i have resently broken up with my hubby it been 6 mnths now i am working becoz my parents are not surpportive and know they want me to leave the job also i going throught a lot of stress please help
2006-11-13 04:27:00 · 6 answers · asked by simran 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i am 21 year old had and want to work and take care of my expencess i dont take a penny from my home nor do i eat with they.
but know they want to leave my job AND I DONT WANT TO THAT
2006-11-13 04:33:49 · update #1
You did not tell your age. Why expect your parents to support you? If you are an adult, and you chose to break up with your husband, stand up as an adult and deal with it.
Yes, it is stressful. Life is stressful. It's hard. I know because I've been there and was left with no income and two small children to support. I worked hard, cried sometimes, and raised them alone. You can survive this if I did! :o)
Chin up and all that! Hang in there! It will get better.
Sit down with a piece of paper and figure out what you want to do with your life. Set some goals and write out what you need to do to achieve those goals. Focus on reaching them.
You can go to college on government grants for example. Look into it. See what local colleges are available and what you might want to study.
Look in to technical schools.
Do something with your life. That is your choice. Not your ex's and not your parents.
Best Wishes,
Sue
2006-11-13 04:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by newbiegranny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are getting a divorce then you are old enough to tell your parents how you feel. Any kind of change in life is going to be more stressful. It doesn't mean it is a bad thing. Embrace your life, freedom and power that this new beginning will give you. Make new , better decisions and make sure that you are making life choices that will benefit you, not leave you in a state of panic and frustration. Good luck on your new life!
2006-11-13 04:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why should your parents support you? You should have a job and be on your own. If you are old enough to be married and divorced then you need to be responsible enough to take care of yourself. Why would they care where you worked. I think you need to explain your problem a little more.
2006-11-13 04:30:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u r in a high stress situation there's the danger of seeing as if people are out to get you. Maybe they are just being strict or something, explain to them athat u ned less stress
2006-11-13 04:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our sympathies are with you. GOD bless you. But it seems that your parents were not in favor this hubby. And it was your sole choice. Bcoz of that they are still enoyed.
That's Y its always better to follow parents instructions and advice in case of marriages.
2006-11-13 04:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life will always be hard for you ,lady. it is for everyone. just look forward, never look back and hold regrets for anything ok?
2006-11-13 04:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋