway is wrong. Guys do appreciate girls like you. I am a guy and i know.

Answer 2

if i were looking for a sexual partner, which i am not, i would not want to get involved with someone who is a virgin but then i am very old so it is unlikely there would be any. in today's western society it is more common for people to have had a variety of sexual partners. i think this is a good thing. the act of pleasing a member of the opposite sex is a skill that is honed by experience. the days of virgins marrying and remaining mutually dissatisfied for the rest of their lives or until one or the other strays are thankfully behind us. now that was sad.

Answer 3

Ya know what! If you meet someone who doesn't' appreciate them, leave that jack as$ be.
I will begrudgingly admit that I might agree with you. And that is sad.
Guys usually only have a few things on their minds when they are young. Older fellas tend to be a "little" more rounded. But most guys think about sex. I thought about it when I read your question lol.
Don't let it distance you, find guys who are into activities that you enjoy (Not shopping. It's not the same activity) and perhaps you just might find a friend.

Answer 4

most guys dont know wot to think if they r told that their girlfriend is a virgin i however was a virgin when i met my fiancee and now we are planning out wedding so there is some guys out there that respect the fact that some girls just wont jump into bed with any1 and anything youve just got to find the right 1 if a guy wants to get u into bed on your first date then u know the only thing he wants,but u will find the 1 who will respect you and that you have chose to wait

Answer 5

What is sad is that you think a woman has more "value" as a wife or girlfriend if she has never had sex. What does it matter? If I were to come across someone who was a great match for me, whom I loved deeply, and who I wanted to spend the rest of my life with -- should I reject her because she has had sex before? How dumb is that?
Sex is a natural physical part of being human. Nobody is worth any more for not having it, or worth any less for having it. I judge people on the contents of their character, not on whether or not they still have some tiny flap of skin intact.

Answer 6

I have no idea. Sex is great but it seems the world is it bit too focused on it.
Im glad my g.f and I were both virgins when we met. Its been 5 years we are still together and its great we dont have to worry about any STDs! Its also nice to know that we have never been with anyone else but each other.
Yes it is good that everyone can openly talk about sex and fix any problems they have but you dont need 100 partners to gain experience.

Answer 7

I think that any man worth his weight in gold will respect a girl for sticking to her principles and not rushing things. And yes, there's a hell of a lot more to a relationship than sex. Enjoying each other's company and respecting each other is much more important.

Answer 8

Maintaining your virginity shows that you're disciplined, resilient and determined. But the most important thing is the kind of a lover you are going to be in future. Guys like me have a great respect for virgins like you, but more importantly, I cherish a combination of beauty and intelligence, and possibly, with some level of humor. If you have all those, then contact me through my profile and lets have some chat. cya.

Answer 9

I agree with Welltrave. Another thing is that waiting to be with the right person is okay but you never know for sure, you just have to feel it! Or waiting to be with your husband; to be married before you do it isn't maybe the best thing to do: a relationship is 33%heart, 33%brain & 33%attraction/sex . How can you step into marriage before knowing if you match sexually? But to answer the question, again, I completely agree with Welltrave, it's the person that matters, not his or her experience

Answer 10

You are absolutely right, honey. It is the prevailing culture (male culture) to have free sex. Personally, I think a girl should preserve her virginity until marriage or at least until she finds the one that can give her a lasting commitment. Don't feel lonely, I am sure you are not the only one thinking this way. Don't be swept away with the group culture. Stand up for what your believe.