get it extremely drunk
2006-11-13 04:27:27
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answer #1
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answered by crownose 4
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You really can't fix a broken heart, sweetie, in due time it should heal. When you get your heart broken I know it seems like the end of the world, but its not. Although it may hurt a little while everything will be okay. Something new with love may happen and change your mind and let you forget about your broken heart. Just keep your head up and know that you are so much better and worth way more than the person that broke your heart.
xoxo
b and b
2006-11-13 04:28:52
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answer #2
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answered by ♥Chocol@t3 K!$$3$♥ 2
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I have been searching for this answer myself and I can't find one ever since I had my heart broken 3 weeks ago+ The best advice seems to be that time will heal things and as days go by then the pain gets better. I am just sitting here waiting for that time to happen.
I am 3weeks+ from the time that my heart was broken and still feel the same as I did on the day I lost contact with my friend.
Sometimes it is not possible to heal a broken heart, but you learn to live with it and the pain get easier as time passes. Then one day when you are not expecting it you fall in love again and this will help you.
Depending on how hurt you are now will depend on how long you will feel the pain. If your heart was broken and it was painful very painful you might be tempted to try and protect it from hurt in the future. This will not help as it may stop you from loving your new love as much as you should.
How do I know, this will be the second deep relationship to go asunder. The first one took me 20 years to finally love again. I don't know how long it will take me to get over this, but I hope that you can get over your broken heart swiftly. I hope that you will soon find a new love of your life and that you will be happy once again.
Good Luck
2006-11-13 04:46:56
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answer #3
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answered by tunisianboy46 5
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First of all, take time to mourn and grieve. You're experiencing a loss. It's like a small death of a relationship, something that you put your time and energy and feelings into, but it didn't work out. That's sad, and you have every right to take some time and heal.
Remember the good times. Don't dwell on any bad times, arguments or misunderstandings. Try to learn what went wrong so you don't repeat your mistake in the future. Ultimately, after a few weeks or months (or years, if the relationship was measured in years), you have to start letting go. Forgive the other person for abandoning you. Think about your good points and what you have to offer other people.
Throw yourself into your work. Re-connect with your family and friends and neighbors. Join some clubs, and put yourself out there. Volunteer, and you'll find that by focusing on helping others, you help yourself and you feel better. Play with animals, or get an animal. I definitely recommend some "fur therapy"! Hang out with friends and do some fun things together. Buy yourself something if that makes you feel better.
And realize that because we're human, we all get our hearts broken at some point. It's not easy; it's hard, but we do learn from it. And it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, as Alexander Pope said. Eventually your heartbreak will start to fade into a dull ache, then it will eventually become a bittersweet but fond memory. And you'll know you're ready to love again.
So give yourself time, and do things that make you happy. Do good deeds for other people as well. Good luck. I'm sorry you got your heart broken but I'm sure you're a good person, and the right person is out there waiting for you. :)
Cheers, K
2006-11-13 04:33:52
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answered by Kate 4
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My idea is do something worth your while for now.A hobby or hang with your friends or do something fun to get your mind of things.Believe me i have been there too myself.Being heartbroken is a really painful feeling but to tell you the truth,i never gave up even through hardships.It hurts with a deep wound in the heart but there are many other people experiencing it and it is not that easy to fix it.But as time passes, eventualy it will ease off and you will be able to start a new. Or you can always try getting back together, fix things or talk it out but depending on the situation,if its bad than it is best that you talk to someone about it.Like your best friend or the ones closest to you.. Thats why friends are important because they are there to support and help you in your time of need.Hang out with friends and i'm sure they will do their all to get your mind from daydreaming.One thing for sure,life is never easy and love can be cruel and painful at times.We work hard for it and the results do not always go the way we expect but that is why we should always get up and try and try again. Love is truly a rare thing and it is difficult to find but sometimes it just needs patience untill the right one come along. Just follow your heart and listen carefully because at times we may be blinded by love that we forgot about our heart.It takes time to mend a broken heart. I do not know whether your broken heart is about 'love' and if it is,take my advise and keep these words in mind. "Love may not make the world go round, but it sure makes the ride seem worth while"
2006-11-13 04:40:01
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answered by Anonymous
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go to the gym or do it at home good for the aggression part, or take up boxing, play happy music, also I read a Paul Mackena book once how to fix a broken heart If you look around you should be able to find it. I cant remember a lot about it now but i remember one thing he said when ever you get a memory about what ever broke your heart imagine a big giant rubber rubbing the pictures out every time they pop in your head. sorry i cant be much more help hope it heals soon.
2006-11-13 04:39:43
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answered by Anonymous
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You actually can't fix a broken heart. You are going to have to give it time to heal,on its own. And you have to start getting over the person before it will even start healing. Time heels all!!! And that is going to be what you need. Hopefully, you have your space from this person, that is the only way you are going to start getting over the relationship. Then once the person is out of sight, you can begin to mend your broken heart... Good Luck To You, Give It Time!!!
2006-11-13 04:31:13
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answer #7
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answered by squeaky 2
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Do like I did, catch all the pieces and put together, fix them or not. The point is to go on as soon as possible and try don´t suffer as much as necessary.
I am saying this and the truth is that my heart broke more than two years ago, and I feeling sad, maybe now only at the end of the day, but my heart is hurting yet.
Good luck love.
2006-11-13 05:10:33
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answer #8
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answered by northener70 2
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just like anything in this universe once broken, never the same again,
it can be mended, but never whole complete new feeling heart ever again
once broken, can't go back
but sometimes you find someone that is like applying super glue to you heart, it works again and it feels new and you feel all revived, because this new great person can mend it so you can forget it was broken ( at least forget just about 99 % of the time )
so go out and look for that great fantastic new person with that special super glue to mend your heart..
good luck
smile
2006-11-13 04:35:41
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answered by Anonymous
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there is no way to fix a broken heart but time and a good friend to talk to
2006-11-13 04:27:10
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answer #10
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answered by babyblue1512000 2
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Hello
Well first i would like to say sorry that you are going through a rough time. But like everyone always says this too shall pass.
But I'm sure right now it feels like it wont. The best thing to remember at a time like this is, you are a awesome person!
And for what ever reason this past relationship didn't work out, It is for the best. You need someone that is going to want to be with you and love you for you.
I like to look at a break up as that person doing be a favor. Sounds kind of funny i know. But for every break up it leaves you free to keep looking for Mr./Mrs. right.
So keep your head up and keep looking. And when you least expect it you will find the one your looking for.
Best of luck Hun
PS
If that doesn't work then try super glue
dose the tick every time :-)
2006-11-13 04:34:04
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answer #11
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answered by heather_honey_2002hs 4
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