* in love
* sex
* marriage
* and in how he treats you
2006-11-13 04:24:35 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
*** it TOTALLY depends on the guy. there's some younger ones that have it all together, but some are simply immature. some of the old ones will treat u like a princess, but some of them are so full of baggage and bitterness....
find a guy who has it together, who treats u like u want... i just don't think it can be narrowed down by age. would make it simpler...i just don't believe it can be done.
2006-11-13 04:29:18 · answer #1 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general (there are always exceptions):
In love, a man of equal age or older than the girl is usually better.
In sex, a younger man is usually more compatible with an older woman.
In marriage, close to the same age is usually better because marriage is LIFE, together. If one has already experienced life (housekeeping, bread-winning, parenting, etc.) more than the other, and the other is just learning, there is a disparity that can be difficult to overcome.
How he treats a girl depends not so much on his age but on his experience, his intelligence, his background (how his male role models treated their partners) all affect his respect for women.
But every situation is different. My hubby is 19 years older than me. Love is okay, sex is great, marriage is not so good, and right now we're not treating each other very well.
2006-11-13 04:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by jen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Older....
I hear younger "More libido" That's a myth, Plus how about Older more mature, more passion, more experince, more attentive. The older men have made thier mistakes and from experince I can tell you they approach everything a little slower and with more forethought. That works in love, romance and sex to a woman's advantage. Marriage though only works with either if there is a strong commitment. The older man will defitnately treat a woman like a queen and spend more time making things just right. More respect and equality without the thugabe attitude.
2006-11-13 04:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well A Edler Men Would Know How To Tereat and Lady But Not All Then Time so yeah and younger are sometime better in bed and uhm marrage yeah i dont know LOL but a older men would know hot to treat a lady and sometimes a younger boy knows how to treat a lady better but go for the older man the young one always cheat well so does the elder men but w.e hope i helped u xD
2006-11-13 04:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by trugangsta1992 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it all depends now. An older man is much more responsible, mature because of experiences he went throught and understand things more. It is easier to find a younger man acting more childish because he hasn't reached the mature age yet. Just like that you can find an older man that acts just like young men. and young men who are mature and act older than his age. If you are a grown women, you probably won't go look for a younger man, you would want a man around your age or older to understand you more. It all depends on the type of person you are intefering with.
2006-11-13 04:29:24 · answer #5 · answered by nedjine05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age isn't necessarily the best determining factor. Every person is different, so if you are looking for a "mature" man age may be deceiving. Love is someone you can talk to about anything, sex is someone who is willing to give as much as get, marriage is someone who is willing to commit to one person and understand that it is a lot of work and compromise, and how he treats you is pretty self explanatory.
2006-11-13 04:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go for around your age or older. Younger still lacks maturity, in my opinion. If you're seeking a 20 something they seem to not want to commit and do "the bar/club scene." Good Luck!
2006-11-13 04:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have dated both younger and older... I am 31 and honestly, every single time, it's the older more mature guy that finally "gets it" the young ones are cute and fun to play with...but when it comes to serious issues- maturity wins out
2006-11-13 04:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither. Age is not a factor for any these...assuming you are talking about men of appropriate age (over 18 and younger than your grandfather).
You should choose your men on an individual basis; rather than by survey.
2006-11-13 04:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thin u should go 4 someone about ur age..if not a little older! but not by 2 much..its just weird 4 women 2 date younger guys!! *yuck!*
2006-11-13 04:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by -adri; Your my wonderwallll. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋