Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

Dis is how it starts....i went bak to my country 2yrs ago in da summa. i met dis guy who a yr older dan me, at first we were friend but things happen....we bcum loverz. as i left n come bak to U.S. i stil contact him and stuff. Even wen i hav to go bak to skool i stil was contactin him. Until i met dis guy "C", i been havin a crush on him since da begnin of da yr until den we met n goin out wit each otha. Datin him ova 1yr1/2, da more i noe him da more i dislikin him of things he hav been doin lately. so i call da guy in my country to c if he stil rem me...n unfortunaly he stil does n he stil feel da same way fo me, he neva ask me y i hvnt call him n he said he stil waitin fo me to come bak ova dere. N now...it's bcome a problem, i lyk both guy..."C" hav been wit me long n i got to noe him alot, he used to b swt n undastandable but not animore. But da guy in my country is more swt..undastandable...alwayz....until now he stil does. so who i should choose to b with? i lyk both of dem....

2006-11-13 04:32:07 · 10 answers · asked by s3maiy3uanh 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 04:31:00 · 4 answers · asked by pretty_ise 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He may have a brother called john, he was born between 1950/1965 and he lives in Ireland

2006-11-13 04:30:53 · 2 answers · asked by Dragon 6 in Family

Having "Let it Snow" sung by Harry Connick Junior at the ceremony & "Believe" sung by Josh Groban from the film Polar Express. With all this winter theme, I'm wondering if it will snow on the day - perhaps I should get a cloak! What do you think?

2006-11-13 04:30:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, so I met this guy downtown @ the last supper club on halloween night. He gave me his number and asked me to call him the next day. So I did. We clicked. We text eachother every other day for about two weeks. Finaly this past Saturday I text him asking if he was going out. He says yes how about you? I said I don't know because I'm pretty broke right now, you got me? He says you know I would, but the girl I'm with wouldn't like that. She wants to get some tonight. I said that's my que, have a good time. He says no no she's just a friend that I go in and out with sometimes. I said that's fine, I just don't want to get wrapped up in something like that. Was she just a friend with benefits, or really his girlfriend? See, this is why men are jerks.

2006-11-13 04:30:41 · 13 answers · asked by Kat206 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry im not an english guy. i had somebody say ...oh i have been blackmail or something like that. what does phrase actually mean and how do i know that i have been blackmail. plsss help me out in this grammer.

2006-11-13 04:30:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 04:29:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do yall think? I mean they were never friends before their relationship and dated for three years. We are married have a daughter and live states away. Should he be allowed to talk to her on a regular basis. Am I being controlling? He says he resents me for asking him not to talk to her and that hurt.

2006-11-13 04:29:25 · 21 answers · asked by shanna h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 04:29:18 · 1 answers · asked by ...sa 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey out there.. I am getting married In jefferson CIty mo near the end of july next year.. I am looking for some cheap wedding ideas.. anyone out there that can help with ideas would be greatly appreciated.. wanting an outdoor wedding.. but will settle for an indoor (non-church) wedding... help please! I dont have an officiant yet either.. just looking at my options right now and planning a budget!!

2006-11-13 04:28:25 · 22 answers · asked by Karla 3 in Weddings

he is a punk and a sissy and i am not over it but he wont let go should i tell him i dont wont yo be friend

2006-11-13 04:28:10 · 4 answers · asked by keanda g 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i get my wife to share her fantasies? she claims to have non whatsoever, but she is very shy. I really want her to open up to me and tell me what she would really like to do or have done to her.

2006-11-13 04:27:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have resently broken up with my hubby it been 6 mnths now i am working becoz my parents are not surpportive and know they want me to leave the job also i going throught a lot of stress please help

2006-11-13 04:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by simran 2 in Family

The last girl I was with was a few years ago.
We had a BAD relationship and it eneded TERRIBLY...
(she neglected to tell me she had a BF who kicked my *** for it)
I have been really guarded about meeting women since then and I can't seem to get anywhere(relationship wise, not sexually).
One problem is I DONT DRINK...AT ALL so I dont go to bars or clubs(when I did, meeting people was easier)
Im 22, fairly attractive and intelligent, so what am I doing wrong?

2006-11-13 04:26:36 · 5 answers · asked by BoRNACiD 2 in Singles & Dating

Just want to know your own feelings.

2006-11-13 04:26:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

listen to this fri Nov the 3rd, I went to a wedding and to make a long story short I met this guy I just thought he was cute that's all and didn't give him a second thought. Anyways, come to find out that day of the wedding he kept asking people about me and before I left the wedding he took my e-mail. the weird thing is he hasn't e-mail me and its now a week. I mean come on how long does it takes for a person to decide to e-mail another. So what advice can you guys give me and what is the normal length of time a guy usually take to e-mail a girl?

2006-11-13 04:26:02 · 6 answers · asked by lala_jonesy 2 in Friends

the thing is he left to anther conutry n he was tellin me that he missed me alot n he couldnt resist all the feeling...i love him alot i too have all feelings for him but i dint never wont to cheat him.i realy cant bear n um so comfused what to do i dont feel to leave him olso.

2006-11-13 04:25:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

listen to this fri Nov the 3rd, I went to a wedding and to make a long story short I met this guy I just thought he was cute that's all and didn't give him a second thought. Anyways, come to find out that day of the wedding he kept asking people about me and before I left the wedding he took my e-mail. the weird thing is he hasn't e-mail me and its now a week. I mean come on how long does it takes for a person to decide to e-mail another. So what advice can you guys give me and what is the normal length of time a guy usually take to e-mail a girl?

2006-11-13 04:25:46 · 7 answers · asked by lala_jonesy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 04:25:29 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

listen to this fri Nov the 3rd, I went to a wedding and to make a long story short I met this guy I just thought he was cute that's all and didn't give him a second thought. Anyways, come to find out that day of the wedding he kept asking people about me and before I left the wedding he took my e-mail. the weird thing is he hasn't e-mail me and its now a week. I mean come on how long does it takes for a person to decide to e-mail another. So what advice can you guys give me and what is the normal length of time a guy usually take to e-mail a girl?

2006-11-13 04:24:47 · 8 answers · asked by lala_jonesy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

* in love
* sex
* marriage
* and in how he treats you

2006-11-13 04:24:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for a girl who's about to turn 18 to date a guy that's 27? My friend told me she really likes him, but her mom is old-fashioned when it comes to that type of stuff. She'll be 18 in a month.

2006-11-13 04:23:14 · 22 answers · asked by Monica S 2 in Singles & Dating

five sujestions at least least ))))

2006-11-13 04:22:38 · 5 answers · asked by malynda c 1 in Singles & Dating

Everbody has baggage from past relationships. Some obviously deal with it better than others. My question is, doesn't someone eventually have to pay for someone else's mistakes (i.e. your partners exs, if they cheated, were controlling, etc.)? I think it is true, and assuming you agree, why is it hard to let someone do that for you (b/c it is)?

2006-11-13 04:22:27 · 1 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a friend who cuts herself and im trying so hard to talk to her about it but i dont know how? i dont want her to end up killing herself!!!

2006-11-13 04:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by i love Amanda kendall 2 in Friends

I want to brake up with my boyfriend of 2 years and a half I dont any feelings left for him its all pity and pretty much i feel sorry for him its so sad and i feel so... bad for him. Im with him pretty much because I feel sorry for him so I really want to know your stories how did you do it thru a letter over the phone face to face. oh by the way this bf of mines has been in jail for a year and thats why i feel sorry for him and have lost feelings for him. So please give me your advice thanks.

2006-11-13 04:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by lola 3 in Singles & Dating

hi, im in a long distance relationship with my bf (please dont give me the LDRs never work out lecture, everyone is different and every couple is different) and we recently started getting sexual (having phone and cyber sex) around a month ago. In the beginning i was always super horny and would get turned on by anything sexual that he would say to me....but now that has kind of faded away and i am starting to get bored when we try to have cyber sex.....im starting to think that he is getting too routine and im starting to feel as if the passion is kinda fading away....i try to come up with creative ideas....but he isnt budging....how do i bring this up? maybe im not turning him on anymore like i used to? i dono....any suggestions?

2006-11-13 04:21:34 · 14 answers · asked by eliza M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have information that this person is, I am afraid to ask and make them feel like I am pointing fingers at them. Or how am I supposed to deal with this? This is my spouse I am talking about.

2006-11-13 04:21:33 · 11 answers · asked by yes, it's me 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 04:21:21 · 31 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Weddings

I am the very jealous type, and my husband is the GM at a resturant. Do you think it is disrespectful
or meaningful that he mainly hires attractive females? The main one is always scheduled when he is working, and he makes the schedule. Am I being unreasonably jealous>?

2006-11-13 04:21:07 · 23 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating