Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

why is it so hard to meet someone . i'm not strange my friends tell me i'm attractive . when we go out i get alot of male attention i have plenty of friends yet i can't find a boyfriend . it always seems i go out with complete idiots , they have girlfriends,or have just come out of relationships

2006-11-13 05:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been married three months. My husband wants a divorce and that is final. He won't go to couseling he won't even talk to me to work on it. A friend from my old job called to say that he was sorry he didn't make it to the wedding and my husband got really upset that I talked to him. Now he is accusing me of cheating. I don't go out with friends and he doesn't take me with him when he goes hunting. Which is every night. I don't know how to get through to him. I don't want a divorce. I love him so much. What should I do?

2006-11-13 05:18:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sis wants to marry her boyfriend. He has a 2 yr.old son. If thye get married will the child support pmt go up? Also if the ex gets married will that make the child support pmt from the dad go down?

2006-11-13 05:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by same girl/new name :) 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean a potentially good one? Why? Is it fear? I don't think I have, but have heard of it happening, might be happening to me.

2006-11-13 05:17:11 · 10 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

Is having impression on friends really imp??? if yes then why and if not then why no??

2006-11-13 05:16:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why do I keep gravitating towards them? Lately, all the guys I've been interested in have been reserved to the point of unfriendliness. Sometimes they make the effort to talk to me and hang out with me, and at other times, they ignore me or act indifferent. I get the impression that they don't care if they talk to me or not. I feel that I'm the one who does more of the legwork when it comes to maintaining the relationship (s). I can't tell if they are interested or not, because sometimes they respond well to me, and sometimes they don't. Their wishy washy behavior is confusing to me.

In the past, whenever I dated guys who wanted to spend lots of time with me and showered me with gifts/attention, I automatically started backing off. Why am I drawn to people who don't seem that interested in me and get turned off by those who are? How can I change this pattern and find a guy who will show me that he wants to be with me?

2006-11-13 05:16:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he always tells me the reason why he hides it from me is because i will get mad. i hate the fact that he talks to her and im not normally jealous but i dont like them talking because he hides it from me. i constantly want to look at his phone to see if they talked and its not all the time it kind of goes in spurts. what do i do. i told him i looked through his phone and i hate doing it but i want to know because he wont tell me. what do i do

2006-11-13 05:15:48 · 14 answers · asked by Redneck Woman 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my boifriend beraly talk and my heart is tellin me to leave but something is telling me to stay and bear it out

even my horoscope says to leave

November 14, 2006
You may feel ready to break out of a relationship that has had you in a bind for some time. If you can summon up the courage and sense of conviction, then it is perhaps best to make a clean break. The chances are that if it has been bad for you, it has been bad for your partner, too. It is time to forgive each other and move on.

2006-11-13 05:15:43 · 13 answers · asked by NunyaBizz 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i know my boy have other relation

2006-11-13 05:15:31 · 5 answers · asked by clauditza 1 in Singles & Dating

level of physical attractiveness? aka "check out"
obviously not including elderly men. whether it be someone you walk by on the street or work with or work near or see in a store or a restaurant or whatever.

2006-11-13 05:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by jeremy k 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if someone is flriting with you? Do they act thick, smile lots, listen carefully? Pleas ehlpand also how to?

2006-11-13 05:14:28 · 5 answers · asked by jackcore 2 in Singles & Dating

that's my question...

2006-11-13 05:13:49 · 13 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3 in Singles & Dating

do you want us ( men) to say and do things and not say and not do things that make you feel SAFE and SPECIAL and LOVED even if the underlying SINGULAR agenda for a man is ALWAYS to somehow get laid?

2006-11-13 05:13:09 · 21 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

I've bought him loads of thoughtful stuff for christmas too but i wanted to give him an extra treat. We've been together nearly four years and i thought he'd enjoy the idea of watchingit together and it leading to whatever............

2006-11-13 05:12:47 · 40 answers · asked by String of pearls 4 in Singles & Dating

What all do I need to gather up to get married?

2006-11-13 05:12:46 · 8 answers · asked by gizmo0013 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what are they to you,

I've been given jewelries dozens of roses and other pricy items from people from dates to christmas presents, but I prefer a teddy bear, and nothing else so extravagant, what about you

2006-11-13 05:12:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just had a son 7 weeks ago and my son father has been so mean to me,he seem like he hates me could there that much hate in the world will we ever get back together and wil he change?

2006-11-13 05:12:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how can i find a job where i live if everything is 50 miles away and i cant get to anything w/o a car? i dont know anyone and usually just hitch hike.all the factories where i live have closed or laying off. my g/f is about to kick me out...im broke...and getting desparate...???help?

2006-11-13 05:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by alterego4maddawg 1 in Singles & Dating

I am new to this place and i wanna ask u ppl that wat should i do so as to gain confidence. I am very very sensitive also...plzzz suggest me some methods so that I can get rid of sensitiveness.No spam please and if u really understand my prob then only answer.

2006-11-13 05:11:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

They say and seem really turned on, but can't keep it going. What could reasons be? Too much excitement? Too little? Just trying to understand, cause i know it's uncomfortable for guys, when it happens, and me too!

2006-11-13 05:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by CuteChic 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i met this guy over the internet in this chat room he says thes 19 and lives in cali but is movin to washinton im sopse to talk to him again tonight. ive been talkin to him about a week he seems really sweet. he says he wants to meet me but im not sure cuz im only 15 whatdo i do

2006-11-13 05:10:23 · 7 answers · asked by tymeydee 1 in Singles & Dating

i cheated on my b.f over the summer and he was really hurt. then theres this new girl who is new at school and she keeps bringing it up like its a big deal. all i did was give some one 5 years older than me head.... (im 13). she wouldnt drop it! im like stfu victoria and shes like ur a s l u t and im like no im not and shes like yes u are. and she wants to get in a fight with me and im like no. really, im scared she will kick my asssssss.... grrrr what do i do?

2006-11-13 05:10:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it okay to marry your friend's mom. She is a widow and she is 40 yrs old.

2006-11-13 05:08:54 · 11 answers · asked by Mr Business 3 in Singles & Dating

Well just this recently his mother made a visit to my parent's house to talk with my parents, she was mad and pissed off because of what happen to be a hear say from her youngest son. Saying that we were getting engaged but his mother was furious with me and sayed she wouldn't allow us to be dating anymore and sayed by the end of this week we better be over with each other and moved on to different relationship but the truth is He still loves me and doesn't care what his mother says, so we have been snicking around on her but she still knows we are going strong and just last night he told me not to worry about this, But this morning I woke up to see his mom at my front door banging on the door like a damn cop. I was like what the ****? what is she trying to do? than he comes out of his vehcile knowing waht met happen next i was like what is all this and to tell you the truth he stood up for me talking back to his mother.So what should i do i know he is probably gonna pop the question.

2006-11-13 05:08:38 · 18 answers · asked by Tilly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 05:08:34 · 16 answers · asked by HUSTLER 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok , I been with my man for 4 years and sex has died down from the way it was in the beginnig, we both work and raise our kids and we get exhausted. Well last week for the first time in a long time my man hasnt been able to keep his hands off me and just attacking me everynight for a week straight (no complaints beleive me) My question is do men go through those types of spirts and will this continue?

2006-11-13 05:06:39 · 14 answers · asked by onehotmama 2 in Singles & Dating

For me i really am sick, and call in normally if it is pretty bad. I don't want to be spreading around to my co-workers, making other people sick and ending up costing more money for company. As sexist this may sound but i noticed frequently that women call in much more than the men too.

2006-11-13 05:06:09 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

She likes heels and once she said would want white heels.
I found this pair and I think it's pretty sexy for her, she has great legs and wears skirts...
Do you think she will like them? To wear with a denim mini for a night out...

2006-11-13 05:05:14 · 6 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 05:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by Babygurl Alex!! 1 in Singles & Dating

with someone cos u r long distance and havnt seen her for ages cos of lack of funds to travel and she told u would u dump her

2006-11-13 05:04:30 · 7 answers · asked by mikealedmonds 1 in Singles & Dating