Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

I've been dating a lovely man for 4 months and the other night we were talking and somehow got on the subject of me becoming a character in a movie because i kind of look like her and he said that i have until i'm her age (7 years). I made a joke and was like what if i don't know you then and i learned it all for nothing? and he asked why i wouldnt know him then and i said because 7 years can be a long time.. and he just looked me and said 'so?'
It was almost as if it offended him that i'm saying in 7 YEARS we may not be together (i'm realistic)

Is that a good sign?

2006-11-13 05:46:51 · 5 answers · asked by attila 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 05:46:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How many people can HONESTLY say that they have loved someone? No infatuation, not lust, i have seen to many people say I have know this person for 1 month and we really love each other. Why do people throw that word around like its the new fad? Help me out here.!!..!

2006-11-13 05:46:00 · 23 answers · asked by pimp 1 in Singles & Dating

when a bartender is interested in you and not just for a hook-up. there is this guy who works at the corner bar and yelled"i love you" to me when i left one night,but i just kept walking out. he has my number and he has never used it.

2006-11-13 05:45:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so theres this boy.........he gave me his # and i didnt call him but still talked to him in school and after a while i started liking him and were on the verge of getting into a relationship ........whats weird id that aty first i really didnt like him and now its like i cant stop thinking about him(in a good way)........i just cant....what does this mean?

2006-11-13 05:45:29 · 8 answers · asked by Queen 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 05:45:00 · 10 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Singles & Dating

my little sibling (little sister)
says she wants to hold my snake
and i keep saying no but she keeps asking
(the snake is seriusly poisonus )
(and my little sister is like 11 years old
how do i tell her i dont want her to touch my snake without seeming mean ( or scaring the living crap out of her)

2006-11-13 05:44:26 · 8 answers · asked by lain 1 in Family

2006-11-13 05:43:43 · 18 answers · asked by Thebronx 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 05:43:43 · 17 answers · asked by OilCrazy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've lots of friends but when i feel lonely or i need someone to cry on his shoulder i never think about them,, i always think about my dream man.. i mean i am not easy girl ..i can't tell my friends about my problems,i prefer to talk about my problems with strangers who i never talked to them before, do you think i'm strange girl,, or that's normal?

2006-11-13 05:43:33 · 8 answers · asked by venus 1 in Singles & Dating

Is promiscous behaviour a symptom of bipolar, i have recently been diagnosed and I have been having sex with 3 different men in the past month. I am starting to worry if it will affect my 3 kids, but I don't think it will I am a responsible mother. I am divorced which is good because my husband was abusive

2006-11-13 05:43:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After a long night of passion, the young guy rolled over, pulled out a cigarette from his jeans and searched for his lighter. Unable to find it, he asked the girl if she had one at hand.

"There might be some matches in the top drawer," she replied.

He opened the drawer of the bedside table and found a box of matches sitting neatly on top of a framed picture of another man. Naturally, the guy began to worry.

"Is this your husband?" he inquired nervously.

"No, silly," she replied, snuggling up to him.

"Your boyfriend then?" he asked.

"No, not at all," she said, nibbling away at his ear.

"Well, who is he then?" demanded the bewildered guy.

Calmly, Tony replied, "That's me before the operation."

2006-11-13 05:42:31 · 17 answers · asked by G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was just curious to see how many people had a big wedding vs. running off. I myself ran off 2 months after my 18 birthday and got married. We were planning a wedding but my honey came home on leave and we couldn't wait. None of our family or friends were there. What was your wedding like?

2006-11-13 05:41:53 · 25 answers · asked by ♥just me♥ 5 in Weddings

2006-11-13 05:41:51 · 7 answers · asked by Marino 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 05:41:41 · 8 answers · asked by Latoya T 1 in Singles & Dating

If a man breaks up with a woman....through your experience, do they usually regret it and call the woman to ask her back or will they never call her again...ever???

2006-11-13 05:40:48 · 18 answers · asked by skeptical 1 in Singles & Dating

A question for guys: How much minimum you would have to be paid to make a fictitious marriage?

2006-11-13 05:40:14 · 14 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I only got married a little over a month ago, and we haven’t had sex since the day after our wedding. It would seem pretty cut and dry but let me add to that, I am six months pregnant and he is pretty stressed b/c he recently lost his job and we are financially insecure. Before the wedding, sex had slowed down for us but has since come to a grinding halt. I have tried many tactics including calm conversation, coming on to him, acting uninterested, etc. He has a plethora of excuses: stressed out, unhappy with his own physical appearance, doesn’t want to hurt the baby… I have told him I would rather end things sooner than later if his feelings have changed but he insists it will get better soon and that he loves me more than anything. If I thought my physical appearance were the reason, I wouldn’t bother writing. Other than this huge problem he is very affectionate toward me and talks a lot about the future. Please help me I don’t want to cry myself to sleep another night.

2006-11-13 05:39:28 · 23 answers · asked by questiongurl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently started dating a guy after being dumped by someone i spent four year with. I love both guys, and my ex recently told me he wanted me back. I told him i didn't want to be with him, because he had broken up with me five times in the four years we'd been together and i didn't want to go through it again. my new boyfriend is a wonderful guy that treats me like gold, but lately i can't stop thinking about my ex and i have never felt about anybody what i feel about him. I'm torn on what to do because i love my ex in completely different way than i have ever loved, but i'm afraid to trust him. My new boyfriend treats me better, but i don't feel the same about him. Who do i choose?

2006-11-13 05:39:09 · 10 answers · asked by krazy_chic6944 3 in Singles & Dating

An old man goes to the Wizard to ask him if he can remove a curse he has been living with for the last 40 years.

The Wizard says, "Maybe, but you will have to tell me the exact words that were used to put the curse on you."

The old man says without hesitation - "I now pronounce you man and wife."

2006-11-13 05:39:00 · 7 answers · asked by G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 05:38:58 · 11 answers · asked by phyllis_gene_levy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My Boyfriend SHOULD I BE ANGRY?? HELP!?
Okay i love my stupid boyfriend but i can't stand his friends (he knows this) well anyways we've been together 3 years and i'm trying to be accepting so i always suggest to go out with them.. well last night we went to a cafe and they had a fooseball table the guys and him left me and another girl (one of the friends wives) at the table to go play.. anyways when it was time to go he said he could hitch a ride with his friends (he let me go home alone) he was just going to his friends house for an hour and he was going to go home well needless to say i never got a damn call back no wait he called to tell me they went to inn and out and then when i called him 1 1/2 hours later he said he was at his friends house and he tried calling but i didn't pick up and then he said he was going to call me when he got home... well he DIDN'T and now i'm really angry... so i don't know what to do.. should i stay angry with him and pick a fight or should i let it go because he rarely hangs out w/ them.

2006-11-13 05:38:22 · 18 answers · asked by candylbsb45 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm so shy sometimes and I guess I'm afraid of being judged by him, I don't want to make a fool of myself. But I want to be able to be myself so he knows who I am and what I'm really like. How can I stop being so shy around him?

2006-11-13 05:37:51 · 3 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Singles & Dating

ok well I picked my maid of honor which is my best friend ive known her for a long time...the problem that im runnning into is for mine and my fiances engagment party she said she didnt hve any money to give us a gift which I didnt care but she didnt even give a card...now shes telling me to find out about the dress because she wnts to start putting money away for it now cause she has no money cause she doesnt get payed very much at her job...ive told her if she thinks being the maid of honor is going to be to expensive let me know and ill choose someone else and just hve her as a brides maid but she said no I can do it..but I need to let her know about things before everyone else cause she really has no money....my fiance thinks I shouldnt hve her do it but I dnt know what to do...she obviously wont give us a gift for our wedding or at the bridal shower......please help.....

2006-11-13 05:37:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know either way you lose, but if you had to choose what would feel worse walking in on them or you partner walking in on you?

2006-11-13 05:37:20 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My situation do not involve kids but adult children. Can someone relates how to deal with situations when they do not want their parents to have another man besides their father or even date one. Another problem is that they come to visit and mess up the house with their children and cook and leave that mess their and want you to find someone to clean up after them. Someone knows what I am talking here and appreciation of response will surely give you the ten straight points.

2006-11-13 05:36:47 · 5 answers · asked by JoJoBa 6 in Family

2006-11-13 05:35:09 · 23 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

Me n this girl went out a few times, we work together sometimes at our part time job. I admitted to liking her, she said she liked me as well. We then went out one time after that, then midterms came. She works 3 jobs plus school n is busy all the time, i work one part time job plus school, n im free almost all the time. We havent done ne thing together since the time b4 midterms, ive seen her a few times at work, and we talk online still. We have made plans to go to a concert, i had an extra ticket, her friends didnt buy her one. I want to ask her if she still likes me, i would do so online cus she has said she likes talking online to ppl, plus i wouldnt want to put her on the spot face-to-face. I don't know if she still likes me, n if i should ask or not. We had previously agreed to take things slow, but it has pretty muched stalled. I would like to get the ball rolling again, but im unsure if she still wants 2, plus i regret having not kissed her yet, n i would like another chance

2006-11-13 05:34:22 · 5 answers · asked by joel 2 in Singles & Dating

How do ou say"will you go out with me" if you are shy, or unsure if they like you. Also how do you tell if she likes you, how can you send tjhem that you like them?

O and how do you do it ovr msn?

2006-11-13 05:33:54 · 17 answers · asked by jackcore 2 in Singles & Dating

Sure, it's before "G*d," but WHICH ONE?

2006-11-13 05:33:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce