Dis is how it starts....i went bak to my country 2yrs ago in da summa. i met dis guy who a yr older dan me, at first we were friend but things happen....we bcum loverz. as i left n come bak to U.S. i stil contact him and stuff. Even wen i hav to go bak to skool i stil was contactin him. Until i met dis guy "C", i been havin a crush on him since da begnin of da yr until den we met n goin out wit each otha. Datin him ova 1yr1/2, da more i noe him da more i dislikin him of things he hav been doin lately. so i call da guy in my country to c if he stil rem me...n unfortunaly he stil does n he stil feel da same way fo me, he neva ask me y i hvnt call him n he said he stil waitin fo me to come bak ova dere. N now...it's bcome a problem, i lyk both guy..."C" hav been wit me long n i got to noe him alot, he used to b swt n undastandable but not animore. But da guy in my country is more swt..undastandable...alwayz....until now he stil does. so who i should choose to b with? i lyk both of dem....
2006-11-13 04:32:07 · 10 answers · asked by s3maiy3uanh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but as it goes...more things n more question r goin thru my head. i ask "C" to change but he didnt, he said he try but he it seems lyk he neva did, turn out he even think dat im da one who shud b change. he seems lyk he care about evrythin else but me, his family doesnt lyk me and alwayz talkin trash, he wud neva say nothin about it [i neva say anithin to them bcuz i respect him n his family] i cant really let him do bcuz i hav bein with him too long, in a way i stil luv him n care fo him, im scare to let go n b regret....n i also dun want him to b sad, i dun him to kill himself [he said]. But truly he starts to bcome annoyin n i feel careless toward him, im gettin tired of carryin for him n neva get it in return.
i jus wanna b with sumone who i luv n luv me n care for me that i receive in return, dat's the guy frm my country. but scare to mak all this decision bcuz wat if it didnt wrk out btween me n da other guy. he been waitin n neva ask y i didnt call but wat if bcuz he has a
2006-11-13 06:32:28 · update #1
gf n try to b nice to me n mayb bein nice to me n cud get wit me to use me. he jus wants me to bring him ova U.S to hav a better life......how am i suppose to know wat's real n wat's best fo me??
2006-11-13 06:34:15 · update #2
Choose the one that treats you the best. If one of them has already stopped being conciderate and thoughtful, it only goes downhill from there. You deserve to be treated good.
2006-11-13 04:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look don't do anything you may regrat i was in your shoes not to long ago i have been with this boy almost a yr and he was so sweet but now things are different i started feeling like he didnt love me no more then school got back in a summer was over and some other boys started showing interest and treating me right and my bf didnt go to my school he graduated 2 yrs before me at a different school so nobody knew him and if someone u love isnt showing love or treating u right anything seems better so i dumped my bf and went with some guy i knew for a while but NEVER got to see it wasnt to much longer i started missing my MAN and i called him up he took me out to eat and told me how sorry he was and how he did love and missed me and how he would change so we talked and it took awhile and but he showed me he changed and i told him how i had try to tell him to change to begin with he jsut wouldnt listen but know he is so different he is my mr. right but the first thing i had to ask myself was did i truely love him and did i want to make it work or give up on this long of a relationship... so do u want to waste a 1yr and a 1/2 or try to make it work and there must be some love there if u been with him this long tell him how u feel and how u want him to change or he might lose you and if he doesnt kick him to the sidewalk and see what happens from there always remember every girl is beautiful and deserves to be treated good and showed some love and there are a butt load of other guys who are out there that will treat you the way u should be treated...
Hope this helps you i wish someone would have told me that but i am glad i broke up with him he ended up bring us closer togetherand now im wear a little diamond ring
2006-11-13 04:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Karen W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you sould go with the lover in ur country coz it seem that u have fallen out of love with the other guy and he is starting to be anoying u but if the guy in your country has been waiting for u to call but not ask y havent u called, it could be 2 things 1 he could also have someone else or 2 he didnt want to contact u because he really likes you and he might a thought that u wanted some space. but if u cant choose then just be friends with both and nothing more but someone is out there for u. i had the same sort of problem
2006-11-13 04:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Beth P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one in the other country he makes u feel good his feelings for you have not change and your love for each other is and has been tested through time and distance away from each other you have to know what you want i believe your heart is with the one back home but the one here is for the convience of haveing someone close to you that you can chill with and cuttle and hold you would follow your heart
2006-11-13 04:42:52 · answer #4 · answered by D.REED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the guy from the other country. You say he is much more understandable then "C". If the guy from the other country likes you for you thats all that really matters anyway. My personal opinion I would go with the guy from your country. I would want a guy that likes me for me and have alot in common..And what guy waits for a girl like that...Their really hard to find in society today
2006-11-13 04:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by shelby p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey every woman need a man that is sweet, compassionate, understanding and treat us right. what you're seing in the other guy in america is probably a sign that he isn't right for you. You should pick up little sign eary, that's how it starts. Follow what your heart feels and who it feels more for. The ohter guy in yor country sounds more a gentlemen and right for you. You deserve the best.
2006-11-13 04:39:01 · answer #6 · answered by nedjine05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in love with this guy who's already married. Are you incapable of searching a guy or woman who has no attachments? it really is interesting and interesting to have an affair with a married guy who might want to favor to fulfill you sexually. How do you be attentive to he love you too? you're in an affair which has no destiny. hence, there is not any more something to do yet decrease backtrack and detect a guy who might want to be with you and love you really.
2016-11-29 02:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
according to me watever your decision is useless
because a sincere love is only for one
so decide the whom you had the first creche
dont waste your time in these activities and concentrate onyour work
2006-11-13 04:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by avee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want help with your problem you may want to use proper English in your question... da and noe??? Talk about confusing!
2006-11-13 04:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by ginyamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one who treats you best. that simple.
2006-11-13 04:40:28 · answer #10 · answered by gorjis gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋