I just had a son 7 weeks ago and my son father has been so mean to me,he seem like he hates me could there that much hate in the world will we ever get back together and wil he change?
2006-11-13 05:12:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My personal suggestion is be patient, you just had a baby and you might be a little emotional still and going through post-partum. I would tell you let him do his thing for a couple weeks (maybe he'll figure out his issues during this time), be patient and don't nit-pick (I'm not saying however for you to sit there and be disrespected, by all means hell no). After having a baby I was very emotional, my twins are now 7 months old and things are better but I thought I hated him and I treated him mean, so the shoe was on the other foot. Honestly though a child or kids change people and their relationship, so be patient.
Also if you believe in a higher power prayer and read or do something else you like and don't stress the situation too much (I know it's easier said than done) but only time will tell the truth. The last thing you want is to end up in the hospital because you're over-stressed.
2006-11-13 05:24:38 · answer #1 · answered by sweettrini1012 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if he will change or not. Maybe it's his way of letting you know he is finished with you. If so, it is a low-down sorry way to communicate. No one deserves to be mistreated for any reason. I do hope you can see that you are worthy of being treated kinder than he is treating you. For the sake of sanity and safety I hope you can move on without this guy.
2006-11-13 13:16:19 · answer #2 · answered by Catie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know sweetie, but i don't know if I would want to get back with him if he's going to be like that
2006-11-13 13:33:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋