I want to brake up with my boyfriend of 2 years and a half I dont any feelings left for him its all pity and pretty much i feel sorry for him its so sad and i feel so... bad for him. Im with him pretty much because I feel sorry for him so I really want to know your stories how did you do it thru a letter over the phone face to face. oh by the way this bf of mines has been in jail for a year and thats why i feel sorry for him and have lost feelings for him. So please give me your advice thanks.
2006-11-13 04:22:15 · 6 answers · asked by lola 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Darling, you have to stop it as soon as possible, this relationship is not healthy for you at all. You need to let him know that you need someone to be there for you always, physically & emotionally. You're a beautiful woman and deserve to be able to date someone who's a bit more stable. Good luck sweety!
2006-11-13 05:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by nycrunner69 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know exactly how you feel... If I told you all my stories there would be no room left of other answers. Good luck to you, breaking up can be hard to do.
I would suggest always doing it face to face. Be straight forward but not blunt, be nice. You could always stay friends, you can't have too many friends.
2006-11-13 04:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by crazy_monkey_jr010 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do it in person- after all, he can't hang up on you or turn off his computer to shut you out in that situation. And it shows that you have some respect for this person. Plus, it will sink in more if done face-to-face. The only time I would not do an in-person breakup would be if he had been controlling, abusive, or threatening- and that's purely for your personal safety.
2006-11-13 04:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would just tell him the truth. The fact that he is in jail would be enough for me to get out. Don't stay with someone just because you feel sorry for him. That isn't fair to him or you.
2006-11-13 04:26:20 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so obviously he's going to be hurt, but anyone would be right? i tihnk that you just need to tell him that he needs to find somebody that will love and appriciate him, and the fact that he's in jail probably means that he's done something wrong. it;se not fair for him to think that your going to stay with him because if he did do something wrong, he didn't have you in mind when he did it, he didn't conider not being able to be with you. so basically tell him he needs to find somebody that will love him for weho he is and not lose interest, ok?
2006-11-13 04:28:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, we have fragile egos... be firm... but be gentle.
2006-11-13 04:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by Wedding Crasher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋