My Boyfriend SHOULD I BE ANGRY?? HELP!?
Okay i love my stupid boyfriend but i can't stand his friends (he knows this) well anyways we've been together 3 years and i'm trying to be accepting so i always suggest to go out with them.. well last night we went to a cafe and they had a fooseball table the guys and him left me and another girl (one of the friends wives) at the table to go play.. anyways when it was time to go he said he could hitch a ride with his friends (he let me go home alone) he was just going to his friends house for an hour and he was going to go home well needless to say i never got a damn call back no wait he called to tell me they went to inn and out and then when i called him 1 1/2 hours later he said he was at his friends house and he tried calling but i didn't pick up and then he said he was going to call me when he got home... well he DIDN'T and now i'm really angry... so i don't know what to do.. should i stay angry with him and pick a fight or should i let it go because he rarely hangs out w/ them.
2006-11-13 05:38:22 · 18 answers · asked by candylbsb45 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he just wanted to hang out with a friend... and this would probably go over nicely with you if you liked his friends. People's friends reflect who they are. I think the issue here is, are you willing to accept your boyfriend, and his friends, the way they are? He has something in common with these friends and that is why they hang out together. Wouldn't it be nice to have a boyfriend with friends you truly liked? Don't pick a fight about this.. it is who he is. What is there to fight about? I'd take a long, good hard look at your companion and decide if he's offering you what you want.
2006-11-13 05:44:11 · answer #1 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, yes i would be angry as you went there together so you both should leave together unless it was pre-arranged. but maybe the reason why he did not call you anymore is because he is assuming you are already asleep. don't pick a fight but let him know you did not appreciate as to what happened last night. and maybe come up with a compromise as what is each one's responsibility for next time. good luck
2006-11-13 05:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by toffee-ettes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to figure out if you really love him enough to forgive him when he makes you angry.
if you can let him know he made you angry, and get over it, and be happy in the relationship, then that's how you work on it.
ask him to please be more considerate of you next time, and if it's a night or 2 out with just his buddies that he's after, tell him that's cool with you but you would like to be able to go out with him with them without being ditched in the middle of it.
work it out so that there are no more hidden problems in this issue. compromise is the key.
if he can't compromise in this, maybe you should rethink the relationship compatibility issue.
2006-11-13 05:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by smartkid37138 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he rarely hangs out with them (once a month) than maybe it can slide if your understanding, but other than that your right to be mad at him and he should be more considerate of you. Maybe next time you should go out without him and not call him for the whole night and let him worry about you.
2006-11-13 05:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by 10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't bodily lashed out at you yet he ought to easily be wanting you to vent to. enable him blow off steam and do not take something he says to heart. Be solid. do not cower and shy away. Stand with one foot ahead and one foot promptly down which include your palms crossed and pay interest to him. locate out what's in the back of his anger and at the same time as he has petered out communicate with him about resolutions to the priority. Then at yet yet again possibly elevate anger administration. Oh and ignore concerning the spanking guy. that's all properly and good for relaxing interior the mattress room in case you want it yet under no circumstances subjugate your self to that actual dicipline in a courting.
2016-10-16 08:47:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF IT IS A RARE THING, THEN I WOULD JUST TALK. NOT PICK A FIGHT. I WOULD LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU WERE GLAD HE GOT TO HANG OUT WITH OLD FRIENDS, BUT IT MADE YOU FEEL LIKE A THIRD WHEEL AND ALSO NOT IMPORTANT SINCE HE DIDN'T CALL WHEN HE SAID. THAT YOU GOT CONCERNED SINCE IT WAS OUT OF CHARACTER FOR HIM TO NOT CALL WHEN HE SAID HE WOULD.
2006-11-13 05:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by baptism_by_fire_2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. I had no idea how tough women were on men until I started using yahoo answers. They try to rule them with a rod of iron. Is he a good boyfriend? Does he care about you? Honestly, you're his girlfriend, not his boss. Give him a break.
2006-11-13 05:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Katya-Zelen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest talking to him and if he does not want to correct the problem, he thinks more of his guy friends than you. If so you need to go and find someone who wants to get to know you and be with you and teat you with the respect that you deserve. He is totally disrespecting you and you should not have to put up with that. Look out for yourself number one!
2006-11-13 05:45:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go, this is a one time thing. But I would tell him that you do not appreciate walking or going home by yourself.
I hope I helped
2006-11-13 05:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and talk it out with him and see what kinda excuse he gives and if he gives a lame one, find yourself a nicer better boyfriend
2006-11-13 05:41:32 · answer #10 · answered by Big-Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋