The last girl I was with was a few years ago.
We had a BAD relationship and it eneded TERRIBLY...
(she neglected to tell me she had a BF who kicked my *** for it)
I have been really guarded about meeting women since then and I can't seem to get anywhere(relationship wise, not sexually).
One problem is I DONT DRINK...AT ALL so I dont go to bars or clubs(when I did, meeting people was easier)
Im 22, fairly attractive and intelligent, so what am I doing wrong?
2006-11-13 04:26:36 · 5 answers · asked by BoRNACiD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you are just overthinking it and trying too hard. Sometimes that comes across as too needy to us females. Just relax and be yourself. I really believe there is someone out there for everyone. Sooner or later you'll find yours.
2006-11-13 04:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing you do not need to bring up your past that is done and gone do not tell people that story wasn't your fault.
If you do not Drink that is good and there are a lot of women that do just the same thing and you do not have to go to bars. How do you feel if they drink one or two if you are okay with them then you can do a lot. You can try a date web just by typing in dating You need to be careful cause there are some nut jobs out there. You can join a church and just do not go there for a date cause that is so wrong but I think you have waited to long good luck
2006-11-13 04:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being to gaurded about it. Everyones going to get threatened or beaten up eventually. You just need to get over it. Just cause you don't drink doesn't mean you can't buy a girl a drink. Bars and clubs aren't off limits, just be confident.
2006-11-13 04:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Diagonal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i bet there`s someone out there waiting 4 u just wait 4 the right time but don`t change cuz the girl who will love u will accept u the way u r.
just meet all the girl u want.
good luck!!
2006-11-13 04:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I honestly beleive that it will find YOU when you least expect it. Let your guard down and don't llok for it and it will happen when you least expect it. Maybe participating in church activities could help you find a good available woman. But if you aren't looking, it's easier to find!
2006-11-13 04:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋